The 4 Traps Keeping Good Men Stuck in S*xless Marriages After Kids

Foreplay Games for Couples: Playful Ways to Get Out of the Roommate Rut After Kids - Especially when it’s been a while

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2412811/fan_mail/new] Feeling awkward about intimacy after kids, or stuck in the “roommate rut?” You’re not alone. In this episode, I share why foreplay (and the “pre-game” before it) is the real secret to rekindling connection—and how to make it feel safe, pressure-free, and fun (especially for the lower libido partner). What we cover: 01:06 — Rethinking Foreplay & Getting Started Again 02:11 — Zero Pressure: The Key to Connection 02:36 — Pre-Foreplay: Building Safety & Trust 03:25 — The Pre-Game: Flirty Connection & Melting Defenses 03:57 — Pressure-Free Scenarios: Massage Examples 06:30 — The Impact of No Pressure & Openness 07:27 — Playful Possibility: Fun Ways to Bring Back Foreplay 08:49 — Anticipation & Pre-Game for Scheduled Sex 09:42 — Building Up to No Pressure Sexy Connection 10:15 — Opening the Door to Libido & Support Offers Links & Resources: Start the Roommates to Romance Challenge [https://intimacyafterkids.com/roommates-to-romance] Follow Sofia on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/thehappyvproject/?hl=en] More episodes of Sex After Kids Podcast [https://intimacyafterkids.com/podcast] Drop a comment below with your favourite foreplay rituals or questions! And don’t forget to subscribe for more real, sassy support on sex, intimacy, and pleasure after kids.

The Four Secret Ingredients for a Fab Sex Life - After Kids

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2412811/fan_mail/new] In this episode of the Sex After Kids podcast, we explore the four secret ingredients essential for a fulfilling sex life post-parenthood. Listen in to find out what the nervous system, communication, your relationship to pleasure and your mindset have to do with reclaiming your sex life after kids.  00:00 Introduction to the Podcast 00:37 Setting the Stage with 'Easy' 07:24 The Naked Sexy Fun Times Cycle 14:43 Four Core Ingredients for a Fantastic Sex Life 15:10 Nervous System: The First Ingredient 19:50 Communication: The Second Ingredient 21:53 Relationship to Pleasure: The Third Ingredient 26:41 Mindset: The Fourth Ingredient 29:16 Recap and Final Thoughts

Most Couples Never Actually Learn Intimacy

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2412811/fan_mail/new] If s*x after kids feels awkward, disconnected, or harder than it used to… you are not alone. In this episode, Sofia breaks down why most couples struggle with intimacy after kids — and why it’s NOT because you’re broken, selfish, or “bad at s*x.” Most couples were never actually taught intimacy skills. Instead, we relied on chemistry, novelty, alcohol, low stress, and spontaneity in our 20s… and then felt confused when those things stopped working in marriage and parenthood. Inside this episode: * Why s*x after kids feels so different * The real reason couples stop feeling connected * Why awkwardness creates avoidance * The 3 intimacy skills healthy couples actually need * How to rebuild intimacy without pressure or performance * Why libido isn’t the real problem for most marriages * How to stop the pressure/shutdown cycle * What emotional connection actually looks like in long-term relationships If you feel more like roommates than partners, this conversation will help you understand what’s actually happening — without blame, shame, or making things worse. 👇 Resources Mentioned: * The First Move Men's Group https://canva.link/fk9emz9wu7m82i3 [https://canva.link/fk9emz9wu7m82i3] * The Naked Fun Toolkit: www.intimacyafterkids.com/naked-fun-toolkit-lto?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=naked_fun_toolkit&utm_content=ep86_most_couples_never_actually_learn_intimacy [http://www.intimacyafterkids.com/naked-fun-toolkit-lto?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=naked_fun_toolkit&utm_content=ep86_most_couples_never_actually_learn_intimacy] * The Naked Fun Comeback: https://intimacyafterkids.com/naked-fun-comeback?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=naked_fun_comeback&utm_content=ep86_most_couples_never_actually_learn_intimacy [https://intimacyafterkids.com/naked-fun-comeback?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=naked_fun_comeback&utm_content=ep86_most_couples_never_actually_learn_intimacy] #Marriage #Relationships #Intimacy #SexAfterKids #RelationshipAdvice

