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"My Pregnancy Saved My Life": Cancer, Resilience, and beginning Motherhood | Tribe of Parents Ep 1 Can being at your most vulnerable also be the thing that saves you? In this opening episode of the Tribe of Parents Experience, we sit down with Cliodhna Russell, a newsreader and researcher whose life was upended by a "rugby ball-sized" Sarcoma diagnosis while she was five months pregnant. From receiving a cancer diagnosis alone during a global pandemic to navigating the "black humour" of a crisis, Cliodhna’s story is a masterclass in psychological resilience. We dive into the "Journalist Mode" we use to process trauma, the burden of delivering life-altering news, and why "unplanned beginnings" can lead to a resilience we never knew we possessed. Key Learning Outcomes & Life Lessons The "Pregnancy Save": Cliodhna reflects on the terrifying reality that without her routine pregnancy check-ups, her tumour likely would have metastasized before being detected. Learning: Sometimes our greatest responsibilities—like carrying a child—are the very things that force us to care for ourselves. Managing High-Stakes Anxiety: When her consultant told her, "We’ll worry about this, and you just worry about the baby" she latched onto it as a survival strategy. Learning: In a crisis, "compartmentalizing worry" is a vital tool for mental endurance. The Weight of the "Sole Messenger": Due to COVID-19 restrictions, Cliodhna had to process her diagnosis alone and then "edit" the news for her husband in the car park. Learning: Isolation in medical trauma creates a secondary burden—the pressure of managing a loved one's reaction while processing your own. Perspective Isn't a Permanent State: Cliodhna is candid about the fact that surviving cancer didn't turn her into a saint. Learning: You can have "crystal clear" clarity during a crisis but still get annoyed by the small, "silly" things in the day-to-day—and that’s a normal part of being human. Navigate the Conversation 0:00 — The "It couldn't happen to me" mindset 2:15 — The Atmosphere Shift: Knowing you're in trouble 5:03 — The Birthday Call: Receiving the news 7:17 — Entering "Journalist Mode": Intellectualizing trauma 8:40 — Delivering the News: Being the messenger 12:45 — Black Humour at Christmas: A survival tool 13:08 — The "Breech" Devastation vs. Cancer diagnosis 44:59 — The Myth of the "New Person" The Power of the Unplanned Cliodhna’s story is a powerful reminder that many of our most significant chapters—and even our children—come from unplanned beginnings. There is no "single blueprint" for being a parent, especially when life throws you a curveball that no one could prepare for. She shows us that you don't need a perfect start to build a "solid foundation of structure and strength." It’s okay to not have all the answers; as long as you have your community to lean on, you can navigate the path you're on, even if it’s not the one you originally chose. MARK YOUR CALENDARS: Our episodes drop biweekly. Thank you for listening! You can watch the full episode on YouTube @tribeofparents. Don't forget to follow Tribe of Parents on Instagram for updates and information. If you enjoy the podcast, please subscribe and leave a review - it really helps us out! Stay tuned for more real, raw parenting related conversations. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.
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