Story. Lesson. Advice.

You probably realize once it's too late that you're now sitting in the results of your bad decision. But, why, and HOW did you get here? And, why and HOW can you prevent this in the future? Website: SIDMEDIA.NET Resonate, twice monthly newsletter (free): https://justins-newsletter-29a568.beehiiv.com/subscribe Shop my suggestions: https://www.sidmedia.net/store-1 IG:  @SaturdayisDadurdaymedia [https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCZ1lGnZbas2k4f8p7j3JWUw]  00:00: Getting Un-Stuck 00:35  Story - The bad decision 02:30  Lesson - Procrastination and our feelings 03:53  Advice - Four Steps to Making Better Decisions 04:33  Step 1 - Pen to paper: a Good day 06:07  Step 2 - A bad day  07:00  Step 3 - Where good days go bad 08:16  Step 4 - Putting it into practice  09:38  One Good Decision Check out this related video:    https://youtu.be/nb-mEnRXpmM?si=P9bKg5Lbe8Wnbv29 Check out the Story. Lesson. Advice. Podcast here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/919333/142...  Have a topic suggestion for the show? Email me at saturdayisdadurday@gmail.com  Music by Purple-planet.com Music by Wondershare Filmora 12

This week, it's all about the lessons to learn.  Right now, in this moment,,,this is her childhood. Put the phone down , pay attention, be involved . Every time you get frustrated at spilled water or “it’s time for a bath” and there is a struggle, my lesson is that this….these moments are what is going to shape her inner voice. All of my reactions and my attitude help create and shape her childhood - and I want to make sure that at a minimum, I’m not creating more issues for her and at my best I’m helping create a wonderful childhood.  Enjoy the moment because it will never happen again.  I think back to all those times I missed - I’ll never get them back. I’ll never get back the feeling of sitting on a rooftop patio in downtown Chicago overlooking the river on a beautiful spring day with friends…why? Because I was so busy not living in the moment. I’ll never get back those missed fun times with college friends playing video games or going out for brunch because I was so focused on something else. I’ll never get back all of the fun times in a new city like Dallas when I was finally making enough money to enjoy myself a little…why? Because I was chasing some phantom b.s. I created in my head.  Men look to solve problem…sometimes it’s ego and in those cases, we as men need to shut up and not be the hero. Sometimes it’s out of a place of love and wanting to help. But, often times, our wives need to just express themselves out loud…because, if they say this at work, they are often labeled emotional by their older white male supervisors…if they express themselves or exhale with friends they can even seen as high maintenance or ungrateful … And,- they are smart and more than capable of solving their own problems  and the advice we would  give by interrupting their story, “well if your car was low on gas, you should probably put gas in it”…that’s not gonna help the situation.  Stop trying to impress strangers . Spend time with yourself understand why you are doing that - what is the reason why you so focused on the outward? I had to ask myself those questions and I think it ultimately boiled down to wanting to feel like I belonged - that I was liked by people, that I was accepted…so I chased things that I thought would put me in that position or elevate me in others eyes…and all it did was waste time and take away from me building out my life. SID Media Life advice.Cooking vids.Book reviews.Product reviews. @saturdayisdadurdaymedia on YouTube and IG Check out the Story. Lesson. Advice. Podcast here:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/919333/14216914 [https://www.buzzsprout.com/919333/14216914]  Have a topic suggestion for the show? Email me at saturdayisdadurday@gmail.com  Music by Purple-planet.com Music by Wondershare Filmora 12  Connect on IG: @saturdayisdadurdaymedia

Hello everyone, a quick update here. Starting in October, a refreshed version of all things SID Media will be hitting the channel. I still have several videos coming out over the next two months. Thanks for the support and see ya soon! SID Media Life advice.Cooking vids.Book reviews.Product reviews. @saturdayisdadurdaymedia on YouTube and IG   Check out this related video:  https://youtu.be/QtyASmEZ2F4?si=w_yRSENYi3L5-Ljw    Check out the Story. Lesson. Advice. Podcast here:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/919333/14216914    Have a topic suggestion for the show? Email me at saturdayisdadurday@gmail.com    Music by Purple-planet.com Music by Wondershare Filmora 12    Connect on IG: @saturdayisdadurdaymedia

This week,  I take a break from my regularly scheduled programming to bring you...my pet peeves! Can you relate? Check out this related video: https://youtu.be/QtyASmEZ2F4?si=w_yRSENYi3L5-Ljw  Check out the Story. Lesson. Advice. Podcast here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/919333/14216914  Have a topic suggestion for the show? Email me at saturdayisdadurday@gmail.com  Creatine Monogydrate gummies: Greabby (affiliate link below) https://amzn.to/3YkkvfJ Music by Purple-planet.com Music by Wondershare Filmora 12  Connect on IG: @saturdayisdadurdaymedia

In this week's episode, I discuss not dwelling on your problems and the issues that result if you do.    For the sponsor I wish I had, it's all about the Dr….Dr. Scholl's Plantar Fasciitis Pain Refilf Orthotic Insoles: Affiliate link: https://amzn.to/4eK2YDp [https://amzn.to/4eK2YDp]   Just the Tip: Match your cutting board and knife to the food.   Whisper In @attractions360 Check out this related video:  https://youtu.be/QtyASmEZ2F4?si=w_yRSENYi3L5-Ljw  Check out the Story. Lesson. Advice. Podcast here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/919333/14216914  Have a topic suggestion for the show? Email me at saturdayisdadurday@gmail.com  Music by Purple-planet.com Music by Wondershare Filmora 12  Connect on IG: @saturdayisdadurdaymedia