Keeping the Peace Is Costing You More Than You Think

Stop Using Your Faith to Stay Small

Is wanting more for yourself selfish... or is it sacred? In this episode, I unpack the hidden belief that keeps faith-driven women shrinking in the name of humility, and reveals what scripture actually says about desire, calling, and abundant life after the nest empties. If you've ever felt the pull toward "more" and immediately felt guilty for it, this one is for you. In this episode: * The childhood belief that gets "baptized" into false humility * Why shrinking is not humility and wanting more is not pride * What Psalm 37:4, the parable of the talents, John 10:10, and Esther reveal about God-given desire * The Both/And: devoted AND becoming, grateful AND honest, surrendered AND stepping forward Take the Free Quiz [https://quiz.jessica-phillips.co/?utm_id=97757_v0_s00_e231_tv0]to discover the behavior keeping you in the loop. Join the Growth Lounge Collective [https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1BgZfqFCC3/] on Facebook Stay in touch: Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/jessicaphillipsco] Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/jessicaphillipsco/]

Victim vs. Playing the Victim: The Identity Shift That Changes Everything

In this episode, I get honest about a topic we don't talk about enough: how victim identity becomes a survival strategy, and how it quietly keeps us from the life we actually want. This is not about blame. This is about power, and how to take yours back. There is a version of you that has been waiting a long time to read this. She's tired. Not the kind of tired that sleep fixes. The kind that comes from carrying something heavy for so long that you've stopped noticing the weight. This episode is for her. Today I'm talking about something I lived inside for most of my life before I even had a name for it. The difference between being a victim and playing one. And I want to be clear before you keep reading. This is not about blame. This is not about minimizing what happened to you. What happened to you was real. It was valid. And it was not your fault. But here's what I also know. You might still be living there. And if you are, it is quietly costing you everything. I share something personal in this episode that I have never shared publicly before. Something that happened at the hands of people still close to me today. I carried it in silence for most of my life, and for years I built my entire identity around it without realizing that's what I was doing. Not because I was broken. Because I was surviving. And survival strategies work, until they don't. There is a moment in every woman's healing journey where she has to look at the story she has been telling herself and ask a very honest question. Is this story describing my past, or is it writing my future? That question is what this episode is about. I also talk about forgiveness in a way that I think is going to land differently than anything you've heard before. Because most of us were handed a version of forgiveness that left us feeling like we were failing at it. And I want to give you the truth about what real forgiveness actually requires and why you can't get there without grieving first. If something in you went quiet while reading this, stay with that. The women who need this most are usually the first ones to say it doesn't apply to them. I know because I was one of them. You are not your story. But it is time to stop letting it write the next chapter. When you're ready for a next step, take the free quiz linked below. It will show you the specific behavior that is most actively keeping you stuck right now, because there is always a thing behind the thing. Name it. That's where the healing starts. The link is below. It's free. Go take it, and then come find me and tell me what you discover. I'm cheering for you. Take The Free Quiz [https://quiz.jessica-phillips.co/]

Who do you believe you are? ...And why it matters.

In this episode, I'm asking you a question I want you to sit with: Who you are? Because that story might be the most powerful thing running your results right now, more than any diet or plan ever could. I'm breaking down why your brain isn't actually trying to help you reach your goals, it's trying to keep you consistent with the identity you've built your life around. And if that identity says you're someone who always starts over, your brain will go to work proving you right. We talk about where these beliefs came from, why self-sabotage is often protection rather than weakness, and how you actually change an identity that's been operating in the background for years. Spoiler: it's not affirmations you don't believe. It's small acts of integrity with the woman you're becoming. You are not stuck with the story you inherited. Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessicaphillipsco⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/jessicaphillipsco/] Facebook⁠⁠: jessicaphillipsco⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/jessicaphillipsco] Website: ⁠⁠www.jessicaphillips.co⁠⁠ [https://jessicaphillips.co/] Keep the conversation going - Join us in the free Growth Lounge Collective Facebook Group [https://www.facebook.com/share/g/19y9KAyZJm/?mibextid=wwXIfr]

The Real Reason You Emotionally Eat (And Why Willpower Was Never the Answer)

What if your emotional eating isn't a problem to fix, but a message to understand? In this episode, I get honest about something the wellness world never wants to admit: emotional eating works. That's why you haven't stopped. And that's exactly why shame, willpower, and "just be more disciplined" have never been able to touch it for long. This one is for the woman who has tried everything, knows better, and still finds herself in the kitchen at 10pm reaching for something she said she wouldn't. You are not broken. You are under-regulated and under-resourced. And that's something we can actually work with. Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessicaphillipsco⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/jessicaphillipsco/] Facebook⁠⁠: jessicaphillipsco⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/jessicaphillipsco] Website: ⁠⁠www.jessicaphillips.co⁠⁠ [https://jessicaphillips.co/] Book a Discovery Call With Me [⁠https://www.facebook.com/share/g/19y9KAyZJm/?mibextid=wwXIfr⁠]

The Craving Beneath the Craving: Why Weight Loss Is Not Just About Food

This is not another weight loss episode telling you to try harder, eat cleaner, or start over Monday. Because maybe the reason you keep reaching for the food is not because you are undisciplined. Maybe food has become the place you go when something inside of you feels overwhelmed, unseen, pressured, or unsafe. In this episode of The Growth Lounge, I am sharing a raw piece of my own weight loss journey and the deeper healing I am walking through in real time. Not from the finish line. From the messy middle. We are talking about the craving beneath the craving. The behavior beneath the pattern. The part of you that is not asking for more food, but for comfort, safety, expression, or freedom. This episode is for the high-capacity woman who knows what to do, but keeps finding herself stuck in the same cycle. Not because she is lazy. Not because she is broken. But because the root has not been healed yet. Inside this episode, I talk about: Why weight loss is not just about food Why healthy swaps do not heal the craving How food can become a coping mechanism What your cravings may actually be trying to tell you Why healing at the root creates lasting freedom If you are tired of managing the symptom and ready to understand the thing beneath the thing, this episode will speak to you. And as always, I am cheering for you. Let's keep the conversation going. Join my free facebook group: The Growth Lounge Collective [https://www.facebook.com/share/g/19y9KAyZJm/?mibextid=wwXIfr] Ready for your own 180? Book a Discovery cal [jessicaphillips.co/book-a-free-call]l with me to see what your next steps might look like. Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessicaphillipsco⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/jessicaphillipsco/] Facebook⁠⁠: jessicaphillipsco⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/jessicaphillipsco] Website: ⁠⁠www.jessicaphillips.co⁠⁠ [https://jessicaphillips.co/]