Initiation and Follow-Through – Why Knowing What to Do Is Not Enough

How to Raise Expectations Without Power Struggles in Your Homeschool

In this episode you'll hear about: * Defining Success and Challenges in Homeschooling * Encouragement for parents to define "success" for their own families * Recognition that listeners may be pursuing a nontraditional educational path * Parental questions about raising expectations without causing power struggles * Sarah Collins's current family homeschooling dynamics (older children graduating or not homeschooled, youngest still at home) * Understanding the Roots of Power Struggles * Parents balancing desire for independence/responsibility with understanding individual children * Common research interests in neurodiversity, learning differences, and diagnoses * The challenge of distinguishing when to support, accept, or expect growth * Expectations exceeding the child's current skill set * The child ready for more independence than the parent is comfortable with * Environment not supporting the child's success (focus on method over needs) * Balancing Acceptance and Expectation * Importance of finding a middle ground between acceptance and expectation * Risks of having only acceptance or only expectation (limited growth vs. frustration/conflict) * First Mismatch: Expectations Ahead of Skills * "Is this a skill problem or a will problem?"—reframing perceived defiance * Detailed analysis using writing as an example: * Potential motor, cognitive, or social-emotional challenges * Misinterpretations leading to mislabeling skill deficits as character issues * Importance of curiosity and skill identification for productive responses * Second Mismatch: Independence and Ownership * Struggles when children want more independence than parents give * Personal example: child's new responsibility for a pet snake * Parental tendency to take on ownership and responsibility that should belong to children * Micromanaging vs. micro-noticing; consequences for child development * The importance of clear ownership and natural consequences * When parents give responsibilities before children are ready (e.g. technology/phones) * Power struggles tied to misplaced responsibility * How assumptions about learning environments create unnecessary struggles (e.g., sitting at desks, taking notes) * Son's late literacy development and eventual academic success * Asking correct questions: what is the learning outcome versus the method? * Flexibility in reading methods—standing, listening, moving while learning * Main point: focus on outcomes, adjust methods as needed * Occupational Therapy Perspective on Challenging Tasks * OT's role: breaking down tasks, identifying underlying skill gaps * Parents are not expected to have all the answers—value of another perspective * Origin and ongoing purpose of Homeschool OT coaching and support Links and Resources From Today's Show * Why Should I Seek Occupational Therapy? [https://homeschoolot.com/shop/why-choose-ot/] * Connect with Sarah Collins on IG [https://www.instagram.com/homeschool_ot] * The Homeschool OT Teachers Pay Teachers [https://www.teacherspayteachers.com/store/homeschoolot] * Join The OT Insiders Waitlist [https://homeschoolot.com/otinsiders/] * Check Out Our Title Sponsor CTC Math [https://payments.ctcmath.com/purchase?tr_id=OT] * CTC Math Free Trial [https://ctcmath.com/trial?flag=parent] * Chores For Skill Builders Blog [https://homeschoolot.com/chores/] * Face to Face Connections In A Screen To Screen World Book [https://amzn.to/3Q080UU] * Episode 8: Beyond the Pencil: Exploring Vision's Impact on Homeschool Handwriting Success [https://homeschoolot.com/vision-challenges/] * Episode 11: Exploring Unique Learning Paths in Homeschooling with Guest Amy Bodkin [https://homeschoolot.com/child-development-amy-bodkin/] * Episode 17: Neuro Affirming Homeschool Environments with Keisha Berry [https://homeschoolot.com/neuro-affirming-homeschool-environments/] * Episode 27: Preserving Childhood in a Digital World: Greta Eskridge's Expertise for Families [https://homeschoolot.com/child-safety-online-tips-for-parents/] * Episode 70: Tackling Homeschool Guilt and Finding Your Own Path with Kelly