Compassion Levels You Up with Amy Quesenberry

Compassion Levels You Up with Amy Quesenberry

What if compassion isn't soft at all, but one of the bravest choices we can make? What if the thing most missing from our workplaces, relationships, and communities isn't more productivity or better communication—but a deeper capacity to care? And what if true compassion sometimes asks us to set boundaries, speak difficult truths, and lead with courage rather than comfort? Today, we are #LiveInTheHive with Amy Quesenberry, organizational coach, best-selling author and the creator of Start With Compassion, her signature framework. Amy works with leaders and organizations to create cultures where people can thrive, bringing compassion out of the realm of theory and into the daily practice of leadership, accountability, and human connection. In a world that often celebrates speed, achievement, and constant doing, Amy invites us to consider a different starting point: compassion. But as we'll explore today, compassion is far more than being nice. It can be courageous, challenging, and even—dare I say—FEROCIOUS. In this episode, we explore… * What compassion actually is – and – how do we find it? * What do you do when you feel helpless in the presence of suffering? Whether your own or someone else’s, how can you move into action to address the suffering? * Amy’s burnout story and how it led her to compassion. * Amy’s top 3 method examples of her work with clients. * “Shit rolls down the hill”. - Organizational change starts at the top. * Her new book: It Starts with Compassion: Meaningful Change Begins Within. * Transforming self-betrayal. * What is the difference between compassionate leadership and leadership that seeks to avoid confrontation? * What is your personal relationship with confrontation? * All this + much more! Full bio + resources: www.StartWithCompassion.com [http://www.StartWithCompassion.com] Infuse Compassion Podcast [https://startwithcompassion.com/in-the-media/] https://www.linkedin.com/in/amy-quesenberry/ Find her latest book HERE [https://www.amazon.com/s?k=it+starts+with+Compassion+Amy+Quesenberry&crid=V7ACQYXITHIQ&sprefix=it+starts+with+compassion+amy+quesenberry%2Caps%2C161&ref=nb_sb_noss_1] Find Sandra: www.SandraBargman.com [http://www.SandraBargman.com] Ferocious Compassion HERE [https://www.amazon.com/LOVE-NOTES-Soul-2-0-Transformation/dp/1737574950/ref=sr_1_1?crid=UCXT2W0VVAWR&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X5ijLUSnIx6KSukrYHMsef58XoAg0cAjyFEBsHsd4pL0M1aJpwIeH8nVohWNy2iyiwDTtbB5QJkEqDmgf19AL3gSD6_No2ryKfWT9aLrlYEx5vfzpVlwECmoF658o2n0Wh_RpoxHdSLmOywVDNGXRNFhmJxdBSCVfV3FEr_lLEcilGhE6uym9yJDPnSxfZsxuJjLsrpdhd7CCd5beeq2owVtD4vJ4csYrZUGONNt_xY.QwF7j8KryU7USr4GHJNU3ystrs45c_br9I9lKTOsQqI&dib_tag=se&keywords=love+notes+2.0&qid=1784156845&sprefix=love+notes+2.0%2Caps%2C199&sr=8-1] @SandraBargman @SandraAmazon Mentioned in this episode: This show was brought to you in part by the Magic Thread Media Network. To learn more visit: https://magicthreadmedia.com/

