Episode 41: Stop Dating Assholes with Chantal Heide

Episode 41: Stop Dating Assholes with Chantal Heide

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2382694/fan_mail/new] In this episode of The Gynarchy Podcast, we talk with dating coach, relationship expert, author, and “Canada’s Dating Coach,” Chantal Heide about modern dating, healthy relationships, and how women can stop settling for toxic partners.  Chantal shares her no-nonsense approach to dating, including her controversial “no kissing for three months” rule, why women should prioritize observation before emotional attachment, and how patriarchal messaging can lead women to ignore red flags and stay in unhealthy relationships. We also discuss dating apps, body count myths, confidence, boundaries, marriage, and why women are complete human beings whether they choose a relationship or not. In this episode, we discuss: * How Chantal transitioned from a 20-year career as a stripper to becoming a dating coach and author * Why women are often encouraged to become emotionally attached before truly knowing a partner * The concept of “selection before observation” and how it can lead to unhealthy relationships * Why Chantal recommends a “no kissing for three months” dating rule * Common signs that someone is a “guy” versus a mature, relationship-ready man * How insecurity, entitlement, and controlling behavior show up early in dating * The myths surrounding “body count” and why women are unfairly shamed for their sexuality * The role of patriarchal narratives in shaping modern dating expectations * Whether relationships can be repaired after problems arise and the importance of personal accountability * Why self-work and emotional growth are essential for healthy relationships * How to use dating apps more intentionally and effectively * Why women should lead with their interests and personality rather than trying to attract attention through sex appeal * What to do when dating burnout makes you want to give up * Why women should decenter dating and invest in their own happiness, careers, and communities * The difference between masculinity and femininity and why both men and women contain aspects of each * How women can become more proactive in dating through confidence and direct communication * The changing role of marriage in modern society * Why women no longer need marriage for financial or social survival * The importance of boundaries, standards, and self-respect in creating healthier relationships * Why Chantal believes women are complete on their own and should only choose relationships that genuinely enhance their lives Tune in Monday, June 15th, and subscribe to The Gynarchy to stay updated on future episodes. Connect with Chantal Heide: Website: Chantal Heide, Canada's Dating Coach [https://canadasdatingcoach.com/] Podcast: My Dating And Relationship Podcast With Chantal Heide - Canada's Dating Coach [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/my-dating-and-relationship-podcast-with-chantal/id1166810212] Instagram: @‌canadasdatingcoach TikTok: @‌canadasdatingcoach YouTube: Chantal Heide, Canada's Dating Coach [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCy2hKiwhU7VkNqrr4wLYThg] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2382694/support] The Gynarchy Podcast is available now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and other platforms.  Follow Us for Updates:‌ * Bluesky: @thegynarchy [https://thegynarchy.bsky.social]  * Instagram: @thegynarchy [https://www.instagram.com/thegynarchy/] * TikTok: @thegynarchy  [https://www.tiktok.com/@thegynarchy] * YouTube: @thegynarchy [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIP-XsUnl-sdMvxb_FUVR0A] Newsletter sign up [https://thegynarchypodcast.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=23ca96bb39ba72710e25328bf&id=c9fccad749] Website: www.thegynarchypodcast.com [https://www.thegynarchypodcast.com/] ‌Earn FREE CE/CME credit for listening to our episodes by joining the Learn at Pinnacle app: https://learnatpinnacle.com/education [https://learnatpinnacle.com/education] ______ Disclaimer: This podcast and related content are for informational and educational purposes only and do not constitute medical, financial, legal, psychological, or other professional advice. Views expressed are those of the hosts and guests, not their employers, and are not tailored to individual circumstances. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions. By using this content, you agree the creators are not liable for any outcomes or damages resulting from reliance on it. Inclusivity statement:  The Gynarchy is cr...

