Why I No Longer Call Myself a Self Love Coach

Your Life Is Happening Right Now: How to Stop Waiting and Be Present

July 3 Have you been telling yourself that you will enjoy your life more when things calm down? When the house is cleaner, the kids need less, your schedule opens up, your body feels better, your relationships improve, or you finally feel caught up? In this episode, Marci Owen shares a heartfelt reminder for women who are tired of living in management mode, waiting for the “perfect season,” or pre-grieving moments before they are even over. Drawing from recent family time, a Yellowstone trip, summer memories, and the small moments that often matter most, Marci explores why so many women struggle to stay present in their own lives. You will learn how anxiety, over-responsibility, and protective patterns can keep you focused on what needs to be managed instead of what is already good. This episode is an invitation to stop postponing joy, connection, rest, and aliveness until everything feels easier. Your life is not waiting somewhere in the future. It is happening right now. In this episode, you will learn: * Why waiting for life to calm down can become a protective pattern * The difference between managing your life and actually living it * How anxiety and overthinking can pull you out of the present moment * Why you may pre-grieve meaningful experiences before they are over * A simple practice to help you return to what is happening right now If you are a Christian mom or midlife woman who feels overwhelmed, emotionally tired, anxious, or disconnected from the goodness in your own life, this episode will help you slow down, breathe, and come back to yourself. 🌟 Useful Links & Resources from Marci ✨  3 Secrets to Instantly Feel Better Scroll to the bottom of this page [https://marciowen.com/] for quick, powerful tips to shift your emotional state fast. 💖 Join the Self Love YOUniversity A supportive space where Christian women learn to love themselves deeply, show up confidently, and live with purpose.   👉 Click here to enroll or learn more [https://selfloveyouniversity.com/] 🧭 Book a FREE Clarity Call Want to feel more grounded, calm, and confident—starting now? Let’s talk.   🎯 Schedule your free call here [https://claritycallwithmarciowen.as.me/?appointmentType=21310230] 💌 Get Marci’s Emails Real encouragement, practical tips, and personal insights to keep your heart strong and your mind grounded.   📬 Click here to join the list [https://www.subscribepage.com/l9n7l9_copy] 🔗 Visit My Website: To learn more visit www.marciowen.com [https://marciowen.com/] 🙏 Love the Podcast? Please take a moment to leave a review on your favorite platform. It truly helps more women find this work—and I’d love to hear your thoughts, insights, or questions. 📲 Stay Connected Email: marci@marciowen.com     Instagram: @marci.owencoaching [https://www.instagram.com/marci.owencoaching] Facebook: Marci Owen Coaching [https://www.facebook.com/marciowencoaching] Episode Website [https://marciowen.com]

How to Stop Carrying Everyone’s Emotions: Over-Responsibility, Overgiving, and Motherhood Burnout

Do you feel like everyone in your family hands you their invisible basket—and somehow you end up carrying the schedules, the moods, the forgotten details, the conflict, the dinner plans, and everyone else’s disappointment? In this episode, Marci Owen talks about the protective pattern of over-responsibility: the part of you that feels like it is your job to keep everyone happy, prevent conflict, remember everything, manage the mood in the room, and make life work for everyone else. You will learn how to recognize when love has quietly turned into over-functioning, why capable and caring women can become exhausted and resentful, and how fear of disappointment, disconnection, conflict, or losing love can keep you carrying what was never yours to hold. Marci shares a simple “basket check” to help you identify what belongs to you, what belongs to someone else, and what you may be ready to put down. This episode will help you support the people you love without disappearing under the weight of their emotions, choices, responsibilities, and reactions. You are allowed to care without carrying it all. You are allowed to love without over-functioning. And you are allowed to let other people have their own agency while you come home to yourself. 🌟 Useful Links & Resources from Marci ✨  3 Secrets to Instantly Feel Better  Scroll to the bottom of this page [https://marciowen.com/] for quick, powerful tips to shift your emotional state fast. 💖 Join the Self Love YOUniversity A supportive space where Christian women learn to love themselves deeply, show up confidently, and live with purpose.   👉 Click here to enroll or learn more [https://selfloveyouniversity.com/] 🧭 Book a FREE Clarity Call Want to feel more grounded, calm, and confident—starting now? Let’s talk.   🎯 Schedule your free call here [https://claritycallwithmarciowen.as.me/?appointmentType=21310230] 💌 Get Marci’s Emails Real encouragement, practical tips, and personal insights to keep your heart strong and your mind grounded.   📬 Click here to join the list [https://www.subscribepage.com/l9n7l9_copy] 🔗 Visit My Website:  To learn more visit www.marciowen.com [https://marciowen.com/] 🙏 Love the Podcast? Please take a moment to leave a review on your favorite platform. It truly helps more women find this work—and I’d love to hear your thoughts, insights, or questions. 📲 Stay Connected Email: marci@marciowen.com     Instagram: @marci.owencoaching [https://www.instagram.com/marci.owencoaching] Facebook: Marci Owen Coaching [https://www.facebook.com/marciowencoaching] Episode Website [https://marciowen.com]

