Relentless by Candice Hans

ACCEPTANCE! Accept your partner for who they are, stop trying to change them. If you are looking for a project, buy an old piece of furniture and restore it.

I’ve only been married once, and I only have about 10 almost 11 years of experience in this area of life. Of course there might be people listening to this episode wondering who died and made you the expert on marriage, Candice? So let me clarify that upfront. I’m no expert, I’m just a girl who met a guy who fell madly in love and wondered where the hell all that love disappeared too literally the day after we got married.

Sometimes our minds are like a mixtape, we are constantly recording, clicking rewind and playing the same tracks back to ourselves over and over again.  Are our mixtape's or the words that are being played on a loop in our minds,  serving us or are they limiting us?

It’s so important to know who you are. And to have conviction about who you are & what you want. You are a whole person, with good, bad, quirks & imperfections. When we embrace ourselves fully, we leave no room for others to use ours flaws against us.

Lessons I've learnt about getting to grips with reality as it unfolds. Choosing more positive  narratives to accompany the scenes of my life. The hardest part is losing attachment to  controlling tendencies.