Let's Talk About Burnout

Let's Talk About Burnout

Hosted by Cass Cooper What if work-life balance was never actually possible? In the premiere episode of Season 3 of Right There With You, Cass Cooper unpacks the pressure of trying to “balance” life inside systems that reward exhaustion, over-functioning, and constant productivity. This episode explores: * why burnout is often a systems issue, not a personal failure * the difference between balance and rhythm * high-functioning burnout and emotional fatigue * identity, ambition, and overextension * rebuilding after self-doubt, disruption, and reinvention Cass also shares the deeply personal truth behind relaunching the podcast again after years of helping other people amplify their voices while quietly questioning her own. This conversation is not about perfection. It’s about honesty. Because clarity is how we stop surviving chaos and start leading through it. ABOUT CASS COOPER Cass Cooper is a speaker, writer, strategist, and leadership advisor known as The Chaos Whisperer™. Her work focuses on leadership, emotional intelligence, burnout prevention, organizational culture, communication, and clarity in high-pressure environments. Through speaking, consulting, podcasting, and digital education, Cass helps leaders, creators, and organizations navigate complexity while building more sustainable and human-centered ways of working and living. She is the founder of Know Better Do Better Consulting and Know Better Studios. KEY TAKEAWAYS * Work-life balance is often an unrealistic expectation, not a sustainable strategy * Burnout can show up as numbness, disconnection, and loss of self * High performers frequently normalize overextension * Sustainable leadership requires rhythm, not perfection * Clarity starts with honesty about what is no longer working CONNECT WITH CASS COOPER Website: iamcasscooper.com [http://www.iamcasscooper.com]LinkedIn: Cass Cooper on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/cassrcooper]TikTok: @just_cass2.0 [https://www.tiktok.com/@just_cass2.0] WANT MORE? If this episode gave language to the exhaustion, overwhelm, or misalignment you’ve been carrying, the Burnout Bundle was built for exactly this kind of season. Because burnout is not always about doing too much. Sometimes it’s about carrying a life that no longer fits.

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A leadership podcast that breaks down burnout, work-life rhythm, and the hidden systems shaping how we work and live. Hosted by Cass Cooper, The Chaos Whisperer™, each episode diagnoses real challenges and gives you the clarity to lead through them.

Look Back At It: 2025 in Review

It’s the end of 2025 and 2026 is “coming in hot,” so Ciarra and Cass take a breath and do what we all say we’re going to do… but rarely actually do: look back at the year with honesty. They unpack the messy mix of grief and growth, the pressure Black women carry to be “perfect,” and how burnout shows up in the body (including Ciarra’s vocal nodules). From hustle identity to community care, they explore what it means to build a life that’s not just productive, but humane. The episode closes with a powerful “sacred dissent” exchange—each friend naming what they hope the other carries into 2026: less pressure, more self-trust, deeper receiving, and a reminder that you don’t have to “arrive” to be worthy. 🌿 Find Cass & Ciarra Online ✨ Instagram: @RightThereWithYouPod [https://www.instagram.com/righttherewithyoupod?igsh=c2pyNDd5YXExZnp0&utm_source=qr]✨ Patreon: https://patreon.com/TheGardeningTheologian?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLinkpatreon.com/thecommunitygarden [http://patreon.com/thecommunitygarden] https://patreon.com/TheGardeningTheologian?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink✨ Cass: http://www.iamcasscooper.com/iamcasscooper.com [http://iamcasscooper.com] | TikTok @just_cass2.0 [https://www.tiktok.com/@just_cass2.0]✨ Ciarra: http://ciarajonesconsulting.com/ciarajonesconsulting.com [http://ciarajonesconsulting.com] | TikTok @thegardeningtheologian [https://www.tiktok.com/@thegardeningtheologian]

Hell, Whiteness, and the Myth of Punishment: A Conversation with Tamice Spencer-Helms & Brian Recker

