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001 | When Strangers Support You More Than Your Friends| Perfectionism Is Just Procrastination| RHOA Recap

50 min · 23. apr. 2026
episode 001 | When Strangers Support You More Than Your Friends| Perfectionism Is Just Procrastination| RHOA Recap cover

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In their debut episode, Ashlee and Sean get real about why strangers often show up for you before the people closest to you, why that’s not the issue you think it is, and what it actually means when you’ve been “preparing” for six months without launching. At some point, thinking turns into hiding. A doer will ALWAYS outperform a thinker, and God can’t bless those ideas that are still sitting in your notes app. They also introduce Sweet Tea (good news only), then wrap things up with a full Kiki on RHOA. K. Michelle is doing what needs to be done. Porsha is still running laps around Shamia, and yes…it had to be said. New episodes drop every other Thursday. Send your Sweet Tea, ask for advice, and send topic requests to admin@refillpodcast.com Come hang with us 🎉 Sean @sean.not.shawnn [https://www.instagram.com/sean.not.shawnn/] Ashlee @ashleehope.co [https://www.instagram.com/ashleehope.co/] Refill : @officialrefillpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/officialrefillpodcast/]

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episode 001 | When Strangers Support You More Than Your Friends| Perfectionism Is Just Procrastination| RHOA Recap artwork

001 | When Strangers Support You More Than Your Friends| Perfectionism Is Just Procrastination| RHOA Recap

In their debut episode, Ashlee and Sean get real about why strangers often show up for you before the people closest to you, why that’s not the issue you think it is, and what it actually means when you’ve been “preparing” for six months without launching. At some point, thinking turns into hiding. A doer will ALWAYS outperform a thinker, and God can’t bless those ideas that are still sitting in your notes app. They also introduce Sweet Tea (good news only), then wrap things up with a full Kiki on RHOA. K. Michelle is doing what needs to be done. Porsha is still running laps around Shamia, and yes…it had to be said. New episodes drop every other Thursday. Send your Sweet Tea, ask for advice, and send topic requests to admin@refillpodcast.com Come hang with us 🎉 Sean @sean.not.shawnn [https://www.instagram.com/sean.not.shawnn/] Ashlee @ashleehope.co [https://www.instagram.com/ashleehope.co/] Refill : @officialrefillpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/officialrefillpodcast/]

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