Episode 40: What to Expect in Labor and Delivery with Jennifer Lincoln, MD

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2382694/fan_mail/new] In this episode of The Gynarchy Podcast, we talk with board-certified OB-GYN, author, educator, and OB hospitalist Dr. Jennifer Lincoln about what patients should really expect during labor and delivery. We discuss her new book, The Birth Book: An OB-GYN’s Guide to Demystifying Labor and Delivery, and dive into the realities of childbirth, informed consent, birth trauma, patient advocacy, and the current maternal health crisis in the United States. Dr. Lincoln shares her journey into obstetrics and explains why she felt compelled to write a comprehensive, accessible guide focused specifically on labor and delivery. We discuss how misinformation online, distrust in the medical system, and gaps in prenatal education can leave patients feeling unprepared and disempowered. She also offers practical guidance for advocating for yourself during labor, navigating birth preferences, understanding interventions like epidurals and C-sections, and creating a more informed and empowering birth experience. Topics we cover in this episode: * Why Dr. Lincoln wrote The Birth Book and the gap it fills in pregnancy education * How social media has changed the way patients seek information about childbirth * Common myths and misinformation about labor, epidurals, inductions, and C-sections * The growing distrust of physicians and the impact of misinformation online * How the U.S. maternal healthcare system contributes to poor birth outcomes * Maternal healthcare deserts and the shortage of OB-GYNs and labor units * Why labor and delivery care is often undervalued in hospital systems * How to advocate for yourself during labor and delivery * Questions patients should ask their providers before birth * The importance of informed consent and shared decision-making * Why Dr. Lincoln uses the term “birth preferences” instead of “birth plan” * Vaginal birth after cesarean (VBAC) and misconceptions surrounding repeat C-sections * Cesarean delivery on maternal request and respecting patient autonomy * How prior trauma, medical anxiety, and tokophobia can shape birth decisions * What birth trauma can look like and why patients do not need to “prove” their trauma * Supporting patients experiencing stillbirth and gaps in physician training around grief and loss * The role of partners and doulas in labor support and advocacy * Postpartum depression and anxiety * What an empowered birth experience can look like * How providers can improve communication by changing the way they ask questions * Funny and memorable labor and delivery stories from Dr. Lincoln’s career * Managing difficult family dynamics and protecting patients’ autonomy during labor * The ethics of forced medical interventions during pregnancy * How pregnancy can impact legal and medical autonomy in the United States * Why declining fertility rates are connected to healthcare access and family support systems * The longstanding problem of dismissing women’s pain in medicine * Pain management during labor, gynecologic procedures, and IUD insertions * Why believing women is essential to improving healthcare experiences and outcomes Tune in Monday, June 1st, and subscribe to The Gynarchy Podcast to stay updated on future episodes. Connect with Jennifer Lincoln, MD: Website: www.drjenniferlincoln.com [http://www.drjenniferlincoln.com/] Book: The Birth Book: An OB-GYN’s Guide to Demystifying Labor and Delivery Podcast: Let’s Talk About Birth Instagram/TikTok: @‌drjenniferlincoln Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2382694/support] The Gynarchy Podcast is available now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and other platforms.  Follow Us for Updates:‌ * Bluesky: @thegynarchy [https://thegynarchy.bsky.social]  * Instagram: @thegynarchy [https://www.instagram.com/thegynarchy/] * TikTok: @thegynarchy  [https://www.tiktok.com/@thegynarchy] * YouTube: @thegynarchy [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIP-XsUnl-sdMvxb_FUVR0A] Newsletter sign up [https://thegynarchypodcast.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=23ca96bb39ba72710e25328bf&id=c9fccad749] Website: www.thegynarchypodcast.com [https://www.thegynarchypodcast.com/] ‌Earn FREE CE/CME credit for listening to our episodes by joining the Learn at Pinnacle app: https://learnatpinnacle.com/education [https://learnatpinnacle.com/education] ______ Disclaimer: This podcast and related content are for informational and educational purposes only and do not constitute medical, financial, legal, psychological, or other professional advice. Views expressed are those of the hosts and guests, not their employers, and are not tailored to individual circumstances. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions. By using this content, you agree the creators are not liable for any outcomes or damages resulting from reliance on it. Inclusivity statement:  The Gynarchy is cr...

