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Who Should You Trust With Your Money? (Friends, Family, Experts, AI, and Bad Advice) SB1869

1 h 11 min · 17. juli 2026
episode Who Should You Trust With Your Money? (Friends, Family, Experts, AI, and Bad Advice) SB1869 cover

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A Wall Street Journal story about a 17-year-old helping his family with financial decisions kicks off a much bigger Stacking Benjamins question: who should you actually trust with your money? Joe, Doug, Paula Pant, Jesse Cramer, and special guest Roger Whitney dig into where great advice comes from, why bad advice often comes from people who love you, and how to build a better filter before you act. Along the way, they talk books, podcasts, family advice, AI, confirmation bias, homebuying myths, index funds, retirement plans, and why "smart" isn't enough. What You'll Walk Away With Why Roger says "advice" has a high bar: real advice should apply to your specific life, not just sound smart in public The difference between information and advice -- and why confusing the two can lead you into trouble Why books often beat random internet advice: they usually have more vetting, structure, and accountability How well-meaning friends and family can still give terrible money advice when they speak confidently about things they don't really understand Paula's advice pyramid: avoid people who profit from outrage, be skeptical of people with no accountability, and seek sources with both expertise and vetting Why AI can be useful as a sparring partner, but not as a substitute for your own thinking or fact-checking The danger of "always" and "never" advice: always buy a house, always max your 401(k), never finance a car, always buy index funds Why renting isn't automatically throwing money away -- and how the price-to-rent ratio can help you think more clearly Why maxing out your workplace retirement plan may not always be the right move, especially when tax flexibility, business investment, or other goals matter more How confirmation bias, present bias, and absolute certainty can fool you into believing your plan is stronger than it is What to look for in your personal board of directors: people you respect, people with a high signal-to-noise ratio, and people who are kind enough to tell you the truth Why Roger says a kind person is better than a merely nice one when you need real feedback Why This Matters Now Financial advice is everywhere: podcasts, books, TikTok, AI, coworkers, relatives, advisors, and confident strangers with strong opinions. The hard part isn't finding advice. It's knowing which advice deserves your attention. This episode gives Stackers a filter for separating useful guidance from noise before the wrong voice gets too close to their money. From the Basement Joe uses a Wall Street Journal piece about a teenage family financial advisor to launch a bigger card-table debate with Paula Pant, Jesse Cramer, and Roger Whitney. The crew builds a money-advice pyramid, debates which financial rules should be ignored, and explores when to trust yourself versus when to bring in your board of directors. Doug celebrates Art Linkletter with Game of Life trivia, Paula admits she's never played it, and OG's trivia lead might get a little more uncomfortable. Resources Mentioned The Wall Street Journal piece by Oyin Adedoyin about a 17-year-old helping his family with financial decisions Roger Whitney -- The Retirement Answer Man podcast Paula Pant -- Afford Anything podcast Jesse Cramer -- Personal Finance for Long-Term Investors podcast Seth Godin -- Linchpin Thomas Stanley and William Danko -- The Millionaire Next Door Robert Kiyosaki -- Rich Dad Poor Dad Robert Cialdini -- Influence Richard Feynman -- Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman! Beth Kobliner -- referenced as an upcoming Afford Anything guest Stacking Benjamins Newsletter, The 201 -- stackingbenjamins.com/201 Stacking Benjamins YouTube channel -- youtube.com/stackingbenjamins See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

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episode Who Should You Trust With Your Money? (Friends, Family, Experts, AI, and Bad Advice) SB1869 artwork

Who Should You Trust With Your Money? (Friends, Family, Experts, AI, and Bad Advice) SB1869

