Episode 16: Clear Is Actually Kind — Why People Pleasing Creates Resentment

Episode 16: Clear Is Actually Kind — Why People Pleasing Creates Resentment

A lot of us learned that being “nice” meant keeping everyone comfortable. In this episode, Daveda talks about people pleasing, resentment, and why being clear is often much kinder than avoiding discomfort. The Weekly Drop: https://aw1407fc.aweb.page/p/f2cb2f6f-ff7c-4c51-a98b-58447c313e22 [https://aw1407fc.aweb.page/p/f2cb2f6f-ff7c-4c51-a98b-58447c313e22] LEGAL DISCLAIMER By listening to the Standing Naked podcast (“podcast”), you agree to the terms below. If you do not wish to be bound by these terms, please discontinue listening and, if needed, contact us at heyhey@davedaschmidlin.com. NOT THERAPY OR MEDICAL ADVICE The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not therapy, medical advice, or a substitute for care from a licensed mental health or medical professional. Daveda Schmidlin is not a licensed mental health clinician and cannot provide individual mental health, medical, or crisis advice. If you are experiencing mental health concerns, please seek support from a qualified professional or appropriate emergency services in your area. LIMITATION OF LIABILITY By engaging with this podcast, you assume all responsibility and risk. Under no circumstances shall Daveda Schmidlin, her employees, contractors, or affiliates be liable for any direct, indirect, incidental, special, or consequential damages, or lost profits, arising from your use of or reliance on this podcast or any technical issues (including but not limited to interruptions, errors, defects, or unauthorized access). COPYRIGHT The content of the Standing Naked podcast is protected by copyright law. You may share links to publicly available episodes for personal, non-commercial use. You may not reproduce, modify, distribute, or create derivative works from the audio or related materials without prior written permission. © 2024 Standing Naked with Daveda Schmidlin – All Rights Reserved

Episode 15: Are You Running Your Life… or Is Your Life Running You?

When you step into something new, you’re not always starting from scratch — sometimes you’re stepping into patterns that were built by someone else. In this episode, Daveda shares how quickly we can absorb those patterns without realizing it, and what it looks like to get back in the driver’s seat so your life, and your work, doesn’t start running you.doesn’t start running you. The Weekly Drop: https://aw1407fc.aweb.page/p/f2cb2f6f-ff7c-4c51-a98b-58447c313e22 [https://aw1407fc.aweb.page/p/f2cb2f6f-ff7c-4c51-a98b-58447c313e22] LEGAL DISCLAIMER By listening to the Standing Naked podcast (“podcast”), you agree to the terms below. If you do not wish to be bound by these terms, please discontinue listening and, if needed, contact us at heyhey@davedaschmidlin.com. NOT THERAPY OR MEDICAL ADVICE The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not therapy, medical advice, or a substitute for care from a licensed mental health or medical professional. Daveda Schmidlin is not a licensed mental health clinician and cannot provide individual mental health, medical, or crisis advice. If you are experiencing mental health concerns, please seek support from a qualified professional or appropriate emergency services in your area. LIMITATION OF LIABILITY By engaging with this podcast, you assume all responsibility and risk. Under no circumstances shall Daveda Schmidlin, her employees, contractors, or affiliates be liable for any direct, indirect, incidental, special, or consequential damages, or lost profits, arising from your use of or reliance on this podcast or any technical issues (including but not limited to interruptions, errors, defects, or unauthorized access). COPYRIGHT The content of the Standing Naked podcast is protected by copyright law. You may share links to publicly available episodes for personal, non-commercial use. You may not reproduce, modify, distribute, or create derivative works from the audio or related materials without prior written permission. © 2024 Standing Naked with Daveda Schmidlin – All Rights Reserved

Episode 14: Why You Want To Fix How They See You (And Why You Don’t Have To)

There’s a moment where someone sees you differently than you see yourself… and everything in you wants to fix it. In this episode, Daveda talks about the pull to fix how you’re perceived — especially when you know you’ve acted in integrity — and what it looks like to stay rooted in your truth without trying to manage someone else’s version of you. The Weekly Drop: https://aw1407fc.aweb.page/p/f2cb2f6f-ff7c-4c51-a98b-58447c313e22 [https://aw1407fc.aweb.page/p/f2cb2f6f-ff7c-4c51-a98b-58447c313e22] LEGAL DISCLAIMER By listening to the Standing Naked podcast (“podcast”), you agree to the terms below. If you do not wish to be bound by these terms, please discontinue listening and, if needed, contact us at heyhey@davedaschmidlin.com. NOT THERAPY OR MEDICAL ADVICE The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not therapy, medical advice, or a substitute for care from a licensed mental health or medical professional. Daveda Schmidlin is not a licensed mental health clinician and cannot provide individual mental health, medical, or crisis advice. If you are experiencing mental health concerns, please seek support from a qualified professional or appropriate emergency services in your area. LIMITATION OF LIABILITY By engaging with this podcast, you assume all responsibility and risk. Under no circumstances shall Daveda Schmidlin, her employees, contractors, or affiliates be liable for any direct, indirect, incidental, special, or consequential damages, or lost profits, arising from your use of or reliance on this podcast or any technical issues (including but not limited to interruptions, errors, defects, or unauthorized access). COPYRIGHT The content of the Standing Naked podcast is protected by copyright law. You may share links to publicly available episodes for personal, non-commercial use. You may not reproduce, modify, distribute, or create derivative works from the audio or related materials without prior written permission. © 2024 Standing Naked with Daveda Schmidlin – All Rights Reserved

