Why Men Struggle to Ask for Help in Dementia Care (with Ron Beleno)

Inside the Broken System Destroying Elderly Lives (with Susie Singer Carter)

What if Hollywood’s dementia problem is not just what it shows, but what it leaves out? In this episode, Andrew Karesa [https://www.linkedin.com/in/andykaresa/] sits down with filmmaker, writer, director, producer, and caregiver advocate Susie Singer Carter [https://www.linkedin.com/in/susiesingercarter/] to explore dementia, storytelling, long-term care, and the responsibility that comes with representing people who are too often misunderstood. Susie shares the story of caring for her mother, Norma, how her experience shaped the Oscar-qualified short film My Mom and the Girl. The film was inspired by one extraordinary night in her mother’s life, a night filled with confusion, music, humour, tenderness, and unexpected connection. The conversation also moves into Susie’s documentary series No Country for Old People, which was born from her mother’s final months in long-term care. After her mother suffered neglect in a highly rated facility, Susie began uncovering a much larger crisis around staffing, accountability, ageism, and the way vulnerable residents can disappear inside broken systems. Andrew and Susie also examine dementia representation in Hollywood. They discuss why some portrayals feel authentic, why others can mislead, and how aging is too often turned into a caricature. Susie challenges the entertainment industry to tell better stories, not just more dramatic ones. This is a conversation about caregiving, advocacy, stigma, film, and the fight to keep people with dementia visible, valued, and human. In this episode: • How Susie’s caregiving journey shaped My Mom and the Girl • Why ethical storytelling matters in dementia representation • The line between honesty and exploitation • What Hollywood gets wrong about aging and dementia • Why some dementia stories can reinforce stigma • The long-term care crisis behind No Country for Old People • How neglect, understaffing, and ageism shape care • Why caregivers need better information before crisis moments • How storytelling can expose harm, preserve dignity, and push for reform Whether you are a caregiver, advocate, filmmaker, healthcare worker, or someone trying to understand dementia beyond stereotypes, this conversation asks us to look more carefully at the stories we tell, the people we overlook, and the systems we allow to continue. Learn more at:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.bluebellvillage.ca⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.bluebellvillage.ca⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] ⁠https://www.gogirlmedia.com/ [https://www.gogirlmedia.com/] My Mom and The Girl: https://vimeo.com/266772460 [https://vimeo.com/266772460] ——— Join The Village and help shape conversations like this by submitting questions to our guests: https://www.patreon.com/cw/blueBellVillage [https://www.patreon.com/cw/blueBellVillage] ——— Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. It should not be used to diagnose, treat, or prevent any medical condition. Always consult your physician or another qualified healthcare provider regarding any questions you may have about a medical condition or treatment. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Andrew Karesa, blueBell Village Ltd., or any of its employees, contractors, or team members.

The Growing Pressure on Working Caregivers (with Cindy Diogo)

In this episode, ⁠Andrew Karesa [https://www.linkedin.com/in/andykaresa/]⁠ sits down with ⁠Cindy Diogo⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/cindydiogo/], CEO and Co-Founder of ConSoul [https://www.consoulapp.com/], to explore what it means to support employees who are caring for a loved one living with dementia. Drawing on her background in HR and People & Culture, as well as her own family caregiving journey, Cindy reflects on the growing reality that more families are trying to navigate dementia care while still holding down a job.   Together, Andrew and Cindy talk about the specific pressures dementia creates for working caregivers. They discuss the long arc of increasing care needs, the challenge of coordinating appointments and support, the emotional strain of watching a loved one decline, and the reality that many people are trying to manage all of it quietly while remaining “productive” at work.   Cindy also shares how her own family experiences, including her grandmother’s advanced vascular dementia, shaped her understanding of care and helped lead her to build ConSoul. The conversation explores what employers often miss about dementia caregiving, why flexibility matters, and how current systems still leave too many families feeling unsupported and alone.   This is a conversation about dementia, work, and the invisible weight so many caregivers carry every day. In this episode: • What makes dementia caregiving different in the workplace • Why increasing care needs create growing pressure on families • How Cindy’s family experience with dementia shaped her work • What employers often misunderstand about dementia caregivers • Why flexibility matters for families navigating appointments and care • What resources caregivers may already have access to • Why many caregivers still hide their reality at work • What needs to change as more families face dementia at home Whether you are supporting someone living with dementia, trying to balance care with work, or wanting to build better systems around families, this episode offers an honest look at what caregivers are carrying and what real support can look like. Learn more at: ⁠https://www.bluebellvillage.ca⁠ [https://www.bluebellvillage.ca⁠] ⁠https://www.consoulapp.com⁠ [https://www.consoulapp.com⁠] ——— Join The Village and help shape conversations like this by submitting questions to our guests: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/cw/blueBellVillage⁠ [https://www.patreon.com/cw/blueBellVillage⁠] ——— Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. It should not be used to diagnose, treat, or prevent any medical condition. Always consult your physician or another qualified healthcare provider regarding any questions you may have about a medical condition or treatment. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Andrew Karesa, blueBell Village Ltd., or any of its employees, contractors, or team members.