What if God was never a punisher—and hell was never the point? In this powerful episode of Right There With You, hosts Cass Cooper and Ciarra Jones sit down with public theologians Tamice Spencer-Helms (Faith Unleavened) and Brian Recker (Hell Bent) to explore how fear, whiteness, and Christian supremacy have shaped American Christianity and the spiritual lives of millions. Together, they unpack: * How hell theology produces fear, shame, and control * Why a punitive view of God leads to a punitive society * The role of whiteness in shaping Christian identity, belonging, and power * What it means to be Black, queer, and spiritually rooted outside colonized faith * How to heal from religious trauma and rebuild spirituality in love * Why restorative justice aligns more with Jesus than fear-based salvation * The wilderness between Trayvon Martin and George Floyd—and what liberation looks like after loss This conversation is tender, challenging, funny, and liberating. It’s for anyone navigating deconstruction, exvangelical healing, racial justice, queerness, parenting, divorce, co-parenting, or redefining their relationship to God. If you’ve ever feared hell, questioned God’s love, or felt pushed out of church spaces—you’re right there with us. ---------------------------------------- FEATURED GUESTS TAMICE SPENCER-HELMS Author of Faith Unleavened: The Wilderness Between Trayvon Martin & George Floyd Founder, theologian, cultural critic, and co-creator of The Ember Gathering, a post-evangelical liberation event. BRIAN RECKER Author of Hell Bent: How the Fear of Hell Holds Christians Back from a Spirituality of Love Former evangelical pastor, restorative justice advocate, and co-founder of The Ember Gathering. 🌿 Find Cass & Ciarra Online ✨ Instagram: @RightThereWithYouPod [https://www.instagram.com/righttherewithyoupod?igsh=c2pyNDd5YXExZnp0&utm_source=qr]✨ Patreon: https://patreon.com/TheGardeningTheologian?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLinkpatreon.com/thecommunitygarden [http://patreon.com/thecommunitygarden] https://patreon.com/TheGardeningTheologian?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink✨ Cass: http://www.iamcasscooper.com/iamcasscooper.com [http://iamcasscooper.com] | TikTok @just_cass2.0 [https://www.tiktok.com/@just_cass2.0]✨ Ciarra: http://ciarajonesconsulting.com/ciarajonesconsulting.com [http://ciarajonesconsulting.com] | TikTok @thegardeningtheologian [https://www.tiktok.com/@thegardeningtheologian]

The Male Gaze is NOT Ministry: Feminism, Faith, and the Fight for Sacred Agency

In this episode of Right There With You, Cass and Ciarra tackle the uncomfortable truth: the male gaze is not ministry. From pulpits to platforms, patriarchal theology has long defined what holiness looks like—especially for women and queer folks. Together, they explore how deconstruction, feminism, and faith intersect when the church’s obsession with purity, power, and performance collides with real people’s lives. The conversation dives deep into spiritual grooming, gendered accountability, sexual repression, and performative forgiveness, asking: what happens when control is mistaken for care? Cass and Ciarra illuminate the path toward sacred agency, reminding listeners that embodiment, truth-telling, and community care are not rebellion—they’re revival. 🌿 Find Cass & Ciarra Online ✨ Instagram: @RightThereWithYouPod [https://www.instagram.com/righttherewithyoupod?igsh=c2pyNDd5YXExZnp0&utm_source=qr]✨ Patreon: https://patreon.com/TheGardeningTheologian?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLinkpatreon.com/thecommunitygarden [http://patreon.com/thecommunitygarden] https://patreon.com/TheGardeningTheologian?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink✨ Cass: http://www.iamcasscooper.com/iamcasscooper.com [http://iamcasscooper.com] | TikTok @just_cass2.0 [https://www.tiktok.com/@just_cass2.0]✨ Ciarra: http://ciarajonesconsulting.com/ciarajonesconsulting.com [http://ciarajonesconsulting.com] | TikTok @thegardeningtheologian [https://www.tiktok.com/@thegardeningtheologian]