23. Heidi McIntosh: A Family Forever Changed by Neonatal Loss
In this episode of The Long Road Podcast, Lisa sits down with Heidi McIntosh to share the story of her son, Benaiah Roi, and the profound impact of neonatal loss on her family.
After a healthy pregnancy, Heidi and her husband Caleb received unexpected news at 37 weeks that their unborn son was critically unwell. What followed was a journey of hope, fear, love, and heartbreak as they stayed in Brisbane for specialist care and welcomed Benaiah into the world.
Benaiah lived for six precious days before unexpectantly passing away due to a sepsis infection.
With remarkable honesty and vulnerability, Heidi reflects on navigating grief as a mother, supporting siblings through loss, the challenges of life after trauma, and learning to hold both joy and heartbreak at the same time. Together, Lisa and Heidi discuss the realities of neonatal loss, the importance of acknowledging grief, and the ways families can continue to honour the children they carry in their hearts.
This conversation contains discussion of neonatal loss, infant death, grief, and trauma. Please listen at your own pace.
Resources mentioned in this episode:
• Red Nose Australia – support and resources for families affected by stillbirth, miscarriage, and newborn death.
Join A Support Group | Red Nose Australia [https://rednose.org.au/grief-and-loss-support/find-support/peer-and-group-support/join-a-group/]
• Red Nose Bereavement Support Community (Facebook Group)
• SANDS Queensland (Stillbirth and Neonatal Death Support)
http://www.sands.org.au/
Books:
- A Grief Observed – By C.S. Lewis
- It's OK That You're Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand. By Megan Devine
- How To Carry What Cant Be Fixed. A journal for Grief. By Megan Devine
If this episode has brought up difficult emotions for you, please reach out to a trusted support person or professional support service.
To keep up to date with The Long Road Podcast, follow along on Facebook and Instagram or visit thelongroad.au.
Thanks for being here,
Lisa McKelvey xx
Kommentarer
0Vær den første til å kommentere
Registrer deg nå og bli medlem av The Long Road sitt community!