Episode 13: Are You In Danger… Or Just Uncomfortable?

We’ve started using the word “safe” for almost everything. But what if the moment you’re calling unsafe… isn’t actually about danger at all? In this episode, Daveda unpacks the difference between real danger and emotional discomfort — and why confusing the two can train your nervous system to treat vulnerability, feedback, and growth like threats. Sometimes it isn’t that you’re unsafe. Sometimes it’s that you’re uncomfortable. Sometimes it’s discernment. And learning to tell the difference can change how you show up in relationships, in rooms where you’re stretching, and in moments where honesty feels risky. The Weekly Drop: https://aw1407fc.aweb.page/p/f2cb2f6f-ff7c-4c51-a98b-58447c313e22 [https://aw1407fc.aweb.page/p/f2cb2f6f-ff7c-4c51-a98b-58447c313e22] LEGAL DISCLAIMER By listening to the Standing Naked podcast (“podcast”), you agree to the terms below. If you do not wish to be bound by these terms, please discontinue listening and, if needed, contact us at heyhey@davedaschmidlin.com. NOT THERAPY OR MEDICAL ADVICE The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not therapy, medical advice, or a substitute for care from a licensed mental health or medical professional. Daveda Schmidlin is not a licensed mental health clinician and cannot provide individual mental health, medical, or crisis advice. If you are experiencing mental health concerns, please seek support from a qualified professional or appropriate emergency services in your area. LIMITATION OF LIABILITY By engaging with this podcast, you assume all responsibility and risk. Under no circumstances shall Daveda Schmidlin, her employees, contractors, or affiliates be liable for any direct, indirect, incidental, special, or consequential damages, or lost profits, arising from your use of or reliance on this podcast or any technical issues (including but not limited to interruptions, errors, defects, or unauthorized access). COPYRIGHT The content of the Standing Naked podcast is protected by copyright law. You may share links to publicly available episodes for personal, non-commercial use. You may not reproduce, modify, distribute, or create derivative works from the audio or related materials without prior written permission. © 2024 Standing Naked with Daveda Schmidlin – All Rights Reserved

Episode 12: Why You Feel The Need To Over-Explain — And What Changes When You Don’t

Why does it feel so uncomfortable to just say something… and leave it there? If you find yourself adding the extra paragraph, clarifying your tone, or trying to make sure everyone “gets it,” this episode is for you. Daveda unpacks what’s really underneath the urge to over-explain — the nervous system spike, the fear of being misunderstood, and the quiet need to manage how you’re perceived. What begins to change when you stop trying to control the narrative and start trusting yourself instead is subtle, but powerful. The Weekly Drop: https://aw1407fc.aweb.page/p/f2cb2f6f-ff7c-4c51-a98b-58447c313e22 [https://aw1407fc.aweb.page/p/f2cb2f6f-ff7c-4c51-a98b-58447c313e22] LEGAL DISCLAIMER By listening to the Standing Naked podcast (“podcast”), you agree to the terms below. If you do not wish to be bound by these terms, please discontinue listening and, if needed, contact us at heyhey@davedaschmidlin.com. NOT THERAPY OR MEDICAL ADVICE The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not therapy, medical advice, or a substitute for care from a licensed mental health or medical professional. Daveda Schmidlin is not a licensed mental health clinician and cannot provide individual mental health, medical, or crisis advice. If you are experiencing mental health concerns, please seek support from a qualified professional or appropriate emergency services in your area. LIMITATION OF LIABILITY By engaging with this podcast, you assume all responsibility and risk. Under no circumstances shall Daveda Schmidlin, her employees, contractors, or affiliates be liable for any direct, indirect, incidental, special, or consequential damages, or lost profits, arising from your use of or reliance on this podcast or any technical issues (including but not limited to interruptions, errors, defects, or unauthorized access). COPYRIGHT The content of the Standing Naked podcast is protected by copyright law. You may share links to publicly available episodes for personal, non-commercial use. You may not reproduce, modify, distribute, or create derivative works from the audio or related materials without prior written permission. © 2024 Standing Naked with Daveda Schmidlin – All Rights Reserved