Ep #13: The Moment You Blame Women… You Lose Your Power

Ep #23: Why Tech Men Don't Open Up in Dating

You're disciplined. You're successful. You solve hard problems for a living. But when it comes to dating, you hesitate. And it's not because you're not good enough. It's because everything you've been trained to do at work: minimize errors, eliminate uncertainty, perfect before you ship, is working against you the moment another person enters the equation. In this episode, Julia breaks down why analytical, high-achieving men struggle to open up in dating. Why the independence that makes you exceptional professionally creates walls in your personal life. Why perfectionism isn't preparation but actually fear dressed up as logic. If you've ever over-thought an approach, waited for the "right moment" that never came, or felt like you're performing on dates instead of actually connecting, this one's for you. Learn more about Julia Malakiman at TheDatingAdvisory.com

Ep #22: The Truth About Giving to Women

Most men think giving is about the woman. You pay for the date, you give her your time, your attention, your energy, and she receives it. Simple exchange, right? Wrong. The person who benefits most from giving is actually you. And in this episode, Julia gets into why that changes everything about how you show up with women. We're talking about the difference between real giving and transactional giving and why most men are doing the second one without even realizing it. Julia breaks down what "the manual" is and how it quietly hands your emotional experience over to her. And we talk about what it actually feels like to give your time, your presence, and your attention with zero strings attached. That's the shift. And it starts with understanding why you're giving in the first place.

Ep #21: You Can't Make Her Like You

A lot of men approach dating with the belief that if they say the right thing, act the right way, or become impressive enough, they can make a woman like them. But that's not how attraction works. In this episode, Julia shares a recent dating experience that perfectly illustrates why trying to convince someone to choose you is a losing game. She talks about self-esteem, people-pleasing, performance mode, and the freedom that comes when you stop trying to earn someone's interest. The right woman won't need convincing. Your job isn't to get every woman to like you. Your job is to become the kind of man who shows up confidently, authentically, and consistently enough to meet the women who already want what you have to offer. If you've ever found yourself wondering, "Why doesn't she like me?" this episode is for you.

Ep #20: The Mental Habit That Creates Confidence

Most men assume their dating struggles come from a lack of confidence, better conversation skills, or knowing the perfect thing to say. But what if the real problem starts much earlier? In this episode, Julia breaks down how automatic thoughts shape your emotions, behavior, and ultimately your dating results. You'll learn why your brain isn't giving you an objective view of reality, how negative thought patterns become self-fulfilling prophecies, and why the stories you tell yourself around women may be creating the very outcomes you fear. Julia also shares two practical tools to help you replace self-defeating beliefs with more empowering ones, allowing you to approach women with greater confidence, ease, and authenticity. If you've ever found yourself thinking, "She's out of my league," "I don't know what to say," or "I don't want to bother her," this episode will show you how to challenge those thoughts and create a new reality.

Ep #19: Stop Leaving Love to Chance

Most men approach their careers with a clear plan but approach dating with hope, luck, and uncertainty. In this episode, Julia explores why that happens and how it may be keeping you stuck. You'll learn why goal-setting works so naturally in areas like education and career development, yet feels foreign when it comes to relationships. Julia breaks down how cultural conditioning, fear of rejection, social media narratives, and self-doubt can create a lack of direction in your dating life, causing you to wait for something to "just happen" instead of actively creating the outcome you want. If you've ever felt lost, discouraged, or unsure where to start with dating, this episode will help you stop waiting for love to happen and start creating a clear path toward the relationship you want.