Edwards [https://homeschoolot.com/reframing-homeschooling-embracing-flexibility-connection-and-growth-as-a-family/] * Episode 74: Navigating the Teen Years: Building Connection and Independence at Home [https://homeschoolot.com/navigating-the-teenage-years-encouragement-and-practical-strategies-for-thriving-families/] * Episode 81: Understanding Social Pressures and Masking in Kids [https://homeschoolot.com/navigating-social-pressures-masking-and-expectations/] * Episode 86: Balancing Acceptance and Expectation: Building Executive Functioning in Homeschooling and Parenting [https://homeschoolot.com/balancing-acceptance-expectation-in-homeschooling-how-mistakes-grow-brains/] * Episode 88: Making Literacy Feel Natural in Your Everyday Life [https://homeschoolot.com/scaffolding-literacy-the-peo-model-in-homeschool-reading-instruction/] Thank you to our title sponsor for this episode, CTC Math. You can check out their FREE trial here. [https://ctcmath.com/trial?flag=parent]

When Reading and Talking Both Feel Hard for Kids

In today's conversation, we dig into the real scope of speech-language therapy and why it's so much more than articulation drills—especially for homeschool families. We break down how feeding, reading, memory, and even a child's ability to follow instructions are deeply connected to language and brain development. We'll look at how challenges sometimes show up as frustrating behaviors, or why a seemingly "simple" reading delay doesn't always have a simple solution. This matters in homeschool settings because so much of what we do—teaching, supporting, noticing the little shifts in our kids—relies on understanding what's really going on underneath. When we get clearer on how language, sensory input, and cognitive processes all interact, we become better equipped to notice when our child needs extra support and when the right kind of challenge can open new doors. By the end of this episode, you'll have a sharper lens for spotting the early signs that language might need a different kind of help—and more confidence interpreting what you're seeing day-to-day. In this episode you'll hear about: * What is Speech Therapy? * Public perception: speech therapy as addressing only Rs * The broader scope of speech language pathology * Traditional vs. modern speech therapy roles * Areas addressed: feeding/swallowing, infant to end-of-life, picky eating, choking risks * Voice quality, professional voice users, resonance issues, cleft palates, hearing impairments * Connection to the brain: stuttering, cluttering, rhythm disorders, phonological/phonemic awareness, executive functioning, literacy * Auditory Processing and Language Comprehension * Auditory processing disorder (APD)—definition and signs * How APD can look like bad behavior * Breakdowns in auditory processing: signal transmission, brain processing of sound, acoustic profile * Role of brain in sorting/organizing sounds * Visual approaches aiding sound discrimination * Connection to dyslexia * Difficulty with sound discrimination and memory in relation to language learning * Examples of syntax and organization issues ("word salad") * Multisensory Approaches and Sensory Integration * Using visual, auditory, and other senses to aid language development * Links between feeding skills, play, and language milestones * The Connection Between Language and Learning * Homeschool perspective: when to seek help vs. home intervention * Reading interventions (Barton, OG), when they're not enough, need for underlying cognitive/linguistic support * Signs that additional intervention is needed beyond curriculum * Defining Technical Terms * Processing: definitions and what is meant in language/sound context * Link to handwriting, other learning skills (motor control, processing ideas) * Support and Teamwork in Homeschooling * Importance of external support—SLPs as "buddies" * Effects of language on other academic areas—math, comprehension Links and Resources From Today's Show * Make sure to join our OT INsiders Membership Waitlist Here [https://homeschoolot.com/otinsiders/] * Why Should I Seek Occupational Therapy? [https://homeschoolot.com/shop/why-choose-ot/] * Connect with Sarah Collins on IG [https://www.instagram.com/homeschool_ot] * The Homeschool OT Teachers Pay Teachers [https://www.teacherspayteachers.com/store/homeschoolot] * Connect With Amanda On IG [http://www.instagram.com/theilluminatedhomeschool] * Amanda's Website [http://www.illuminatecommunicate.com] * Check Out Our Title Sponsor Lovevery [https://lovevery.com/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=search_ca-brand_core&utm_marketing_tactic=brand&gclid=CjwKCAiAybfLBhAjEiwAI0mBBsSOevA8QxvSw2Lcym9X0EFD0lDwNiZZf6v6KlC1SgP5Vo0aMF5IXBoCaQ0QAvD_BwE&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23097251432&gbraid=0AAAAACnVutuLgiks-DlPzRQ4MUncycU8V&gclid=CjwKCAiAybfLBhAjEiwAI0mBBsSOevA8QxvSw2Lcym9X0EFD0lDwNiZZf6v6KlC1SgP5Vo0aMF5IXBoCaQ0QAvD_BwE] * Learning RX Website [https://www.learningrx.com/] * Episode 2: Decoding Behavior in homeschooling- sensory overwhelm, emotional control, perseverance [https://homeschoolot.com/sensory-and-behavior/] * Episode 4: The Evolving Landscape of Homeschool Community Support [https://homeschoolot.com/homeschooling-community-building/] * Episode 9: The Impact of Music on Executive Functioning: A Homeschooling Perspective [https://homeschoolot.com/listening-program-mandy-doman/] * Episode 11: Exploring Unique Learning Paths in Homeschooling with Guest Amy Bodkin [https://homeschoolot.com/child-development-amy-bodkin/] * Episode 17: Neuro Affirming Homeschool Environments with Keisha Berry [https://homeschoolot.com/neuro-affirming-homeschool-environments/] * Episode 33: Dyslexia Demystified: Marianne Sunderland's Approach and Homeschooling Tips [https://homeschoolot.com/podcast/#:~:text=Nurturing%20Bright%20Minds%3A%20Homeschooling%20with%20Dyslexia] * Episode 34: Hyperlexia Uncovered: Navigating Challenges and Developing Strengths [https://homeschoolot.com/hyperlexia-strategies-for-parents/] * Episode 35: Connecting Speech, Phonemic Awareness, and Literacy: Sydney Bessard Explains it All [https://homeschoolot.com/how-speech-affects-literacy/] * Episode 43: Collaborative Problem-Solving in Education and Parenting [https://homeschoolot.com/intrinsic-motivation-and-strength-based-learning/] * Episode 62: 62 Strategies for Enhancing Cognitive Skills in Children [https://homeschoolot.com/discovering-cognitive-strengths-a-guide-for-homeschool-parents/] * Episode 64: Understanding Auditory Processing Disorder: Diagnosis, Treatment, and Support for Families [https://homeschoolot.com/understanding-auditory-processing-disorder-encouragement-and-support-for-parents/] * Episode 83: How Working Memory Shapes Literacy: Practical Tips to support the missing link between executive functioning and reading [https://homeschoolot.com/executive-function-and-literacy-supporting-your-unique-learner-at-home/] * Episode 94: Understanding and Building Working Memory at Home: An OT Perspective [https://homeschoolot.com/understanding-and-building-working-memory-at-home-an-ot-perspective/] Thank you to our title sponsor for this episode, Lovevery [https://lovevery.com/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=search_ca-brand_core&utm_marketing_tactic=brand&gclid=CjwKCAiAybfLBhAjEiwAI0mBBvy9XL-Mp2R05QlxitAIX-wIzKXGiKzPTzjd4nJneizPCabbdzSvIhoCgBIQAvD_BwE&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23097251432&gbraid=0AAAAACnVutuLgiks-DlPzRQ4MUncycU8V&gclid=CjwKCAiAybfLBhAjEiwAI0mBBvy9XL-Mp2R05QlxitAIX-wIzKXGiKzPTzjd4nJneizPCabbdzSvIhoCgBIQAvD_BwE]. You can check out their products and resources here. [https://lovevery.com/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=search_ca-brand_core&utm_marketing_tactic=brand&gclid=CjwKCAiAybfLBhAjEiwAI0mBBvy9XL-Mp2R05QlxitAIX-wIzKXGiKzPTzjd4nJneizPCabbdzSvIhoCgBIQAvD_BwE&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23097251432&gbraid=0AAAAACnVutuLgiks-DlPzRQ4MUncycU8V&gclid=CjwKCAiAybfLBhAjEiwAI0mBBvy9XL-Mp2R05QlxitAIX-wIzKXGiKzPTzjd4nJneizPCabbdzSvIhoCgBIQAvD_BwE] Connect With Our Guest, Amanda Owens Amanda Owens, CCC-SLP equips homeschool parents so they can teach their children how to talk clearly and confidently through speech therapy at home. A homeschool graduate and mom, she builds practical tools for parents, teaches how speech therapy works, and supports a growing community of parents.