When “I’m Fine” Is Not the Truth: Understanding Fawn Mode

Have you ever said, “I’m fine,” when you were not fine at all? Maybe you said it to keep the peace, avoid conflict, prevent someone from being disappointed, or protect the relationship. On the outside, you looked calm, agreeable, helpful, and easygoing. But inside, you felt hurt, overwhelmed, resentful, lonely, unseen, or afraid to tell the truth. In this episode of The Courageous and Confident Christian Mom Podcast, Marci Owen teaches about fawn mode, people-pleasing, self-abandonment, and the fear of losing connection. Fawn mode is a nervous system response that can cause you to say yes when you mean no, hide your true feelings, avoid hard conversations, ignore your own needs, and prioritize everyone else’s comfort over your own truth. For many women, especially in motherhood, marriage, family relationships, and Christian living, “I’m fine” becomes a protective pattern. It may look like patience, kindness, flexibility, or keeping the peace, but underneath it may be fear: If I tell the truth, will I still be loved? Marci helps you understand why your body may know the truth before your mouth can say it, how people-pleasing creates resentment and emotional disconnection, and why self-abandonment is not the price of love. You’ll learn how to recognize when “I’m fine” is not honesty but protection, and how to begin coming home to yourself with compassion, emotional honesty, and self-respect. In this episode, you’ll learn: * What fawn mode is and how it shows up in relationships * Why people-pleasing can be a nervous system response * How saying “I’m fine” can become a protective pattern * Why self-abandonment creates resentment and emotional exhaustion * How fear of conflict and fear of rejection affect communication * How to tell the truth to yourself before speaking it out loud * How to be loving, kind, faithful, and honest without disappearing If you have ever struggled with people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, emotional honesty, boundaries, resentment, or saying yes when you mean no, this episode will help you understand yourself with more compassion and begin listening to the truth inside of you. You do not have to disappear to be loved. You can be kind and honest. You can be faithful and clear. You can keep connection without abandoning yourself. 🌟 Useful Links & Resources from Marci 👩🏻‍🦳Get my free Mother From Strength Guide and receive two downloads to help you release guilt, rethink old motherhood beliefs, and return to mothering from peace, truth, and strength. Click HERE [https://www.subscribepage.com/q6k9d2] to download ✨  3 Secrets to Instantly Feel Better Scroll to the bottom of this page [https://marciowen.com/] for quick, powerful tips to shift your emotional state fast. 💖 Join the Self Love YOUniversity A supportive space where Christian women learn to love themselves deeply, show up confidently, and live with purpose.   👉 Click here to enroll or learn more [https://selfloveyouniversity.com/] 🧭 Book a FREE Clarity Call Want to feel more grounded, calm, and confident—starting now? Let’s talk.   🎯 Schedule your free call here [https://claritycallwithmarciowen.as.me/?appointmentType=21310230] 💌 Get Marci’s Emails Real encouragement, practical tips, and personal insights to keep your heart strong and your mind grounded.   📬 Click here to join the list [https://www.subscribepage.com/l9n7l9_copy] 🔗 Visit My Website: To learn more visit www.marciowen.com [https://marciowen.com/] 🙏 Love the Podcast? Please take a moment to leave a review on your favorite platform. It truly helps more women find this work—and I’d love to hear your thoughts, insights, or questions. 📲 Stay Connected Email: marci@marciowen.com     Instagram: @marci.owencoaching [https://www.instagram.com/marci.owencoaching] Facebook: Marci Owen Coaching [https://www.facebook.com/marciowencoaching] Episode Website [https://marciowen.com]

