friendly notes on self-care and how to cultivate it while facing reality

The Crane Wife: what does it mean to be needy in a relationship

Hey, guys! In this episode, I've dissected The Crane Wife by CJ Hauser and gained insights and lessons from her article/book where she redefined love and what it means to be needy or thirsty in a relationship. Society tells women to be self-sufficient and self-sustaining by diminishing their needs. Let us learn to prioritize our own needs and well-being while listening to this episode. I hope you enjoy. x

friendly notes on self-care and how to cultivate it while facing reality

Hey, guys! <3 In this episode, I'm starting this series called 'friendly notes' where we dissect, digest, and reflect or even ponder over these friendly little messages. Listen while I read them to you as I add my thoughts. The prompt given for this day's episode is "what does self-care mean to you and how do you cultivate it?". In this fast and pressing season, we have to be adept in life, so how can self-care be squeezed into our time?

5 things you wished you asked your blockmate

Hey guys! In today's episode, I invited my blockmate, Sofia, and as you can tell from the title, we asked each other deep university-related questions. We pondered over our regrets in school, reminisced our frosh year, and clapped at our personal growth.

vday special: unrequited love, affairs, mixed signals, and more!

Hey guys! Happy Valentine's Day! <3 Since it's heart's day, I decided to give love q&a a chance and have a special episode. Let's ponder over unrequited love, cheating, affairs, right person but wrong time, mixed signals, and more! follow @ponderoverpodcast on ig!

welcome and let’s have our first q&a fun catch-up!

Hey guys! Welcome to the first episode of 'The Ponder Over Podcast', let's have a quick catch-up, shall we? In this episode, I shared my January favorites and answered questions from friends on Instagram about thoughts on the influencing industry, friendships, love and relationships, micro-cheating, setting boundaries, life goals, and more!