A Wall Street Journal story about a 17-year-old helping his family with financial decisions kicks off a much bigger Stacking Benjamins question: who should you actually trust with your money? Joe, Doug, Paula Pant, Jesse Cramer, and special guest Roger Whitney dig into where great advice comes from, why bad advice often comes from people who love you, and how to build a better filter before you act. Along the way, they talk books, podcasts, family advice, AI, confirmation bias, homebuying myths, index funds, retirement plans, and why "smart" isn't enough. What You'll Walk Away With Why Roger says "advice" has a high bar: real advice should apply to your specific life, not just sound smart in public The difference between information and advice -- and why confusing the two can lead you into trouble Why books often beat random internet advice: they usually have more vetting, structure, and accountability How well-meaning friends and family can still give terrible money advice when they speak confidently about things they don't really understand Paula's advice pyramid: avoid people who profit from outrage, be skeptical of people with no accountability, and seek sources with both expertise and vetting Why AI can be useful as a sparring partner, but not as a substitute for your own thinking or fact-checking The danger of "always" and "never" advice: always buy a house, always max your 401(k), never finance a car, always buy index funds Why renting isn't automatically throwing money away -- and how the price-to-rent ratio can help you think more clearly Why maxing out your workplace retirement plan may not always be the right move, especially when tax flexibility, business investment, or other goals matter more How confirmation bias, present bias, and absolute certainty can fool you into believing your plan is stronger than it is What to look for in your personal board of directors: people you respect, people with a high signal-to-noise ratio, and people who are kind enough to tell you the truth Why Roger says a kind person is better than a merely nice one when you need real feedback Why This Matters Now Financial advice is everywhere: podcasts, books, TikTok, AI, coworkers, relatives, advisors, and confident strangers with strong opinions. The hard part isn't finding advice. It's knowing which advice deserves your attention. This episode gives Stackers a filter for separating useful guidance from noise before the wrong voice gets too close to their money. From the Basement Joe uses a Wall Street Journal piece about a teenage family financial advisor to launch a bigger card-table debate with Paula Pant, Jesse Cramer, and Roger Whitney. The crew builds a money-advice pyramid, debates which financial rules should be ignored, and explores when to trust yourself versus when to bring in your board of directors. Doug celebrates Art Linkletter with Game of Life trivia, Paula admits she's never played it, and OG's trivia lead might get a little more uncomfortable. Resources Mentioned The Wall Street Journal piece by Oyin Adedoyin about a 17-year-old helping his family with financial decisions Roger Whitney -- The Retirement Answer Man podcast Paula Pant -- Afford Anything podcast Jesse Cramer -- Personal Finance for Long-Term Investors podcast Seth Godin -- Linchpin Thomas Stanley and William Danko -- The Millionaire Next Door Robert Kiyosaki -- Rich Dad Poor Dad Robert Cialdini -- Influence Richard Feynman -- Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman! Beth Kobliner -- referenced as an upcoming Afford Anything guest Stacking Benjamins Newsletter, The 201 -- stackingbenjamins.com/201 Stacking Benjamins YouTube channel -- youtube.com/stackingbenjamins See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

17. juli 20261 h 11 min
episode What History Tells Us About Crypto, Real Estate, and Every Other Financial "Truth" (with Dr. Joseph Moore) SB1868 artwork

What History Tells Us About Crypto, Real Estate, and Every Other Financial "Truth" (with Dr. Joseph Moore) SB1868

