Reframing Perspectives with Payal Beri, PhD
What if the most powerful reframe you could offer someone wasn't how to give help — but how to receive it without losing yourself in the process? This week on Reframing Perspectives, I sit down with Miguel Centeno, the Vice President of Community Engagement at Healthfirst, a son of Bronx public housing, and a man whose entire life has been shaped by guardian angels who chose to invest in him. Miguel walks us through the lesson his parents taught him before he understood what it meant — you don't need dollars to have dignity — and the second half of that lesson he's spent his career trying to teach back to the rest of us: there is also dignity in accepting help. We talk about the woman named Susan Luger who prepared him and his sister for entrance exams that opened doors his parents didn't know existed. The walk down a steep hill to the public bus while his classmates climbed onto private ones. The high school guidance counselor who told him to "be more realistic" about Columbia — and the family who told him if they accepted you, it's because they believe you can do the work. And the families he later sat across from in a Bronx homeless shelter, where the question "where would you prefer to live?" became an act of dignity itself. This conversation is for every changemaker who has ever felt the weight of doing the work, and every leader who has ever forgotten that the people on the other side of the work are human first. What we explore: * Why Miguel's parents' lesson — you don't need dollars to have dignity — became the foundation of his life and career * The reframe most of us miss: that there is dignity in receiving help, not just giving it * Susan Luger, the guardian angel who prepared Miguel and his sister for entrance exams that changed everything * The two-worlds dance: walking down the hill from Fieldston to the public bus while classmates were chauffeured home * The high school guidance counselor who told him to be "more realistic" about Columbia — and the family voice that pushed him through * The Higher Education Opportunity Program: equity in action and the power of having someone tell you you are not alone * A morning at a family homeless shelter when one question — "where would you prefer to live?" — shifted everything * Why we do well by doing good — and what AI can never replace * The leadership principle Miguel lives by: you are not just an employee to me. You are a human being. A question to sit with this week: Where in your life are you letting pride get in the way of the help that could carry you closer to your purpose? Connect with Miguel and Healthfirst: * Healthfirst: healthfirst.org * Learn more about community engagement at Healthfirst: healthfirst.org/community Listen, subscribe, rate, share: If this conversation moved you, the most meaningful thing you can do is share it with one person who needs to hear it. Subscribing and leaving a review helps more changemakers find this space — and that is how this work compounds. For more on the a deep dive from this episode, subscribe to my Substack: https://substack.com/@drpayalberi Connect with Dr. Payal Beri & Reframing Perspectives: * Instagram – Dr. Payal: https://www.instagram.com/dr.payalberi [https://www.instagram.com/dr.payalberi] * Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@payalberi?sub_confirmation=1 [https://www.youtube.com/@payalberi?sub_confirmation=1] * LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/payalberi [https://www.linkedin.com/in/payalberi] * Speaking & Media: https://www.drpayalberi.com [https://www.payalberi.com]
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