008 - 4 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Taking Advice From Anyone

008 - 4 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Taking Advice From Anyone

In this episode, we dive into 4 questions to ask yourself before taking advice from anyone, especially from people close to you. I unpack how to build discernment, break free from subconscious people-pleasing, and develop the muscle of self-trust in an age of information overload. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by conflicting opinions & information overload, and having trouble connecting to your inner voice, this is for you. Key moments: 0:00 Intro 2:00 The importance of cultivating discernment in personal relationships 4:35 #1 - Care vs. confirmation bias 7:50 #2 - What does this person actually know about my inner world? 12:08 #3 - You are your own expert & other people’s opinions are fickle 15:54 #4 - Is there a kernel of truth here? 17:15 Summary If what I share resonates with you, please: - Share this episode with a friend! - Hit the subscribe button, leave a comment / rating Follow me on: Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/omikajikaria/ TikTok -- https://www.tiktok.com/@omikajikaria Substack -- omikajikaria.substack.com YouTube -- https://www.youtube.com/@omika.jikaria

007 - The 4 Sneaky Ways You’re Holding Yourself Back (And How to Break Free)

Are you feeling stuck, like something - or someone - is holding you back from your next big move? In this episode, we break down the real reasons behind what's keeping you from reaching your goals, dreams, and full potential. We dive deep into the external forces that may be sabotaging your success (like toxic people and systemic barriers) AND the sneaky ways you may be unknowingly sabotaging yourself. This isn't your typical "just stop procrastinating" advice. We’re going in - covering the hidden habits like needing permission, fear of judgment from people you know, oversharing too early, and using degrees or mentors as crutches. This episode is a mix of personal insights, practical tools, and tough love to help you finally break free from the patterns holding you back. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur, creator, or just navigating a major life shift - this episode will help you identify your self-sabotage traps and start moving forward with clarity and confidence. 🎧 Tune in to learn: - How to recognize external vs. internal sabotage - The subtle ways you give your power away - A powerful fear-of-judgment exercise that actually works - Why imposter syndrome might be a lie - The real reason you’re starting and stopping projects Timestamps: 00:00 Intro: Feeling Held Back? Let’s Talk About It 01:03 When Others Hold You Back 03:00 Sneaky Behavior #1: Waiting for Permission 05:56 Sneaky Behavior #2: Oversharing Your Plans Too Soon 07:38 Sneaky Behavior #3: Fear of Judgment 09:50 Sneaky Behavior #4: The Truth About Imposter Syndrome 10:55 Signs You’re Caught in a Self-Sabotage Loop 12:13 How to Break Free If what I share resonates with you, please: - Share this episode with a friend! - Hit the subscribe button, leave a comment / rating Follow me on: Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/omikajikaria/ TikTok -- https://www.tiktok.com/@omikajikaria Substack -- omikajikaria.substack.com YouTube -- https://www.youtube.com/@omika.jikaria

006 - The Power of Polarity: Navigating Inner Conflict with Clarity

Have you ever felt like you’re living two lives? In this episode, we dive deep into the tension many of us feel when our values seem to contradict each other -- stability vs. adventure, creativity vs. structure, cultural expectations vs. personal desires. I open up about my own journey -- from corporate America to creative pursuits, from big tech to working at a nonprofit -- and how value polarity has shown up at every step. Most importantly, I share 3 powerful mindset shifts to help you make peace with these contradictions and actually use them to your advantage. Whether you're feeling stuck in indecision or unsure which path to take, this episode is for you. IN THIS EPISODE: - What “value polarity” is and why it matters - Real-life examples of how conflicting values can shape your career and life - Three mindset shifts to navigate your own polarity with clarity and confidence Timestamps: 0:00 Intro - feeling pulled in two directions 0:40 What is value polarity? 1:26 Examples of contradictory values 2:05 The "choose one" myth 2:54 My career timeline through polarities 4:40 Reframing value tension - 3 key ideas 9:20 Real-life example: moving from NY to TX 11:50 Living a more integrated life If what I share resonates with you, please: - Share this episode with a friend! - Hit the subscribe button, leave a comment / rating Follow me on: Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/omikajikaria/ TikTok -- https://www.tiktok.com/@omikajikaria Substack -- omikajikaria.substack.com YouTube -- https://www.youtube.com/@omika.jikaria

005 - How Quitting Alcohol Transformed My Dating Life (3 Unexpected Benefits)

In this episode, we dive into how quitting alcohol not only improved my mental and physical well-being but also completely transformed my dating life. Join me as I share the surprising benefits I experienced after going fully sober, including how it helped me attract healthier relationships and better understand myself. From my history with alcohol to how it interfered with my personal growth and even my Reiki energy healing, I talk about the taboo of not drinking, especially in social settings, and why I finally made the decision to quit. You'll hear about the three unexpected benefits of sobriety when it comes to dating: * How I started attracting the right people by weeding out the wrong ones * How I stopped relying on "beer goggles" to judge my dates * How quitting alcohol unlocked my super strong intuition I’ll also touch on how decentering men and embracing your quirks and values can lead to deeper, more authentic connections. Timestamps: 00:00 Why it took me so long to go fully sober 01:02 Quitting alcohol improved my dating life 01:45 In our society, it’s taboo to not drink unless you have a “reason” 02:15 How alcohol is antithetical to a spiritual path 02:56 Alcohol + mental health (hangxiety) 03:19 How alcohol interferes with Reiki energy healing 04:20 Binge drinking habits in business school (MBA program) 05:13 Benefit #1 = It became easy to weed out the wrong people 05:40 I could tell who wanted to be my drinking buddy vs. life partner 07:23 The importance of allowing people to get to know the real you 10:01 Benefit #2 = No more beer goggles 10:15 Is this actually fun? Or is alcohol making this fun? 12:22 Taking shots is just a way to connect with people 13:03 Benefit #3 = Super strong intuition 15:07 Decentering men! 15:38 When you show up as yourself, people can meet you where you are If what I share resonates with you, please: - Share this episode with a friend! - Hit the subscribe button, leave a comment / rating Follow me on: Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/omikajikaria/ TikTok -- https://www.tiktok.com/@omikajikaria YouTube -- https://www.youtube.com/@omika.jikaria Substack -- omikajikaria.substack.com

004 - The 3 Hidden Mindset Blocks Keeping You Stuck (And How to Break Free)

If you've ever felt like a problem is all your fault, will ruin everything, and/or will never go away, this episode is for you. I break down the 3Ps, a cognitive trap identified by psychologist Martin Seligman. I talk about how these mental biases keep us stuck and, more importantly, how to break free from them. If you’re ready to shift your mindset, reframe challenges, and stop letting problems control you, tune in! If what I share resonates with you, please: - Share this episode with a friend! - Hit the subscribe button, leave a comment / rating Follow me on: Instagram -- https://www.instagram.com/omikajikaria/ TikTok -- https://www.tiktok.com/@omikajikaria YouTube -- https://www.youtube.com/@omika.jikaria Substack -- omikajikaria.substack.com