In the 1800s, the smartest financial advice your grandparents could receive was: don't save money, because it will probably go to zero. Stocks were considered scams. Real estate was the only real path to wealth. Crypto isn't the future, it's a replay of something that happened dozens of times before the Civil War. Dr. Joseph Moore is a historian, a New York Times bestselling author, and someone who has spent his career proving that what always worked was always changing. His book is How to Get Rich in American History, and this conversation will make you rethink at least three things you currently believe about money. What You'll Walk Away With * Why grandparents in the 1800s told their grandchildren never to save money -- and why that advice was completely rational at the time * The crypto-as-past argument: why self-issued currencies have existed since before the Civil War, why they all eventually went to zero, and what the one thing is that actually made the US dollar trustworthy * Why stocks beating bonds in the long run is only true since World War II -- and what that means for treating any historical financial truth as permanent * The go-ahead philosophy: why Americans used to define success as actively moving forward rather than passively not falling behind -- and why that shift in language reveals something important * Why financial gurus get a worse reputation than they deserve -- and the German economist's study that showed Dave Ramsey alone has saved the US economy the GDP of a mid-sized nation state * The FIRE movement isn't new: the original four-hour workday, a man with Ten Acres Enough in 1850s New Jersey, and what the Nearings' Vermont maple farm story actually teaches about the selling of early retirement * Fast time versus slow time: why the financial media is paid to tell you it's always fast time, why it's almost never fast time, and how to know the difference when it actually matters * Why the 4% rule and the safe withdrawal rate are research findings worth knowing -- and exactly why building a 30-year financial plan around a fixed number is still a mistake * Five first-half 2026 lessons from the Stacking Benjamins mentor vault: creativity, adversity, mistakes, the go-ahead mindset, and compounding * The compounding belief problem: why OG's framework for trusting the math you've already lived is the most underrated motivational tool in personal finance * Why This Matters Now Every financial truth that feels permanent right now -- index funds always win, real estate always appreciates, crypto is either the future or a scam -- is newer than you think and more conditional than it sounds. The investors who build real flexibility into their plans are the ones who survive when the conditions change. And the conditions always change. From the Basement Dr. Joseph Moore joins Joe and OG to pick fights with crypto, passive income, real estate mythology, Napoleon Hill, and the entire academic finance establishment -- while making the case that financial gurus, properly understood, have done more measurable good for American wealth than all the finance professors combined. OG is in Colorado acclimating for a bicycle climb that has Doug genuinely concerned about whether a financial co-host counts as a dependent. Doug arrives with trivia tied to today's birthday that connects Nintendo's origins to something nobody expected. Five mentor highlights from the first half of 2026 close the episode -- including clips from George Newman on creativity, Jim Murphy on adversity, Bola Sokunbi on surviving a very expensive rollover mistake, Beth Kobliner on why young people are gambling instead of saving, and Cody Berman on the compounding moment that changes everything. Resources Mentioned * How to Get Rich in American History by Dr. Joseph Moore -- New York Times bestseller; available at bookstores and on Amazon; josephmoore.com * Inner Excellence by Jim Murphy -- referenced for mental strength and adversity; available wherever books are sold * Clever Girl Finance -- Bola Sokunbi; clevergirlfinance.com * Afford Anything podcast -- Paula Pant; referenced in first-half mentor recap * Retire by 30 by Cody Berman -- retireby30book.com * Get a Financial Life by Beth Kobliner -- referenced in first-half mentor recap * Stacking Benjamins Field Kit -- stackingbenjamins.com/fieldkit [https://stackingbenjamins.com/fieldkit] * Stacking Benjamins Newsletter (The 201) -- stackingbenjamins.com/201 [https://stackingbenjamins.com/201]; write Joe at joe@stackingbenjamins.com [joe@stackingbenjamins.com] with your favorite first-half lesson * Stacking Benjamins Community -- stackingbenjamins.com/basement [https://stackingbenjamins.com/basement] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

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episode Did You Miss the Small Cap Rally? What the First Half of 2026 Taught Every Investor (SB1867) artwork

Did You Miss the Small Cap Rally? What the First Half of 2026 Taught Every Investor (SB1867)

Small company stocks were up nearly 22% in the first six months of 2026. Emerging markets were up 24%. Meanwhile, plenty of people sat on the sidelines convinced those asset classes were dead, chased last year's winners, or just didn't know what they owned. Joe, OG, and Len Penzo break down the first-half scorecard, explain why the lesson isn't about timing -- it's about diversification -- and walk through what an investment policy statement actually is and why having one would have kept most people out of trouble. What You'll Walk Away With * The first-half 2026 scorecard: Russell 2000 up 21.9%, MSCI Emerging Markets up 24%, S&P 500 up 9.6%, and why the breadth of the rally matters more than the headline number * Why OG's one-sentence takeaway -- "the plan always works" -- is both right and incomplete, and what Len's personal experience this year adds to the conversation * What an investment policy statement actually is: the one-page written decision tree that protects you from making bad moves when markets spike or crash * Why the market closes at an all-time high roughly 30% of the time -- and what that means for the "I'm waiting for it to come down" crowd * How to x-ray your portfolio: the specific inventory OG recommends taking before you make any changes * Why you should rebalance all at once rather than filling in holes slowly -- and the one asterisk that applies before you do anything in a taxable account * Len on the mining sector: why GDX returned 154% last year and is down 10% this year -- and exactly what that pattern teaches about chasing returns * Why trying to explain your investment plan to another human being is the best stress test you have * The allowance micro-economy problem: what happens when you pay kids per task and they start pricing everything in units of dog poop * Jessica's win from the Basement: how one Stacker helped her 25-year-old cousin sign up for her first 401(k), get the full company match, and choose index funds Why This Matters Now The second half of 2026 starts now. If you don't know what you own, why you own it, or what you'd do if it dropped 30%, this is the episode to act on before the next six months get away from you. From the Basement Joe, OG, and Len Penzo review the first half of 2026, build a case for why diversification beats prediction every time, and explain what an investment policy statement is and how to write one. Doug celebrates the Hollywood sign's origin as a real estate advertisement and shares two things social media actually taught us -- including a TikTok comedian voicing the thoughts in Mark Zuckerberg's ear during a very long beef discussion. Len's annual sandwich survey is about a month away. True Money Stories is climbing the Amazon charts. Resources Mentioned * True Money Stories by Len Penzo -- available on Amazon; lenpenzo.com [https://lenpenzo.com] * Len Penzo dot com -- lenpenzo.com [https://lenpenzo.com]; 3,000 articles, 18 years of personal finance writing * Stacking Benjamins Field Kit -- stackingbenjamins.com/fieldkit [https://stackingbenjamins.com/fieldkit] * Stacking Benjamins Newsletter (The 201) -- stackingbenjamins.com/201 [https://stackingbenjamins.com/201] * Stacking Benjamins Community -- stackingbenjamins.com/basement [https://stackingbenjamins.com/basement] * OG financial planning calendar -- stackingbenjamins.com/og [https://stackingbenjamins.com/og] See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

