Intentional Family Wealth Podcast

How To Give Money To Your Kids (Without Enabling Them)

14 min · 15. mar. 2026
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If you feel like you should be getting more value than the AUM fee you're currently paying at your brokerage firm, visit https://engagewithbirchwood.com [https://engagewithbirchwood.com/] Giving money to your kids sounds generous—but it can sometimes do more harm than good. Today, we share practical ways parents and grandparents can financially help their children without hurting their motivation, confidence, or independence. We cover smart strategies like helping with a first home down payment, education, weddings, and family vacations, plus the key rules and parameters that make these gifts beneficial instead of enabling. We also discuss common mistakes—like funding businesses with no boundaries or giving money that removes the incentive to work. If you're a parent or grandparent who wants to support your kids financially while still raising capable, independent adults, this conversation will give you practical ideas and principles to follow.

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