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Life By Design. Not By Default. | Sue Stoneman

32 min · 5. juni 2026
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Somewhere in the early 2000s, we collectively decided that exhaustion was a sign of commitment. The busier you were, the more you mattered. The more you were always on, always available, always pinging back — the more valuable you must be. Psychologists call it costly signalling. Most of us just called it Tuesday. Sue Stoneman, founder of Moxie, has spent years working with global CEOs and high-performance teams — and she has a different framework entirely. In this conversation with Mark Sephton, she talks about the nervous system cycle we have broken, the three steps to rewiring a brain that rewards busyness over outcome, and what it actually looks like to redesign a life rather than just manage a stress level. And the snow globe. Listen for the snow globe. Recorded on location during a live reset in sunny Ibiza, Sue unpacks why our brains are constantly stuck in an "activation, activation, activation" loop and how that relentless cortisol drive impairs our decision making, emotional regulation, and authentic relationships. True high performance requires a deliberate pulse of activation and recovery, a strategy elite athletes have mastered but corporate leadership often dismisses as a luxury. If you are ready to put down the heavy weight of other people's expectations, this conversation will give you the practical toolkit to step off autopilot and step into clarity. Key Takeaways From This Episode: * The Evolutionary Brake: Why your brain views sudden behavioral changes as an emergency and how to safely override that resistance. * The Three Step Brain Rewire: How shifting focus from effort to outcome, interrupting automated thought patterns, and prioritizing recovery trains your neuroplasticity for success. * Science, Soul, and System: Inside the Moxie methodology that balances behavioral psychometric data with restorative mindfulness and actionable daily rituals. * The 90,Day Accountability Loop: How micro goals, automated AI coaching, and human expert support bridge the gap between weekend inspiration and sustainable life shifts. Connect With Us: * Learn more about Moxie: mymoxie.co.uk * Follow Moxie on X/Twitter: @discover_moxie * Connect with host Mark Sephton: marksephton.com

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