What a Year of Dementia Advocacy Taught Me (with Anoushka Fernandes)

What can one year of dementia conversations teach us about care, stigma, grief, advocacy, and hope? In this special one-year anniversary episode of The Dementia Collective, Andrew Karesa [https://www.linkedin.com/in/andykaresa/] steps out of the interviewer’s chair and becomes the guest. Joined by guest host Anoushka Fernandes [https://www.linkedin.com/in/anoushka-fernandes/], Andrew reflects on how the show began almost by accident, what it has grown into, and what a year of conversations with caregivers, people living with dementia, researchers, advocates, clinicians, authors, and public voices has taught him. Together, Andrew and Anoushka look back on the moments that shaped the show, from the first caregiver support webinar to the powerful stories that changed how Andrew thinks about dementia, personhood, stigma, family, grief, regret, and hope. They also go behind the scenes of The Dementia Collective [https://thedementiacollective.ca], including the emotional weight of listening to deeply personal caregiving stories, the work that goes into producing the show, and where Andrew hopes to take it in year two. In this episode: • How The Dementia Collective began by accident • What Andrew has learned from caregivers, experts, and people living with dementia • The stories and guests that stayed with him most • Why dementia stigma remains so harmful • The emotional weight of hearing caregiving stories • What goes into producing the show behind the scenes • Where Andrew hopes to take The Dementia Collective in year two • A special lightning round with Anoushka • Details on the one-year birthday giveaway Whether you have followed from the beginning or this is your first episode, this conversation is a reflection on why these stories matter and why no caregiver, family, or person living with dementia should feel alone. Birthday Giveaway: To celebrate one year of The Dementia Collective, we’re giving away a special prize to one member of our community. To enter: • Subscribe to The Dementia Collective wherever you watch or listen to the show • Like this episode • Comment with the phrase “Remember the Person” • Share one episode, moment, guest, or topic from TDC that stayed with you Contest closes July 8, 2026 at 11:59 PM MST. The winner will be contacted by the official blueBell Village account. Learn more at: https://www.bluebellvillage.ca [https://www.bluebellvillage.ca] ——— Join The Village and help shape conversations like this by submitting questions to our guests: https://www.patreon.com/cw/blueBellVillage [https://www.patreon.com/cw/blueBellVillage] ——— Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. It should not be used to diagnose, treat, or prevent any medical condition. Always consult your physician or another qualified healthcare provider regarding any questions you may have about a medical condition or treatment. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Andrew Karesa, blueBell Village Ltd., or any of its employees, contractors, or team members.