White Indoctrination with Kimberly Palermo

White Indoctrination with Kimberly Palermo | July 2, 2026 Race is a HUMAN CONSTRUCT. Racism is REAL. And it's a whiter person problem. What truths are hiding in plain sight because we've been taught not to see them? Today we're diving into a conversation that asks us to look closely at the stories we've been taught about history, race, identity, and ourselves. We are #LIVEINTHEHIVE with Kimberly Palermo, author of Indoctri-NATION 365, a book that challenges us to examine the ways we have been shaped by cultural narratives and omissions of historical facts - AND - to consider what it means to take responsibility for creating a more truthful future. In this episode we discuss… * Kim’s childhood awakening to racism – a story most white people can relate to – the intuitive tug that all was not right or fair, but witnessing no one speaking out. * At 17, Kim discovered Jane Elliot, the American diversity educator who debunks “the rightness of whiteness”, famous for her Blue Eyes, Brown Eyes [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T8M6fkd59LM] experiment, created to teach students about discrimination and racial stereotyping. * Denial + racism as identity. * “If you can convince the lowest white man he's better than the best colored man, he won't notice you're picking his pocket. Hell, give him somebody to look down on, and he'll empty his pockets for you." – Lyndon B. Johnson * Kim lays out examples of unexamined systemic racism ex: redlining, Jim Crow laws, Mass incarceration as modern enslavement, slave patrols as the origin story of our present day police force. * What is the difference between indoctrination and education? * The remembrance we’ve inherited a racist culture. * Resource: www.Race@Dinner.com with Regina Jackson + Saira Rao * Resource: Ote Benga – a Congolese human who became an attraction in the Bronx Zoo in 1906. * The most powerful myth Americans have been taught about race. * Kim shares the story of adopting a child from Ethopia. * How to respond to the statement: “I don’t see color”. * All this and so much more. Kimberly Palermo holds an undergraduate degree in Applied Behavioral Sciences from UC Davis, with a focus on multiculturalism, and a master’s degree in special education, with extensive training in group behavior and learning. Kim began her teaching career as an elementary school teacher in Compton Unified School District during the Rodney King civil unrest, where she witnessed firsthand how historical erasure, systemic inequality, and trauma shape communities, and how education can either reinforce myths or interrupt them. That experience profoundly shaped her approach to teaching truth with clarity, empathy, and accountability. For over twenty years, Kim has worked with people at the earliest stages of learning, including those who have received incomplete or oversimplified versions of history, helping guide them from uncertainty toward deeper understanding and personal responsibility. She is the author of Indoctri-NATION 365 which reflects Kim's lifelong work at the intersection of education, behavioral science, and history, designed not to shame readers, but to give them the tools they were never taught. Find Kim: https://indoctrination365.com/about [https://indoctrination365.com/about] https://www.linkedin.com/in/synergyunlimited/ Mentioned in this episode: This show was brought to you in part by the Magic Thread Media Network. To learn more visit: https://magicthreadmedia.com/

Asherah, Anat, and The Recovery of Goddess Traditions with Trista Hendren

Asherah, Anat, and the Recovery of Goddess Traditions with Trista Hendren of Girl God Books | June 16, 2026 Who – and what – is The Goddess? "The Great Goddess Asherah, the sacred tree, Mother-Goddess of all of the gods..." — Miriam Robbins Dexter, Preface to Asherah: Roots of the Mother Tree We can all agree that we are living through a time of immense grief, polarization, and moral exhaustion. And beneath our political events we find deeper stories about power, sacredness, domination, and what we believe about human life. Today’s conversation explores one of those forgotten stories through the figure of Asherah and the recovery of goddess traditions. Today we are #LiveintheHIve with Trista Hendren, author, speaker, visionary founder of Girl God Books and ONE POWERFUL voice and leader in the dismantling of the patriarchal mindset and the remembrance and return to the wisdom and mystery of the Divine feminine, and to the ancient truth of kinship, reciprocity, and inter-being. I’ve had Trista on before for the episode What Will It Take to Know The Girl God – listen HERE [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-will-it-take-to-know-the-girl-god-with-trista-hendren/id1740861679?i=1000705676072] for that episode. I wanted to have her back to speak about her anthology, Asherah: Roots of the Mother Tree, to expand on reclaiming the Goddess traditions, and share what is alive in her work today. We touch on… * I met Trista at The Goddess Conference: The Crone (2023) in Glastonbury. The information got a bit lost in some technical glitches in our conversation. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLI6PGa6n4Gg6l77LkruIJGXwpoT8LzQHi [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLI6PGa6n4Gg6l77LkruIJGXwpoT8LzQHi] * Spoiler alert: We talk about Dr Lynne Sedgemore and her upcoming book, "The Goddess Enneagram", endorsed by Trista, and to be published by ChangeMakers Books. Dr Lynne will be guesting in the fall. * Whether a novice or a well-seasoned Goddess lover, this book, Asherah: Roots of the Mother Tree is for you, with academic research, creative writing, poetry and art. * Trista shares who – and what – is the goddess, and how she discovered the goddess coming from a very devout Christian upbringing. * Resource: author Burleigh Muten and her well-known book about the divine feminine, The Return of The Great Goddess. * The story behind the creation of Girl God Books. * Trista converted to Islam – the extraordinary story as to why? * The power of art! Trista has a HUGE statue of the Venus of Willendorf on her property: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Venus_of_Willendorf [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Venus_of_Willendorf] * Girl God Books has produced over 50 books and anthologies, primarily by female authors. * Spirituality and politics? Trista weighs in on abortion, female sensuality and Female RAGE (and who is the Goddess Anat). * Resources: Women Who Run with The Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estes and The Cosmic Mother by Monica Sjoo, Barbara Mor. * Resource: Wizard Bisan | https://www.instagram.com/wizard_bisan1/?hl=en * The call to The Mother from the Palestinians. * The Goddess Anat: The primal rage of the Mother. An upcoming anthology on ANAT, stay tuned. * I LOVE THIS! Trista asks: Before Patriarchy did we NEED warrior goddesses? * Trista is a PRO-Palestine activist. Her family is in Lebanon. The failings of our news. * In honor of Father’s Day, Trista weighs in on Sacred Masculinity. * Resource: Upcoming Girl God Book on Healing Spells and Rituals : https://www.facebook.com/thegirlgod/ Perhaps Asherah's greatest gift is not simply that she was remembered, but that her roots remained alive beneath the surface all along waiting for us to remember that we, too, belong to the Mother Tree. Enjoy this episode. #TheEdgeofEverydayPodcast #TheEdgeofEveryday #ThePowerofStorytelling #Solstice #Juneteenth #FathersDay #TheGoddessMovesMe #Asherah Find Trista: ww.TheGirlGod.com Find Sandra: www.SandraBargman.com @SandraBargman Review us in Apple Podcasts@ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-edge-of-everyday-with-sandra-bargman/id1740861679 Mentioned in this episode: This show was brought to you in part by the Magic Thread Media Network. To learn more visit: https://magicthreadmedia.com/