13. juli 202659 min
episode Can You Save Too Much? Finding the Sweet Spot Between FI, Spending, and Life (SB1866) artwork

Can You Save Too Much? Finding the Sweet Spot Between FI, Spending, and Life (SB1866)

Today's show asks one of the trickiest questions in personal finance: when does a good habit go too far? Saving is great. Cutting expenses can change your life. Earning more can open doors. But what happens when you optimize so hard that you accidentally squeeze the joy out of the whole plan? Joe, Doug, Diana Merriam from EconoMe, New York Times financial writer Paulette Perhach, and Doc G from Earn and Invest dig into the messy middle between YOLO and never spending a dime. Plus, Doug brings hockey trivia, the panel talks odd jobs, and everyone tries to define what "enough" actually means. You'll see very quickly why this episode is an integral part of greatest hits week! What You'll Walk Away With Why reducing expenses works best when it removes waste -- not when it turns your life into a deprivation contest Diana's throw-pillow test: how to ask whether you actually want something or just inherited the idea that you're supposed to want it The difference between frugal and cheap -- and why ironing hotel toast or stealing dealership coffee might be a sign you've crossed the line Why Doc G says saving money is only useful if it eventually becomes fuel for the life you want to live The case for "YOLO responsibly": automate the saving first, then give yourself room to spend without turning every purchase into a morality play Why high savings rates can be powerful in your 20s -- especially when friends turn frugality into a shared goal instead of social isolation Paulette's reminder that money habits aren't just math; ADHD, dopamine, entrepreneurship, and self-compassion can all change how saving feels Why earning more often matters more than cutting more -- and how Diana's denied raise helped push her toward building her own thing Doc G's hospice-doctor warning: nobody gets to the end wishing they had worked more nights and weekends to hit a slightly bigger net worth Why Coast FI may be the healthier goal for some people: save enough to create options, then stop tolerating work or lifestyles that no longer fit The guardrails idea: avoid both extremes -- wasting your future and wasting your present Why This Matters Now It's easy to turn personal finance into a scoreboard: lower expenses, higher savings rate, bigger income, faster FI date. But the real goal isn't winning the spreadsheet. It's building a life that feels secure, flexible, and worth living while you're still living it. This conversation is a reminder to use money as a tool, not a dare. From the Basement Joe Saul-Sehy gathers a rare Friday card table with Diana Merriam, Paulette Perhach, and Doc G to talk about saving too much, spending too much, working too hard, and finding the middle before the middle finds you. Doug is salty about not going to FinCon, the panel debates FIRE extremes, someone brings up homemade Gatorade, and the trivia question involves hockey nets. No word yet on whether Mom has removed the throw pillows upstairs. Resources Mentioned MrStingy.com -- "Too Much of a Good Thing: Taking It Too Far" Diana Merriam -- EconoMe Conference; economeconference.com Diana Merriam -- Optimal Finance Daily Paulette Perhach -- pauletteperhach.com Paulette Perhach -- New York Times personal finance writing, including ADHD and money Doc G / Jordan Grumet -- Earn and Invest podcast Doc G -- Wealth with Purpose The Fioneers -- referenced in the lifestyle design conversation Frugalwoods -- referenced during the throw-pillow/minimalism discussion Stacking Benjamins Newsletter, The 201 -- stackingbenjamins.com/201 Stacking Benjamins Community, The Basement -- stackingbenjamins.com/basement See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

