Relapses & Resentments

Beyond the Bottle: The Truths We Can’t See

Join us for an honest dive into the alcoholic’s hidden struggle to face reality, inspired by Sponsor House’s 8am Big Book study with James and Jackie. This episode explores how self-deception, denial, and rationalization don’t disappear with sobriety. We uncover powerful insights from The Doctor’s Opinion and real-life stories in the Big Book that reveal the journey to clarity—not just in recovery, but in every aspect of life. Check out the Sponsor House list of live and Zoom meetings at sponsorhouse.org, or drop into a live meeting at "Gisondi's Nook" located at 250 Bryant Avenue in White Plains, New York.

Relapses & Resentments

This excerpt from a longer piece delves into the psychological and neurobiological factors that make relapses particularly challenging for alcoholics. The author, Harry O, argues that the struggle is often rooted in a heightened sense of ego and self-centeredness, which he describes as "full trigger selfish mode." This heightened ego manifests in self-pity, self-reproach, and a preoccupation with others’ perceptions, hindering progress in recovery. The author explores the underlying psychological reasons for this phenomenon, including identity reconstruction, social stigma, and the influence of attachment styles. The author ultimately advocates for a holistic approach to recovery that addresses these psychological and neurobiological factors to foster a more sustainable and supportive recovery process. Check out the Sponsor House list of live and Zoom meetings at sponsorhouse.org, or drop into a live meeting at "Gisondi's Nook" located at 250 Bryant Avenue in White Plains, New York.