Their Effort Is Not Your Grade: Letting Go of Motherhood Guilt

Have you ever watched your child struggle, pull away, make choices you would not choose, or seem to stop trying — and immediately made it mean something about you as a mother? Maybe they do not call or text as often as you wish. Maybe they are struggling with school, relationships, motivation, faith, emotional health, work, or life choices. Maybe they are not showing the effort you hoped they would. And somewhere inside, the questions begin: What did I do wrong? Did I not teach them enough? Was I too hard? Too soft? Did I fail them somehow? In this episode of The Courageous and Confident Christian Mom Podcast, Marci Owen speaks directly to the hidden emotional report card many mothers carry. When our children’s effort, choices, communication, and outcomes become evidence of whether we are a good mom, motherhood guilt can become heavy, exhausting, and relentless. Marci explains why your child’s effort is not your grade. Their motivation, communication habits, spiritual journey, emotional growth, choices, and willingness to change belong to them. You can love, guide, support, teach, pray, repair, and stay connected — but you cannot carry their agency or make their life choices your report card. This episode will help you step out of fear, over-responsibility, and self-blame so you can mother from truth, love, and self-respect. In this episode, you’ll learn: * Why mothers often measure their worth through their children’s choices and effort * How motherhood guilt can turn into fear, over-functioning, and emotional exhaustion * Why your child’s behavior, communication, and motivation are not a reflection of your value * How to separate facts from the painful meaning you make about yourself * What belongs to your child and what belongs to you * How to love without controlling, rescuing, or carrying what is not yours * How to return to peace when your child is struggling or making choices you cannot control If you are a mom who worries deeply about your child’s future, replays your parenting decisions, feels responsible for their happiness, or wonders whether their struggles mean you failed, this episode will offer relief, perspective, and a path back to truth. You are responsible for the mother you choose to be. You are not responsible for controlling the person your child chooses to become. 🌟 Useful Links & Resources from Marci ✨  3 Secrets to Instantly Feel Better Scroll to the bottom of this page [https://marciowen.com/] for quick, powerful tips to shift your emotional state fast. 💖 Join the Self Love YOUniversity A supportive space where Christian women learn to love themselves deeply, show up confidently, and live with purpose.   👉 Click here to enroll or learn more [https://selfloveyouniversity.com/] 🧭 Book a FREE Clarity Call Want to feel more grounded, calm, and confident—starting now? Let’s talk.   🎯 Schedule your free call here [https://claritycallwithmarciowen.as.me/?appointmentType=21310230] 💌 Get Marci’s Emails Real encouragement, practical tips, and personal insights to keep your heart strong and your mind grounded.   📬 Click here to join the list [https://www.subscribepage.com/l9n7l9_copy] 🔗 Visit My Website: To learn more visit www.marciowen.com [https://marciowen.com/] 🙏 Love the Podcast? Please take a moment to leave a review on your favorite platform. It truly helps more women find this work—and I’d love to hear your thoughts, insights, or questions. 📲 Stay Connected Email: marci@marciowen.com     Instagram: @marci.owencoaching [https://www.instagram.com/marci.owencoaching] Facebook: Marci Owen Coaching [https://www.facebook.com/marciowencoaching] Episode Website [https://marciowen.com]

How Silent Expectations Create Resentment in Motherhood and Marriage

Have you ever felt hurt, resentful, or disappointed because someone you love didn’t do something that felt obvious to you? Maybe your adult child didn’t call. Maybe your husband didn’t notice you needed help. Maybe someone didn’t answer your text, remember what mattered to you, or show up the way you hoped. In this episode of The Courageous and Confident Christian Mom Podcast, Marci Owen teaches about the silent expectations many women carry in motherhood, marriage, and family relationships. These hidden expectations can become “secret tests” that other people don’t even know they’re taking. Using the metaphor of an owner’s manual, Marci explains how we often create invisible rulebooks for our children, spouse, friends, and even ourselves. These manuals may include beliefs like, If they love me, they should know. If they care, they should call. If I matter, they should notice. But when expectations stay unspoken, resentment can grow. This episode will help you understand how silent expectations, unmet needs, people-pleasing, emotional responsibility, and fear of rejection can create distance in relationships. You’ll learn how to recognize your hidden manuals, uncover the tender longing underneath resentment, and begin using your voice with love, honesty, and self-respect. In this episode, you’ll learn: * How silent expectations create resentment in motherhood and marriage * Why loved ones may be failing tests they didn’t know they were taking * How to recognize hidden relationship “manuals” * Why “they should know” can keep you stuck in hurt and disappointment * How to identify the unmet need underneath resentment * How to communicate clearly with love and self-respect * Why using your voice is not needy, selfish, or controlling If you’ve ever thought, I shouldn’t have to ask, this episode will help you pause, get curious, and begin creating more honest connection in your relationships. You do not have to keep mothering, loving, or relating through secret tests. You are allowed to want what you want, name what matters, and use your voice with compassion and truth. 🌟 Useful Links & Resources from Marci ✨  3 Secrets to Instantly Feel Better Scroll to the bottom of this page [https://marciowen.com/] for quick, powerful tips to shift your emotional state fast. 💖 Join the Self Love YOUniversity A supportive space where Christian women learn to love themselves deeply, show up confidently, and live with purpose.   👉 Click here to enroll or learn more [https://selfloveyouniversity.com/] 🧭 Book a FREE Clarity Call Want to feel more grounded, calm, and confident—starting now? Let’s talk.   🎯 Schedule your free call here [https://claritycallwithmarciowen.as.me/?appointmentType=21310230] 💌 Get Marci’s Emails Real encouragement, practical tips, and personal insights to keep your heart strong and your mind grounded.   📬 Click here to join the list [https://www.subscribepage.com/l9n7l9_copy] 🔗 Visit My Website: To learn more visit www.marciowen.com [https://marciowen.com/] 🙏 Love the Podcast? Please take a moment to leave a review on your favorite platform. It truly helps more women find this work—and I’d love to hear your thoughts, insights, or questions. 📲 Stay Connected Email: marci@marciowen.com     Instagram: @marci.owencoaching [https://www.instagram.com/marci.owencoaching] Facebook: Marci Owen Coaching [https://www.facebook.com/marciowencoaching] Episode Website [https://marciowen.com]