Miss-Handling Rejection; "Taking No for An Answer." 4/24

9/24 Delulu-ness and Deal-breakers | RomantiKali Speaking Ep5

Let me start by saying, Delulu is not the solulu. Especially when it comes to matters relationships. In the last episode of this series, we delve straight in to the opinions of some of my friends concerning the ways in which we have grown delulu going into serious relationships and the as a result, the deal breakers that they have learnt to uphold. But if being delulu works for you, who are we to wake you up from your day dream. But at least shes_kemunto has done her part to show us the dreadful cost of not staying sober with our social decisions. So enjoy this episode please 😌

7/24 🐈‍⬛ Black Magic in Relationships ☠️ | RomantiKali Speaking Ep3

You might want to sprinkle some salt around yourself before you listen to this episode. Hehe. What we are talking about is not a red flag, it's a black flag! In the past episodes we have seen how blind people are to red flags, how much more a black one? Some people choose not to believe in black magic, but for those who know, you know! Kwanza African Black Magic? Weeeh ebu ata ju ya hio story, katika jina la baba... I talk about this being the whole inspiration behind the series; the things people in our age overlook and ignore going into binding relationships. And this one has to be the most serious and wicked of them all. But do samofyu care? You have to put on your big boy pants when listening to this one, but I still manage to lighten things up, so don't be scared 😅 Whether you believe in it or not, point is, don't be naïve!

6/24 Questions For the Talking Stage | RomantiKali Speaking ep2

And just like that, Valentine is over. 😅 Some of you still have roses 🌹 and chocolates 🍫, and some of you have jealousy and regrets. Iss life. But in effort to help you get a better person for Valentine's in future, I give you questions you should ask during The Talking Stage. We have seen how poor diligence can lead to stressful relationships, and this time round, we endeavour to do things differently. As a continuation from last week's episode, we delve into why it is important to consider your potential partner's personal handling and growth initiatives, their interpersonal relationships and the state of their health. All to say, the talking stage is an important stage. In the meantime, ati nani ndio mzabibu na nani ni mkulima? 😂😂

5/24 Questions to Ask on A Valentine Date | RomantiKali Speaking Ep1

Valentine's is coming... You know the question that follows. 😅 But to more important things beyond the roses and violets, chocolates and diamonds. More important things like, can she cook? Has he really moved on from his ex? Are you two of the same religion/faith? Among many many other things that are supposed to be deal breakers in relationships, but look at us. A generation that thinks love conquers all. 😅💔 How doomed are we! In this series I dubbed, RomantiKali Speaking, we tell each other the bitter truth about where we are failing on our way to long term relationships; the goal being marriage. In that same spirit, we will then attempt to repair those areas by reminding ourselves of the things that matter in long term relationships. The things that our parents taught us to consider. I'm happy to wear my Dr. Love coat on this one. So, mjango, are you ready for this injection?

Miss-Handling Rejection; "Taking No for An Answer." 4/24

Well well well! What do we have here. A generation of people who do not know how to take a no! Serious situation this one because some of the many squabbles and horrific events we have been witnessing are simply because men (and women) don't know how to handle rejection. Today, in this podcast, I handle you squarely! 😅 Especially for the men, men's conference is coming up and we have to shape up some simp behaviours. In fact, let me get my whip! #StopFemicide