10. juli 20261 h 1 min
episode Scott Galloway's Algebra of Wealth: Build Money, Meaning, and Stop Comparing Yourself to the S&P500 (SB1865) artwork

Scott Galloway's Algebra of Wealth: Build Money, Meaning, and Stop Comparing Yourself to the S&P500 (SB1865)

Scott Galloway doesn't do soft-pedal advice. In this Greatest Hits conversation, the NYU professor, entrepreneur, investor, and author of The Algebra of Wealth joins Joe to talk about why building wealth is less about chasing passion, picking the perfect stock, or waiting for retirement -- and more about focus, discipline, diversification, time, and relationships. Before that, Joe and OG dig into a 401(k) lawsuit involving AllianceBernstein and why comparing your portfolio to the wrong benchmark can send your plan sideways. Later, Alex calls in with a big early-retirement question: how do you access retirement money before age 59 and a half without triggering penalties? What You'll Walk Away With Why Scott Galloway says money is not the story -- it's the ink in the pen that can help you build deeper relationships with less anxiety The "follow your passion" problem: why Scott believes young people should look first for talent, certification, and industries where they can become excellent Why boring careers can create extraordinary lives -- especially when they offer income, stability, and room to build options Scott's wealth equation: focus, stoicism, diversification, and time -- and why each piece matters more than trying to look brilliant for one lucky moment The savings muscle: why measuring spending, gamifying saving, and surrounding yourself with the right people can change behavior faster than good intentions alone Why diversification is financial Kevlar -- it may not make you look like a hero, but it can keep one bad investment from becoming a fatal wound The retirement myth Scott wants to burn down: why the goal isn't necessarily to stop working, but to make work a choice instead of a trap The 401(k) benchmarking lesson: why Joe and OG say your benchmark should be your goal, not whichever index happened to win over the last decade Why chasing the S&P 500 because it recently crushed everything else can become dangerous when you forget that market leadership rotates What the AllianceBernstein lawsuit teaches participants: ERISA protects against imprudence, not against every disappointing stretch of market performance Alex's early-retirement question: the difference between accessing 401(k) money after separation from service at age 55 and using SEPP rules before then Why substantially equal periodic payments can work -- but also why OG says you want experienced help before touching those rules Why splitting IRA assets into separate buckets may create more flexibility for early-retirement income planning Why This Matters Now A lot of people want the shortcut: the best stock, the best index, the perfect retirement number, the magic career move. Scott Galloway's message is more durable than that. Build skills. Save consistently. Avoid lifestyle traps. Diversify. Give time room to work. Keep the people around you strong. That's not flashy, but it is the kind of advice that still works when the market, the economy, and your life refuse to cooperate. From the Basement Joe and OG start with a retirement-plan lawsuit that turns into a bigger conversation about how Stackers should judge their own portfolios. Then Scott Galloway pulls up a chair at the card table to talk about wealth, work, saving, relationships, his mom, Sizzler, bourbon, Tom Petty, and why you don't need to be a hero to build real financial security. Doug brings trivia about the first camera phone, plus a few modeling notes of his own. Later, Alex asks how early retirees can tap retirement accounts before 59 and a half, and the basement joke-off marches toward its dramatic, deeply mathematical conclusion. Resources Mentioned Scott Galloway -- The Algebra of Wealth Stacking Benjamins Newsletter, The 201 -- stackingbenjamins.com/201 OG financial planning calendar -- stackingbenjamins.com/og Stacking Benjamins voicemail line -- stackingbenjamins.com/voicemail Stacking Benjamins Community, The Basement -- stackingbenjamins.com/basement Stacking Benjamins YouTube channel -- youtube.com/stackingbenjamins InvestmentNews article by Emil Halasz on the AllianceBernstein 401(k) lawsuit JL Collins -- The Simple Path to Wealth Paul Merriman and Peter Mallouk -- referenced during the benchmarking and diversification discussion IRS Rule 72(t) / SEPP rules -- referenced for early retirement account withdrawals See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

8. juli 20261 h 7 min