Speak Up. Show Up. Lead. Podcast: The Resilience Leadership Podcast with JJ Hardy

Self Love, Empathy & Narcissism | Growth Forge Edition with JJ Hardy & Vic "Lil Saint"

41 min · 8. juni 2026
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What happens when self-love becomes self-absorption? Where is the line between healthy confidence and narcissism? And how does empathy change the way we lead, communicate, and build relationships? In this episode of Speak Up. Show Up. Lead. – Growth Forge Edition, JJ Hardy and Vic "Lil Saint" break down the key lessons from Chapter 2 of The Concise Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene: Transform Self-Love into Empathy. Together, they explore the narcissism spectrum, the difference between healthy and unhealthy self-love, why empathy is one of the most powerful leadership skills, and how understanding people can improve your relationships, influence, and personal growth. Whether you're a leader, entrepreneur, veteran, coach, or someone committed to self-mastery, this conversation will challenge the way you think about yourself and the people around you. In This Episode: The narcissism spectrum explained Healthy vs. toxic self-love Why empathy is a leadership superpower Recognizing narcissistic behaviors Understanding people without judging them Emotional intelligence and self-awareness Personal growth and self-mastery lessons Leadership insights from Robert Greene Subscribe for more conversations on leadership, ownership, communication, emotional intelligence, and personal development. #SpeakUpShowUpLead #GrowthForge #JJHardy #LilSaint #Leadership #Empathy #Narcissism #SelfLove #EmotionalIntelligence #RobertGreene #HumanNature #PersonalGrowth #SelfMastery #LeadershipDevelopment #CommunicationSkills #Ownership #Mindset #VeteranEntrepreneur #LeadershipPodcast #PersonalDevelopmentPodcast

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