Supporting Struggling Readers: Tips for Homeschooling Parents

If you've ever found yourself wondering when it's time to seek help for your child's reading progress, or questioned whether difficulty with letter sounds is a passing phase or something more, this episode will bring clarity. Today, we're unpacking what foundational literacy looks like at home—especially in homeschool settings where parents are both teachers and advocates. You'll hear clear, practical ways to spot early signs of reading struggles, and how these can sometimes be missed when day-to-day learning is so entwined with play and natural conversation. We're exploring how phonemic awareness really develops before letter symbols enter the picture, and why noticing gaps early can make a difference for later reading and spelling. In this episode you'll hear about: * Melanie Jeffrey's background * Host of "Phonics Tools for Kids" podcast * Experience as a core literacy classroom teacher specializing in phonics (ages 4-9, K-3) * Personal Experience with Children's Reading * Sarah asks about Melanie Jeffrey's own children and reading challenges * Why Phonics as a Starting Approach? * The importance of phonics for reading development * Language acquisition as a foundation * 44 sounds in English vs. 26 letters in the alphabet * Phonics as matching sounds to symbols (graphemes) * Emphasis on oral language and sound awareness as the initial step * Early Red Flags and Indicators of Reading Struggles * Auditory processing as an early warning sign * Oral segmentation exercises as indicators * Noting mistakes with word order (e.g., "cats" vs. "cast") * Use of Nonsense Words for Phonemic Awareness * Value of using real and nonsense words to practice sound manipulation * Timeline for early phonemic awareness activities (ages 3-5) * When to consider seeking help if articulation of sounds remains a struggle * Role of occupational therapists (Sarah and speech therapists in early intervention * Personal Anecdotes on Reading and Auditory Processing * Homeschooling Advantages in Early Identification * The benefit of close, one-to-one learning relationships in homeschool settings * Parents' role in identifying struggles and noticing extra effort or persistent confusion * Advantage of parental intuition and observation in recognizing when outside help may be needed * Benchmarks, Indicators, and Assessment Tools * Using scope and sequence in phonics curriculum as a guide * Learning Through Play and Application * Engagement and Curriculum Fit * Evaluating whether reading struggles stem from the child or the curriculum * When and How to Start Formal Phonics Instruction Links and Resources From Today's Show * Why Should I Seek Occupational Therapy? [https://homeschoolot.com/shop/why-choose-ot/] * Connect with Sarah Collins on IG [https://www.instagram.com/homeschool_ot] * The Homeschool OT Teachers Pay Teachers [https://www.teacherspayteachers.com/store/homeschoolot] * Join The OT Insiders Waitlist [https://homeschoolot.com/otinsiders/] * Phonics Rules For Kids Podcast [https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/phonics-rules-for-kids-homeschool-kindergarten-reading/id1771772664] * Phonics Rules For Kids Website [https://www.phonicsrulesforkids.com] * FREE GUIDE - Phonic Made Simple (Even if You're Not a Teacher) [https://phonics-rules-for-kids-2.kit.com/251782068d] * Connect With Melanie On Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/groups/1127059582369824] * Check Out Our Title Sponsor CTC Math [https://payments.ctcmath.com/purchase?tr_id=OT] * CTC Math Free Trial [https://ctcmath.com/trial?flag=parent] * Executive Function, Regulation, and Getting Started In Your Homeschool [https://homeschoolot.com/shop/primitive-reflexes-resource-guide/] * Episode 2: Decoding Behavior in homeschooling- sensory overwhelm, emotional control, perseverance [https://homeschoolot.com/sensory-and-behavior/] * Episode 33: Dyslexia Demystified: Marianne Sunderland's Approach and Homeschooling Tips [https://homeschoolot.com/podcast/#:~:text=Nurturing%20Bright%20Minds%3A%20Homeschooling%20with%20Dyslexia] * Episode 34: Hyperlexia Uncovered: Navigating Challenges and Developing Strengths [https://homeschoolot.com/hyperlexia-strategies-for-parents/] * Episode 35: Connecting Speech, Phonemic Awareness, and Literacy: Sydney Bessard Explains it All [https://homeschoolot.com/how-speech-affects-literacy/] * Episode 36: Disability Inclusion and Homeschooling: Lindsey Larsen Shares Her Unique Perspective and Resources [https://homeschoolot.com/disability-inclusion-and-homeschooling/] * Episode 43: Collaborative Problem-Solving in Education and Parenting [https://homeschoolot.com/intrinsic-motivation-and-strength-based-learning/] * Episode 60: Tackling Childhood Anxiety: How Occupational Therapy Can Help [https://homeschoolot.com/exploring-anxiety-empowering-your-homeschool-journey/] * Episode 63: Misophonia Explained: Causes, Triggers, and Real Life Solutions [https://homeschoolot.com/supporting-kids-with-misophonia-practical-encouragement-for-parents/] * Episode 64: Understanding Auditory Processing Disorder: Diagnosis, Treatment, and Support for Families [https://homeschoolot.com/understanding-auditory-processing-disorder-encouragement-and-support-for-parents/] * Episode 88: Making Literacy Feel Natural in Your Everyday Life [https://homeschoolot.com/scaffolding-literacy-the-peo-model-in-homeschool-reading-instruction/] * Episode 89: The Emotional Power of Family Reading: Fostering Vocabulary and Connection [https://homeschoolot.com/reading-aloud-developmentally-a-neuroscience-informed-perspective-for-homeschool-families/] Thank you to our title sponsor for this episode, CTC Math. You can check out their FREE trial here. [https://ctcmath.com/trial?flag=parent] Connect With Our Guest, Melanie Jeffrey Melanie is a phonics fanatic, host of the PHONICS RULES FOR KIDS podcast. As an experienced core literacy classroom teacher, formally trained in phonics instruction for children ages 4-9 (K-3), she has taught hundreds of children to read using phonics as the foundation. Melanie helps moms confidently model simple phonics skills at home to teach their beginning readers in K-2, and struggling readers in 3rd-5th grade. She believes moms are fully capable of learning simple phonics skills they can put on 'rinse and repeat' to streamline phonics lessons at home, even when they're not trained as a teacher. Melanie is wife to Bill, mom of an 18, 19 and 20-year old! Yes, her children were born so close, that she was often asked in the grocery store if the youngest two were twins! Melanie gets excited when kids can quickly apply phonics concepts to read with greater fluency! As a mom who shares your values, she wants to help you teach your kiddo to read with confidence!

