September: A Podcast For Loveships

37. Urgent versus Important

28 min · 14. juni 2026
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On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis distinguish what is urgent (time-based) from what is important (value-based) amid capitalist pressures. Using experiences around Black Feminist Film School production and podcast scheduling, they emphasize that clarity about the important attracts community support, while urgency can undermine rest and presence. They invite listeners to a virtual Juneteenth Patreon date night and take a listener question on addressing a loved one dating someone potentially harmful. * Urgent vs Important Explained * Scarcity and Stolen Time * Rest, Boundaries and ‘Passing It On’ For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Because love is living with purpose join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 If you are in Durham, join us for Black Feminist Revival services the last Sunday of the month at Northstar Church of the Arts. Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ [https://sangodare.podia.com/]  alexispauline.com [http://alexispauline.com]  sangodare.com [http://sangodare.com]  CONNECT WITH US Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/mobilehomecoming] Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mobilehomecoming] Website [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Produced by Wowow Podcasts [https://www.wowowpodcasts.com/]

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episode 39. Love To Offer Our Lives artwork

39. Love To Offer Our Lives

On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis introduce love as a collective superpower, arguing that love’s fullest power is not individual or confined to isolated couples or the nuclear family but lives on the scale of community and collective freedom. Drawing from Angela Davis’s autobiography, they highlight how her story centers collective support and love as forces that propelled her political commitment. They share 3 “North Stars” and call for social relations where all are loved and no one is sacrificed. * Love Is Collective * Love Beyond Individualism * Tapping Into Presence If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534 [https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534] You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you.  For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 [https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1] And connect with us on the channels below! RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ [https://sangodare.podia.com/]  alexispauline.com [http://alexispauline.com/]  sangodare.com [http://sangodare.com/]  CONNECT WITH US Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/mobilehomecoming] Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mobilehomecoming] Website [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Produced by Wowow Podcasts [https://www.wowowpodcasts.com/]

28. juni 202611 min
episode 38. An Unreasonable Love (Go Knicks!) artwork

38. An Unreasonable Love (Go Knicks!)

On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis celebrate the New York Knicks winning their first NBA championship in 53 years, and how sports and fandom connects to the legacy of collective love and teamwork. Using Alexis’s Dad’s Knicks loyalty as a metaphor, they offer three north stars about how love is it’s own reason and answer a listener question about whether or not it makes sense to have a goal oriented approach to relationships. * Love Unreasonably * Lessons From Knicks Fandom * Chrysalis Purpose Roadmap If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534 [https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534] You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you.  For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 [https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1] And connect with us on the channels below! RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ [https://sangodare.podia.com/]  alexispauline.com [http://alexispauline.com/]  sangodare.com [http://sangodare.com/]  CONNECT WITH US Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/mobilehomecoming] Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mobilehomecoming] Website [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Produced by Wowow Podcasts [https://www.wowowpodcasts.com/]

21. juni 202619 min
episode 37. Urgent versus Important artwork

37. Urgent versus Important

On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis distinguish what is urgent (time-based) from what is important (value-based) amid capitalist pressures. Using experiences around Black Feminist Film School production and podcast scheduling, they emphasize that clarity about the important attracts community support, while urgency can undermine rest and presence. They invite listeners to a virtual Juneteenth Patreon date night and take a listener question on addressing a loved one dating someone potentially harmful. * Urgent vs Important Explained * Scarcity and Stolen Time * Rest, Boundaries and ‘Passing It On’ For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Because love is living with purpose join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 If you are in Durham, join us for Black Feminist Revival services the last Sunday of the month at Northstar Church of the Arts. Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ [https://sangodare.podia.com/]  alexispauline.com [http://alexispauline.com]  sangodare.com [http://sangodare.com]  CONNECT WITH US Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/mobilehomecoming] Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mobilehomecoming] Website [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Produced by Wowow Podcasts [https://www.wowowpodcasts.com/]

14. juni 202628 min
episode 36. We Go Together (Announcement) artwork

36. We Go Together (Announcement)

If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534 [https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534] Join before June 19th (Juneteenth!) to be at our first virtual hangout session. #datenight You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you.  For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 [https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1] And connect with us on the channels below! RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ [https://sangodare.podia.com/]  alexispauline.com [http://alexispauline.com/]  sangodare.com [http://sangodare.com/]  CONNECT WITH US Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/mobilehomecoming] Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mobilehomecoming] Website [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Produced by Wowow Podcasts [https://www.wowowpodcasts.com/]

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episode 35. Love To Shake It Up artwork

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In this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis define what it does and doesn’t look like to spend intentional time together. They distinguish vacations, staycations and jaunts and how they draw distinction and boundaries between these experiences and work and family trips. They recount a recent jaunt involving deep conversations, play, and a near–EV battery mishap and cite Gwendolyn Brooks on blooming in the whirlwind. They answer a listener question about play and how levity builds agility, flexibility, and rediscovery.  * Jaunt Vacation Staycation * Calendar Boundaries * Anniversary Jaunt Reflections * Announcements and Farewell If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534 [https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534] For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 [https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1] Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ [https://sangodare.podia.com/]  alexispauline.com [http://alexispauline.com]  sangodare.com [http://sangodare.com]  CONNECT WITH US Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/mobilehomecoming] Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mobilehomecoming] Website [https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship] Produced by Wowow Podcasts [https://www.wowowpodcasts.com/]

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