The Edge Between Performative Positivity and Genuine Happiness with Michele Phillips

The Edge Between Performative Positivity and Genuine Happiness with Michele Phillips When was the last time you actually felt energized by your life—not just getting through it? What if real happiness isn’t about eliminating darkness — but learning how to integrate it? Real happiness may begin where performance, perfection, and people-pleasing end. In this episode, we’re pushing right up against that edge. Today we are #LiveintheHive with Michele Phillips, author of Energize Your Happiness, and we’re getting into what it really takes to break patterns, reclaim your energy, and stop living on autopilot. Michele models and inspires the courage necessary to OWN your happiness and optimism, in a world committed to pessimism, outrage, and, at times, blatant cruelty. Michele is a globally recognized leadership coach, speaker, and author who helps individuals and organizations harness personal energy to create extraordinary outcomes. She is the author of Happiness Is a Habit: Simple Daily Rituals That Increase Energy, Improve Well-Being, and Add Joy to Every Day (Cedar Fort Publishing, 2013) and Energize Your Happiness: Tap into Personal Energy and Shape Your Destiny Michele is the host of the Write Your Outcome podcast, where she interviews leaders, changemakers, and visionaries about the inner work behind meaningful success—exploring how energy, intention, and conscious choice shape both leadership and life. In this episode we explore… * The Happiness Habits that are so simple and yet so life changing. * What is the concept of “positive psychology”? https://ppc.sas.upenn.edu/our-mission * Emotion is ENERGY. What are the 20 energy rules that Michele teaches for clients to learn and master? * In our patriarchal, left brain dominated society, we are not taught how to deal and work with our emotions. Is this why we’re in a crisis of consciousness? * Some call it “creative flow”, others “in the zone.” Michele calls it Personal Energy Alignment. What is it? What are the steps you can take to increase your personal energy alignment? * The “Ladder Up Technique” – what is it and the small, yet powerful choices you can make to energize your optimism, while completely acknowledging trauma, depression, and other challenging situations. * What is the truth about happiness that people don’t want to hear? “It’s Your Game and Your Rules”! – Michele Phillips Find Michele and order her books: www.EnergizeYourHappiness.com [http://www.EnergizeYourHappiness.com] https://www.linkedin.com/in/michele-phillips-9409707/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/michele-phillips-9409707/] Find Sandra: www.SandraBargman.com [http://www.SandraBargman.com] www.MagicThreadMedia.com [http://www.MagicThreadMedia.com] https://www.linkedin.com/in/sandrabargman/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/sandrabargman/] @SandraBargman Mentioned in this episode: This show was brought to you in part by the Magic Thread Media Network. To learn more visit: https://magicthreadmedia.com/