Who Tells the Story? Dementia, Hollywood, and Caregiving (with Alfredo Botello)

What if dementia is not only a medical condition, but a story shaped by who gets to tell it? In this episode, Andrew Karesa [https://www.linkedin.com/in/andykaresa/] sits down with novelist and screenwriter [https://alfredobotello.com/] Alfredo Botello [https://www.linkedin.com/in/alfredo-botello-aa16aaa0/] to explore caregiving, storytelling, and the power of representation. Alfredo shares his experience caring for his mother and how that journey influenced his writing. From the private realities of family caregiving to the public portrayals of dementia in film and media, the conversation examines the tension between lived experience and cultural narrative. Together, Andrew and Alfredo ask a deeper question: who controls the story of dementia, and how does that shape how society responds to it? They discuss humor and heartbreak, the emotional contradictions of caregiving, and the responsibility that comes with writing about cognitive change. Alfredo reflects on how storytelling can either flatten people into stereotypes or preserve their complexity. The conversation also moves into the gap between what families experience and what audiences are shown. What gets dramatized? What gets softened? What gets left out entirely? And how does that influence stigma, understanding, and policy? Along the way, they consider how stories can restore dignity, challenge assumptions, and give caregivers language for what often feels impossible to explain. In this episode: • How caregiving reshaped Alfredo’s understanding of story • The difference between lived experience and public portrayal • Why humor matters in dementia conversations • The tension between vulnerability and representation • How media influences stigma and perception • What families wish more people understood • The responsibility of writers telling dementia stories • Where storytelling can help, and where it can harm • How narrative control shapes cultural understanding Whether you are a caregiver, a storyteller, or someone trying to understand dementia beyond headlines and tropes, this conversation invites you to reconsider not just what the story is, but who is telling it. Learn more at:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.bluebellvillage.ca⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.bluebellvillage.ca⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] ⁠https://alfredobotello.com [https://alfredobotello.com] ——— Join The Village and help shape conversations like this by submitting questions to our guests: https://www.patreon.com/cw/blueBellVillage [https://www.patreon.com/cw/blueBellVillage] ——— Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. It should not be used to diagnose, treat, or prevent any medical condition. Always consult your physician or another qualified healthcare provider regarding any questions you may have about a medical condition or treatment. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Andrew Karesa, blueBell Village Ltd., or any of its employees, contractors, or team members.

Why 30 Years of Dementia Caregiving Broke Every Assumption She Had (with Lori La Bey)

What happens when a family is left to navigate dementia without clear guidance or support? In this episode, Andrew Karesa [https://www.linkedin.com/in/andykaresa/] sits down with Lori La Bey [https://www.linkedin.com/in/lorilabeyalzheimersspeaks/], founder of Alzheimer’s Speaks [https://alzheimersspeaks.com/], to explore what a decades-long caregiving journey reveals about the realities of dementia care. Lori supported her mother through a 30-year experience with dementia. What began as confusion and uncertainty became a lifelong commitment to understanding care, building community, and creating space for voices that were often missing from the conversation. She shares what those early years looked like, what families are often not prepared for, and why so much of caregiving happens outside of formal systems. Lori reflects on the gap between diagnosis and real support, the role of community in navigating that gap, and how her work has helped reshape how caregivers connect, learn, and support one another. This conversation moves beyond theory. It focuses on what caregiving actually looks like over time, and what it takes to support someone while adapting to constant change. In this episode: • What a 30-year dementia journey reveals about caregiving • The gap between diagnosis and meaningful support • Why families often feel like they are figuring it out on their own • How community-based models like memory cafés are changing care • The role of lived experience in shaping better support systems • How dementia conversations have evolved over time • Why connection matters as much as clinical care Whether you are caring for a loved one, supporting someone through a diagnosis, or working in the dementia space, this episode offers a grounded look at what long-term caregiving really requires. Care doesn’t begin with a system. It begins with people finding their way forward, often before anyone shows them how. Learn more at:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.bluebellvillage.ca⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.bluebellvillage.ca⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] ⁠https://alzheimersspeaks.com [https://alzheimersspeaks.com] https://dementiamap.com [https://dementiamap.com] ——— Join The Village and help shape conversations like this by submitting questions to our guests: https://www.patreon.com/cw/blueBellVillage [https://www.patreon.com/cw/blueBellVillage] ——— Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. It should not be used to diagnose, treat, or prevent any medical condition. Always consult your physician or another qualified healthcare provider regarding any questions you may have about a medical condition or treatment. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Andrew Karesa, blueBell Village Ltd., or any of its employees, contractors, or team members.