Why Women Shut Down Sexually — It’s Not What You Think

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2412811/fan_mail/new] Why do so many women shut down sexually in long-term relationships? In this episode, we’re talking about the emotional dynamic underneath sexual shutdown, rejection loops, pressure, and disconnection… especially after kids. This conversation explores: * why desire can “go underground” * how women are taught to manage men’s emotions * the connection between boundaries, sexuality, and emotional safety * how pressure and shutdown cycles develop * why suppressing sexuality doesn’t actually solve the problem * what both partners can do differently This is not about blaming men or women. It’s about understanding the patterns many couples get stuck in without realizing it. If sex keeps turning into a fight… If you feel like you can’t bring it up without things going sideways… If you miss feeling wanted, connected, or close… This episode is for you. 👇 Resources Mentioned: * The First Move Men's Group https://canva.link/fk9emz9wu7m82i3 [https://canva.link/fk9emz9wu7m82i3] * The Naked Fun Comeback: https://intimacyafterkids.com/naked-fun-comeback?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=naked_fun_comeback&utm_content=ep85_why_women_shut_down_sexually [https://intimacyafterkids.com/naked-fun-comeback?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=naked_fun_comeback&utm_content=ep85_why_women_shut_down_sexually] * The Naked Fun Toolkit: www.intimacyafterkids.com/naked-fun-toolkit-lto?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=naked_fun_toolkit&utm_content=ep85_why_women_shut_down_sexually [http://www.intimacyafterkids.com/naked-fun-toolkit-lto?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=naked_fun_toolkit&utm_content=ep85_why_women_shut_down_sexually] * Roommates to Romance: https://intimacyafterkids.com/roommates-to-romance?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=roommates_to_romance&utm_content=ep85_why_women_shut_down_sexually [https://intimacyafterkids.com/roommates-to-romance?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=roommates_to_romance&utm_content=ep85_why_women_shut_down_sexually]

Why S*x After Kids Feels Awkward Sometimes (And Why That’s Normal)

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2412811/fan_mail/new] What does real intimacy after kids actually look like? In this episode of the S*x After Kids podcast, I’m sharing a real-life bedroom dispatch — including the awkward moments, miscommunication, nervous system shutdown, and honest conversations that almost made us stop halfway through intimacy. Because real s*x after kids doesn’t always look effortless or spontaneous. Sometimes it looks like: • feeling unsure • struggling to get “in the mood” • hitting pause • communicating through awkward moments • learning how to create connection without pressure If you’ve ever wondered: * “Why does intimacy feel harder after kids?” * “Why do I shut down when my partner initiates?” * “Why does s*x keep turning into tension or conflict?” * “Is something wrong with our relationship?” …this episode is for you. We’re talking about: * responsive desire * lower libido after kids * nervous system shutdown * communication during intimacy * rebuilding connection in marriage * pressure vs. safety in relationships * real-world intimacy after kids * how couples reconnect emotionally and physically This is not movie s*x. This is real marriage, real intimacy, and real communication. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone — and there’s another way through this. 👇 Resources Mentioned: * The First Move Men's Group https://canva.link/fk9emz9wu7m82i3 [https://canva.link/fk9emz9wu7m82i3] * The Naked Fun Toolkit: www.intimacyafterkids.com/naked-fun-toolkit-lto?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=naked_fun_toolkit&utm_content=ep84_why_s*x_after_kids_feels_awkward_sometimes [http://www.intimacyafterkids.com/naked-fun-toolkit-lto?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=naked_fun_toolkit&utm_content=ep84_why_s*x_after_kids_feels_awkward_sometimes] * The Naked Fun Comeback: https://intimacyafterkids.com/naked-fun-comeback?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=naked_fun_comeback&utm_content=ep84_why_s*x_after_kids_feels_awkward_sometimes [https://intimacyafterkids.com/naked-fun-comeback?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=naked_fun_comeback&utm_content=ep84_why_s*x_after_kids_feels_awkward_sometimes] #SexAfterKids #MarriageIntimacy #LowLibido #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageAfterKids #IntimacyAfterKids #ResponsiveDesire #CouplesCommunication #SexlessMarriage #RelationshipPodcast #EmotionalConnection #MarriageHelp #DesireAfterKids #ConnectionAfterKids #RelationshipDynamics #RealMarriage #LongTermRelationships #RelationshipSupport #CouplesIntimacy #MarriagePodcast