Initiation and Follow-Through – Why Knowing What to Do Is Not Enough

Curious if OT could help your child's struggles? Download Why Choose OT to find out! [https://homeschoolot.com/shop/why-choose-ot/] If you have ever found yourself wondering why your child can't get started on a task, even when they seem to know exactly what to do, this conversation is for you. Today, we are digging into what's really going on when initiation just isn't happening—especially at home, where the lines between support and independence are always shifting. We'll unpack the hidden role of the nervous system in motivation and task initiation, and explore why traditional approaches to getting kids going often backfire for neurodivergent learners. This matters in homeschooling because you're not just managing curriculum; you're shaping how your child feels about learning, about themselves, and about asking for help. Understanding the difference between "won't" and "can't" changes how you respond in the moment—and how your child's confidence grows over time. By the end of this episode, you'll have a clearer perspective on how regulation, support, and co-regulation create the foundations for executive function. We'll look at practical ways to build those skills in real life, with a focus on meeting your child where they are, not where you wish they'd be. In this episode you'll hear about: * The Importance of Community and Support * The isolating experience of homeschooling and neurodiversity * Value of normalizing experiences and mutual support for parents and children * Foundational Understanding: The Nervous System and Behavior * The significance of understanding the nervous system's role in behavior * How behavior often represents automatic protection rather than intention * Influence of anxiety and sensory sensitivity on behavior * The impact and importance of being aware of bodily signals (interoception) * Shifting Perspectives in Parenting Neurodivergent Kids * Reference to Ross Greene's work as a turning point * Framing behavior as communication * The evolving recognition of nervous system science in parenting * Foundations for Learning and Executive Function * The importance of nervous system regulation for "online" learning and executive functioning * Defining the "thinking brain" (frontal lobe, rational thought, cognitive skills) * Barriers to learning when children are dysregulated * Signs and Practice of Regulation vs. Dysregulation * What it feels like to be regulated ("feeling good in your body") versus dysregulated ("out of whack") * Real-life examples of adult regulation and dysregulation * Societal reinforcement of suppressing personal regulation needs, especially in traditional school settings * Homeschooling as an opportunity to honor children's needs * Practical Strategies for Building Regulation into the Day * The concept of proactive regulation activities before challenging tasks (schoolwork, transitions) * Long-term benefits of routine regulation for life skills * Building workable habits for children vs. adults needing to relearn regulation * Specific Regulation Techniques and Activities * Sensory strategies tailored to individual children * Practical parent tips: integrating regulation activities naturally (before homework, breakfast, etc.) * Addressing Task Initiation and Independence * Recognizing limitations when children are dysregulated (difficulty with new tasks, transitions) * Co-regulation and modeling regulation for children rather than directives * Fostering Autonomy, Especially for Older Kids and Teens * Importance of making regulation activities appealing and self-driven for teenagers * Parental role shifts from direct instruction to subtle support and modeling Links and Resources From Today's Show * Download The Executive Functioning Regulation Guide Here [https://homeschoolot.com/shop/new-learners-new-year-guide/] * Why Should I Seek Occupational Therapy? [https://homeschoolot.com/shop/why-choose-ot/] * Connect with Sarah Collins on IG [https://www.instagram.com/homeschool_ot] * The Homeschool OT Teachers Pay Teachers [https://www.teacherspayteachers.com/store/homeschoolot] * Homeschool Daily Setup: Parental Planning Guide [https://homeschoolot.com/shop/parental-planning-guide/] * Connect With Penny Williams on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/pennywilliams/] * Connect With Penny