Episode 39: All About Puberty with Vanessa Kroll Bennett and Cara Natterson, MD

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2382694/fan_mail/new] In this episode of The Gynarchy Podcast, we talk with puberty educator Vanessa Kroll-Bennett and pediatrician and bestselling author Cara Natterson a, co-founders of Less Awkward, about the complex, evolving experience of puberty. We cover what puberty really is, why it’s starting earlier and lasting longer, and how parents can better support their kids through the physical, emotional, and social changes of these years. Vanessa and Cara share their journey into puberty education and explain why open, ongoing conversations—no matter how awkward—are essential. We discuss the science behind puberty, including hormonal changes, brain development, and the wide range of what is considered “typical.” They also break down common misconceptions, highlight differences in how boys and girls experience puberty, and offer practical, realistic guidance for parents navigating this stage alongside their children. Topics we cover in this episode: * What puberty is and how it extends beyond physical changes * Why puberty is starting earlier and lasting longer than in previous generations * Key contributors to earlier puberty, including environmental factors, body composition, and stress * How chronic stress impacts kids’ development and hormone regulation * What parents can realistically control—and why guilt isn’t helpful * Practical tips for supporting healthy habits: nutrition, movement, sleep, and balance * Why failure and setbacks are essential for growth and resilience * Early signs of puberty in girls and boys * Emotional changes, including mood swings and shifting behavior * The difference between puberty and adrenarche (body odor, acne, hair growth) * Common but confusing changes like asymmetrical breast development and spontaneous erections * Typical timelines for puberty and why variation is normal * Signs that a first period may be approaching * Normal vaginal discharge and why it’s important to talk about openly * When to seek medical care for delayed or irregular periods * The impact of intense athletics and the female athlete triad * Why conversations about bodies and health need to be ongoing * Common myths about puberty—including the idea that it’s only about girls * Supporting boys through emotional development and challenging cultural norms * Reframing puberty as a meaningful, not just difficult, life stage Tune in on Monday, May 18th, and subscribe to The Gynarchy Podcast to stay updated on future episodes. Connect with Cara Natterson & Vanessa Kroll-Bennett: Website: www.LessAwkward.com [http://www.lessawkward.com/] Podcast: This Is So Awkward [https://tr.ee/tO5Ht_c4l5] Instagram: @less.awkward [https://www.instagram.com/less.awkward/] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2382694/support] The Gynarchy Podcast is available now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and other platforms.  Follow Us for Updates:‌ * Bluesky: @thegynarchy [https://thegynarchy.bsky.social]  * Instagram: @thegynarchy [https://www.instagram.com/thegynarchy/] * TikTok: @thegynarchy  [https://www.tiktok.com/@thegynarchy] * YouTube: @thegynarchy [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIP-XsUnl-sdMvxb_FUVR0A] Newsletter sign up [https://thegynarchypodcast.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=23ca96bb39ba72710e25328bf&id=c9fccad749] Website: www.thegynarchypodcast.com [https://www.thegynarchypodcast.com/] ‌Earn FREE CE/CME credit for listening to our episodes by joining the Learn at Pinnacle app: https://learnatpinnacle.com/education [https://learnatpinnacle.com/education] ______ Disclaimer: This podcast and related content are for informational and educational purposes only and do not constitute medical, financial, legal, psychological, or other professional advice. Views expressed are those of the hosts and guests, not their employers, and are not tailored to individual circumstances. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions. By using this content, you agree the creators are not liable for any outcomes or damages resulting from reliance on it. Inclusivity statement:  The Gynarchy is cr...

Episode 38: Feminist Art: Cross-Stitch with Stephanie Rohr

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2382694/fan_mail/new] In this episode of The Gynarchy Podcast, we talk with cross-stitch artist and author Stephanie Rohr about feminist art, fiber crafts, and how she turned a traditional “women’s hobby” into a bold, subversive creative business that challenges norms and reclaims the value of women’s work. Stephanie shares her journey from learning cross-stitch as a child to launching her business, StephXStitch, how she uses humor, pop culture, and activism to create her snarky, feminist designs, and some of the challenges she’s faced along the way. Topics we cover in this episode: * The history of cross-stitch and its roots in women’s domestic labor * How fiber arts have been undervalued and excluded from “fine art” spaces * Stephanie’s journey from theater to running a successful cross-stitch business * The rise of “subversive cross-stitch” and feminist messaging in craft * How the internet and digital tools transformed cross-stitch design and accessibility * The meditative and mental health benefits of cross-stitch * The challenges of pricing handmade art and overcoming imposter syndrome as a creative entrepreneur * Viral moments, media features, and unexpected controversies along her journey to success * Using humor, pop culture, and profanity to challenge patriarchy * Making art accessible through finished pieces, DIY kits, and patterns * Why cross-stitch—and feminism—is for everyone Tune in on Monday, May 4th, and make sure to subscribe and stay updated on all of our episodes. Connect with Stephanie Rohr: Instagram: Stephanie Rohr (@stephxstitch) • Instagram profile [https://www.instagram.com/stephxstitch/] Website: stephXstitch [https://stephxstitch.com/] Etsy: stephXstitch - Etsy [https://www.etsy.com/shop/StephXStitch] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2382694/support] The Gynarchy Podcast is available now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and other platforms.  Follow Us for Updates:‌ * Bluesky: @thegynarchy [https://thegynarchy.bsky.social]  * Instagram: @thegynarchy [https://www.instagram.com/thegynarchy/] * TikTok: @thegynarchy  [https://www.tiktok.com/@thegynarchy] * YouTube: @thegynarchy [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIP-XsUnl-sdMvxb_FUVR0A] Newsletter sign up [https://thegynarchypodcast.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=23ca96bb39ba72710e25328bf&id=c9fccad749] Website: www.thegynarchypodcast.com [https://www.thegynarchypodcast.com/] ‌Earn FREE CE/CME credit for listening to our episodes by joining the Learn at Pinnacle app: https://learnatpinnacle.com/education [https://learnatpinnacle.com/education] ______ Disclaimer: This podcast and related content are for informational and educational purposes only and do not constitute medical, financial, legal, psychological, or other professional advice. Views expressed are those of the hosts and guests, not their employers, and are not tailored to individual circumstances. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions. By using this content, you agree the creators are not liable for any outcomes or damages resulting from reliance on it. Inclusivity statement:  The Gynarchy is cr...