Learning to Listen: Sex, Surrender, and Letting Go with Mistress Dana Pharant

Learning to Listen: Sex, Surrender and Letting Go with Dominatrix and Author, Dana Pharant Today we are #LIVEintheHIVE with Mistress Dana Pharant, professional dominatrix. author and Surrender expert for those who “need to get their head out of their ass and back to loving life.” Dana is no stranger to The Edge of Everyday podcast– I’ve had her on the show, not once, but twice. You MUST check out those episodes: The Inner Dominatrix: Part I [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-inner-dominatrix-the-edge-of-power-pain/id1740861679?i=1000667470555] https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-inner-dominatrix-the-edge-of-power-pain/id1740861679?i=1000667470555 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-inner-dominatrix-the-edge-of-power-pain/id1740861679?i=1000667470555] The Dominatrix: Part II [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-dominatrix-a-special-part-2-conversation-on/id1740861679?i=1000680436830] https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-dominatrix-a-special-part-2-conversation-on/id1740861679?i=1000680436830 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-dominatrix-a-special-part-2-conversation-on/id1740861679?i=1000680436830] Much like the Witch Archetype, the Dominatrix Archetype is misunderstood and maligned in our Patriarchal world. In a system that fears women’s power, and vilifies women’s sexuality, both the witch and the dominatrix understand that Sexual Energy = Life Force energy, and that Sexual Consciousness is imperative for human consciousness evolution. Sexuality, in our current times, becomes most interesting not when it is purely physical, but when it collides with power, identity, shame, freedom, ritual, vulnerability, and transformation. In this episode, Dana regals us with stories and wisdom from her year-long globe-trotting as a courageous and compassionate nomad, all told in her newly released SIXTH book, Go Ask The Dolphins: A Journey of Sex, Surrender and Letting Go. * The spiritual wisdom of dolphins. * Is “surrender” the same as “letting go” or is it different? * Control as a trauma response. The upside of Control vs Contol being as armor. How does Control serve? How is it transformed into Surrender? * What was Dana’s inspiration in writing this book? * What were the steps Dana took to change her life and step into her nomadic journey? * We explore the theme of Obligation and what Dana discovered about this theme in the many stops in her travels. * What is Surrender? How did her understanding of what Surrender is change and evolve on this journey? * What are the many ways Dana works with clients in their understanding of SURRENDER? In the dungeon, through healing modalities including plant medicine, and business coaching. * All this and so much more. Dana Pharant is a Woo Woo master with the power to see people's core issues. She has a strong penchant for personal development, is a borderline crazy cat lady and she helps Alpha men and women face their shit so they can feel more alive, have more sex and make more money. Dana is a Dominatrix, Sexual High Priestess, a 7 figure CEO, AND a 5x best-selling Author, with her newly released 6th book, which has been described as EAT PRAY LOVE meets 50 Shades being well on it’s way to becoming her next best seller. Find Dana: www.DanaPharant.com [http://www.DanaPharant.com] https://danapharant.substack.com/p/chapter-1-go-ask-the-dolphins https://www.youtube.com/@wholebodyhealing1 [https://www.youtube.com/@wholebodyhealing1] https://www.linkedin.com/in/danapharant/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/danapharant/] Her book: https://www.amazon.com/Go-Ask-Dolphins-Journey-Surrender/dp/B0GV3B116H Find Sandra: www.SandraBargman.com [http://www.SandraBargman.com] @SandraBargman https://www.youtube.com/@sandraamazon [https://www.youtube.com/@sandraamazon] https://www.linkedin.com/in/sandrabargman/ Mentioned in this episode: This show was brought to you in part by the Magic Thread Media Network. To learn more visit: https://magicthreadmedia.com/