Williams on Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/PennyWilliamsAuthor/] * The Parenting ADHD and Autism Podcast [https://parentingadhdandautism.com/podcast] * Parenting ADHD and ASD Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/@ParentingADHDASD] * Check Out Our Title Sponsor Lovevery [https://lovevery.com/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=search_ca-brand_core&utm_marketing_tactic=brand&gclid=CjwKCAiAybfLBhAjEiwAI0mBBsSOevA8QxvSw2Lcym9X0EFD0lDwNiZZf6v6KlC1SgP5Vo0aMF5IXBoCaQ0QAvD_BwE&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23097251432&gbraid=0AAAAACnVutuLgiks-DlPzRQ4MUncycU8V&gclid=CjwKCAiAybfLBhAjEiwAI0mBBsSOevA8QxvSw2Lcym9X0EFD0lDwNiZZf6v6KlC1SgP5Vo0aMF5IXBoCaQ0QAvD_BwE] * Learning RX Website [https://www.learningrx.com/] * Episode 13: Beyond the Five Senses: Understanding Your Child's Interoceptive World with Cara Kosinski [https://homeschoolot.com/emotional-intelligence-interoception-cara-kosinski/] * Episode 14: Outdoor Activities to Develop Interoception in Children with Guest Caroline Santangelo [https://homeschoolot.com/connecting-with-nature-helping-children-develop-interoception-outdoors/] * Episode 15: From Morning to Night: Incorporating Social Emotional Learning in Homeschool [https://homeschoolot.com/social-emotional-learning/] * Episode 21: Exploring Primitive Reflexes: From Birth to Integration [https://homeschoolot.com/primitive-reflexes-guide-for-parents/] * Episode 30: Sensory Processing and Co-Regulation: Insights for Parents [https://homeschoolot.com/self-regulation-techniques-for-homeschool-parents/] * Episode 31: Cultivating Calm: Understanding Nervous System Dysregulation in Children and Practical Solutions for Parents [https://homeschoolot.com/understanding-sensory-dysregulation-in-children/] * Episode 44: Prioritizing Slow in Homeschooling: A chat with Leslie Martino [https://homeschoolot.com/joy-of-slow-balanced-learning-in-homeschooling/] * Episode 49: Connection Over Curriculum: Building Strong Bonds in Homeschooling [https://homeschoolot.com/powerful-connections-nurturing-life-skills-in-homeschooling/] * Episode 59: Translating OT Concepts: Creating a Children's Book for Sensory Processing Awareness [https://homeschoolot.com/exploring-the-world-of-emotions-through-chameleons-a-new-book-for-children-and-parents/] * Episode 61: Mindful Moments: Supporting Focus and Calm in Children [https://homeschoolot.com/mindfulness-in-homeschooling-practical-tips-from-ot-expert-tere-bowen-irish/] * Episode 66: The Power Of Declarative Language [https://homeschoolot.com/building-connection-through-language/] * Episode 70: Tackling Homeschool Guilt and Finding Your Own Path with Kelly Edwards [https://homeschoolot.com/reframing-homeschooling-embracing-flexibility-connection-and-growth-as-a-family/] * Episode 72: Navigating Sibling Sensory Needs and Homeschooling Wins and Fails [https://homeschoolot.com/navigating-sensory-needs-and-sibling-dynamics-in-homeschooling/] * Episode 80: Raising Resilient Kids: Coping Skills and Emotional Regulation in the Digital Age [https://homeschoolot.com/coping-skills-building-resilience-and-self-awareness-in-a-busy-home/] * Episode 86: Balancing Acceptance and Expectation: Building Executive Functioning in Homeschooling and Parenting [https://homeschoolot.com/balancing-acceptance-expectation-in-homeschooling-how-mistakes-grow-brains/] Thank you to our title sponsor for this episode, Lovevery [https://lovevery.com/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=search_ca-brand_core&utm_marketing_tactic=brand&gclid=CjwKCAiAybfLBhAjEiwAI0mBBvy9XL-Mp2R05QlxitAIX-wIzKXGiKzPTzjd4nJneizPCabbdzSvIhoCgBIQAvD_BwE&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23097251432&gbraid=0AAAAACnVutuLgiks-DlPzRQ4MUncycU8V&gclid=CjwKCAiAybfLBhAjEiwAI0mBBvy9XL-Mp2R05QlxitAIX-wIzKXGiKzPTzjd4nJneizPCabbdzSvIhoCgBIQAvD_BwE]. You can check out their products and resources here. [https://lovevery.com/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=search_ca-brand_core&utm_marketing_tactic=brand&gclid=CjwKCAiAybfLBhAjEiwAI0mBBvy9XL-Mp2R05QlxitAIX-wIzKXGiKzPTzjd4nJneizPCabbdzSvIhoCgBIQAvD_BwE&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23097251432&gbraid=0AAAAACnVutuLgiks-DlPzRQ4MUncycU8V&gclid=CjwKCAiAybfLBhAjEiwAI0mBBvy9XL-Mp2R05QlxitAIX-wIzKXGiKzPTzjd4nJneizPCabbdzSvIhoCgBIQAvD_BwE] Connect With Our Guest, Penny