Episode 37: Understanding Fibroids with Cheruba Prabakar, MD

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2382694/fan_mail/new] In this episode of The Gynarchy Podcast, we talk with board-certified OB/GYN and minimally invasive gynecologic surgeon Dr. Cheruba Prabhakar about fibroids, one of the most common conditions affecting women. We cover what fibroids are, how they present, and why so many women go undiagnosed for years despite significant symptoms. Dr. Prabhakar shares her expertise in fertility-sparing fibroid surgery and explains how fibroids can impact bleeding, pain, and reproductive health. We discuss how fibroids are diagnosed, when treatment is necessary, and the full range of options—from watchful waiting and medical management to minimally invasive surgical approaches. She also breaks down the differences between hysteroscopic, laparoscopic, and open procedures, including recovery times and risks. Topics we cover in this episode: * What fibroids are and how common they are * Why many women normalize heavy or painful periods * Common symptoms of fibroids, including heavy bleeding, bulk symptoms, and infertility * How fibroids are diagnosed with pelvic exams and ultrasound * When MRI is used for further evaluation and surgical planning * How fibroids can impact fertility and pregnancy outcomes * The relationship between fibroids and endometriosis * When it is appropriate to monitor fibroids without treatment * Medical management options, including hormonal therapies and newer medications * Minimally invasive gynecologic surgery: what it is and how it differs from open surgery * Robotic and laparoscopic myomectomy and hysterectomy * Hysteroscopic fibroid removal for intracavitary fibroids * Uterine artery embolization: what it is and when it may be appropriate * Risks and benefits of different surgical approaches * Recovery timelines for hysteroscopic, laparoscopic, and open procedures * Fibroid recurrence rates and the role of genetics * Lifestyle factors that may help reduce fibroid growth, including diet and vitamin D * Adenomyosis: what it is and how it differs from fibroids * Why many women feel dismissed and the importance of self-advocacy in care Tune in on Monday, April 20, and make sure to subscribe and stay updated on all of our episodes. Connect with Dr. Cheruba Prabhakar: Website: https://www.lamorindagyn.com [https://www.lamorindagyn.com/] Instagram, TikTok, YouTube: @‌thefibroiddoc ___   The Gynarchy Podcast is available now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and other platforms. 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I Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2382694/support] The Gynarchy Podcast is available now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and other platforms.  Follow Us for Updates:‌ * Bluesky: @thegynarchy [https://thegynarchy.bsky.social]  * Instagram: @thegynarchy [https://www.instagram.com/thegynarchy/] * TikTok: @thegynarchy  [https://www.tiktok.com/@thegynarchy] * YouTube: @thegynarchy [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIP-XsUnl-sdMvxb_FUVR0A] Newsletter sign up [https://thegynarchypodcast.us14.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=23ca96bb39ba72710e25328bf&id=c9fccad749] Website: www.thegynarchypodcast.com [https://www.thegynarchypodcast.com/] ‌Earn FREE CE/CME credit for listening to our episodes by joining the Learn at Pinnacle app: https://learnatpinnacle.com/education [https://learnatpinnacle.com/education] ______ Disclaimer: This podcast and related content are for informational and educational purposes only and do not constitute medical, financial, legal, psychological, or other professional advice. Views expressed are those of the hosts and guests, not their employers, and are not tailored to individual circumstances. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions. By using this content, you agree the creators are not liable for any outcomes or damages resulting from reliance on it. Inclusivity statement:  The Gynarchy is cr...