The Avoidant Spiritual Path

Scott’s Cry for Helpers

In this episode, Scott breaks down the codependency and trauma of helpers. Visit repressiontest.com to start this work. If you are a helper, message Scott on What’s App to be trained. The number is 1-812-204-4324.

Scott’s High Strangeness—Memoirs of the Unconscious

Scott discusses the otherworldly and extra-dimensional details of his latest e-book which is free if you join his Instagram chat group here: https://www.instagram.com/channel/AbZebuk7cyuIHeCL/

The Dangers of Disembodied Spirituality

In this episode, Scott speaks to the overlooked reality behind the spiritual search, addressing how the hidden shadow is completely missing from the beginning of most spiritual paths. He explores how contemporary spirituality contains both seekers and "finders—both of whom have missed the true root of suffering. This blind spot inevitably creates toxic trauma bonds between teachers and students, as well as within spiritual communities at large. Scott challenges listeners to stop ignoring the core issues and instead start looking at our spiritual practices and frameworks through the lens of the trauma that creates our suffering. True freedom cannot be found by simply hoping that someday we will be healed without having to face the pain. To break these cycles, we must directly confront and feel the deeply embedded childhood pain that has been driving our behavior and seeking from the very beginning. To dig deeper into this work and stay updated, join Scott’s newsletter and take his free test at repressiontest.com.

The Avoidant Spiritual Path

Back by popular demand following the Insider’s View of an Avoidant social media shorts, Scott Kiloby dives deep into how the avoidant attachment style subtly hijacks spirituality. This episode explores the hidden mechanics of spiritual bypassing, showing how the pattern remains completely invisible to those running it because it is driven by deeply buried emotions and unmet childhood needs. If you are trapped in a pleasure-pain cycle where your spiritual practices actually prolong your suffering rather than healing it, this conversation is for you. Learn how to spot these hidden traps, stop avoiding your avoidant nature, and finally break the loop to find true, grounded emotional liberation. Join Scott’s Third Dimension Membership Level on YouTube and end the cycle of avoidance.

Needism - How to Find Safety and Love Within

Are you constantly chasing safety, validation, or love from the world around you, only to find yourself still feeling empty, anxious, or in pain? In this episode, Scott Kiloby dives deep into Needism—a profound exploration of how our unmet emotional needs drive adult suffering. Scott answers frequent listener questions about how we can finally meet our own internal needs by properly processing our emotions, rather than looking for external fixes. We map out exactly how emotional repression forms in our earliest attachment years and follows us into adulthood, creating a cycle of unconscious suffering. More importantly, Scott lays down a practical, actionable path to help you start meeting your core needs for safety and love from within. Key Takeaways from the Episode The Roots of Needism: How our earliest relationship attachments set the blueprint for how we handle—or repress—our deepest emotional needs. The Illusion of the External Fix: Why trying to get your needs met outside of yourself is a losing battle that only prolongs adult suffering. The Power of Processing: A deep dive into the mechanics of emotional processing and how letting yourself fully feel can dissolve decades of repression. Your Path to Inner Safety: Scott’s foundational steps to begin cultivating genuine love, security, and safety within your own system today. The moment you stop demanding the world mirror back the safety you crave, and instead learn to anchor that safety inside your own body, the cycle of suffering ends. Visit repressiontest.com to begin Scott’s work and to be automatically added to his newsletter.