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What You’re Tolerating Is Keeping You Stuck

16 min · 1. maj 2026
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Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2530214/fan_mail/new] You’ve grown. You’ve evolved. But has your life caught up? In this episode, Melissa explores the hidden cost of holding onto things that no longer reflect who you are - from old identities and outdated choices to the physical environment that quietly anchors you in the past. Through a powerful (and surprisingly relatable) reflection on her own wardrobe, she reveals how what we tolerate isn’t just about clutter… It’s about identity. Because every item you hold onto, every standard you lower, every “one day” you cling to… is a reflection of what you still believe is true for you. And the real question becomes: Do you trust who you’re becoming… or are you still loyal to who you were? This episode will help you see where you’re holding on - and what might shift when you finally let go. P.S. If you’ve been hearing me talk about Hidden Agreements and you missed the live class, the replay is still available. It will help you see exactly what’s been driving your decisions behind the scenes - not just in your mindset, but in your patterns, your identity, and your results. You can watch it here: https://melissa-amos.com/the-hidden-agreements/ [https://melissa-amos.com/the-hidden-agreements/] Memoirs of a Mystic In Training, by Melissa Amos is available on Amazon Learn more about Melissa by visiting her website melissa-amos.com and download a free hypnotherapeutic series, Intuition Rewired.  Follow her @themelissaamos across the platforms

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