Williams Penny Williams is a leading behavior and parenting coach specializing in supporting families raising neurodivergent kids — those with ADHD, autism, anxiety, and other differences in how they think and process the world. Through her SIGNAL Parenting™ framework — a science-informed, compassion-centered approach — Penny helps parents stop trying to fix behavior and start interpreting what it's communicating. Her work replaces outdated discipline models with neuroscience-based strategies rooted in compassion and connection, teaching parents to respond through regulation and relationship instead of reaction. Penny is the award-winning author of Boy Without Instructions and three other books on ADHD, host of the Beautifully Complex Podcast with over 5 million downloads, and founder of the Regulated Kids Project. Her work has been featured in ADDitude Magazine, Autism Parenting Magazine, and CHADD's Attention Magazine. At the heart of Penny's work is one powerful belief: Behavior isn't the problem — it's the signal.

Working Memory- Why Information Falls Apart Throughout the Day

Curious if OT could help your child's struggles? Download Why Choose OT to find out! [https://homeschoolot.com/shop/why-choose-ot/] If you've ever found yourself wondering why your child forgets instructions moments after hearing them or seems to struggle with multi-step tasks—even when the concept itself isn't new—this episode is for you. We're talking all about working memory today, what it actually is, and how it affects both everyday routines and academic learning at home. As homeschool parents, we have the unique opportunity to notice these patterns up close: the moments when simple directions get lost, math problems fall apart, or reading comprehension just "isn't sticking." But what if these aren't just habits or temperament, but signals about how your child's brain is managing information? In this episode you'll hear about: * Overview of LearningRx and Focus on Working Memory * Explanation of LearningRx's work in cognitive training. * Introduction to the Cattell-Horn-Carroll theory of intelligence. * Definition and Fundamentals of Working Memory * Working memory as an "information bucket" with different capacities. * Distinguishing between those with small and large working memory "buckets." * Importance of holding and releasing information, and implications for learning disabilities. * Identifying Working Memory Issues in Everyday Life * Parental phrases indicating working memory struggles ("so forgetful," "I just told you…"). * Evolution of Approaches: Compensation vs. Training * Historical reliance on compensation strategies in education. * Modern views on brain plasticity and potential for skill-building. * Cognitive Skill Building: Research and Methods * Difference between the short-term workaround (accommodations) and long-term skill-building." * Demonstration of a Working Memory Training Game * Real-time working memory game between Sandra Zomalis and Sarah Collins. * Auditory vs. visual working memory, and why targeting auditory skills can be crucial. * The Role of Intensity and Processing Speed in Training * Use of metronome to increase challenge and automaticity. * Processing speed as another key automatic processing skill. * Interrelation between processing speed and working memory—importance of training both together. * Building Trust and Emotional Safety in Cognitive Training * How LearningRx prioritizes relationship and rapport between trainer and student. * Advice for parents on evaluating providers—importance of one-on-one model and program research. * Addressing Parental Concerns: "Are You Trying to Fix Me?" * Services at LearningRx for both children and adults. 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You can check out their FREE trial here. [https://ctcmath.com/trial?flag=parent] Connect With Our Guest, Sandy Zamalis Sandy Zamalis is the Executive Director and owner of LearningRx Staunton-Harrisonburg, where her passion is helping struggling learners of all ages discover confidence and success. A former homeschooling mom, Sandy found her calling in cognitive training after witnessing the frustrations of students falling through the cracks. Today, she leads two thriving centers, empowering children and adults alike to overcome learning struggles and build the strong cognitive foundation everyone deserves.