The Kingdom Corner with Matt Geib

"Start Where You Are, Not Where You Should Be"

20 min · 12. juni 2026
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Kingdom Corner Reading Room Start Where You Are, Not Where You Should Be In this week's Reading Room, we continue our journey through Practicing the Way by John Mark Comer and explore six practical principles for building a healthy Rule of Life. What if spiritual growth begins not with doing more, but with honestly embracing the life God has already given you? In this episode, we explore six practical principles for building a healthy Rule of Life. Discover why starting small, working within your current season, and taking faithful steps may be far more transformative than chasing spiritual perfection. Many of us approach spiritual growth with unrealistic expectations. We imagine the person we wish we were, rather than honestly assessing where we are today. Yet God meets us in the reality of our present circumstances, not in an imagined future version of ourselves. In this episode, we discuss: • Why spiritual growth begins with honesty about your current season of life • The importance of starting small rather than making grand resolutions • Why subtraction can be just as important as addition in following Jesus • Finding balance between solitude, community, engagement, and abstinence • How personality and spiritual temperament influence the way we connect with God • Adjusting spiritual practices to fit different seasons of life • The value of both enjoyable practices and challenging practices in spiritual formation Key Thought: "We must find God in the contours of our actual lives, not the lives we wish we had, used to have, or plan to have." Reflection Questions: 1. Are there any spiritual expectations you're placing on yourself that fit the life you wish you had rather than the life God has actually given you today? 2. What is one small, sustainable practice you could begin this week that would help you be with Jesus in the season you are in right now? Final Thought: A healthy rule of life is not built through grand resolutions but through faithful steps. Spiritual growth is rarely dramatic. More often, it is the quiet accumulation of small acts of faithfulness over time.

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