Boundaries, people pleasing & healing your relationship with food

Boundaries, people pleasing & healing your relationship with food

Heyy guys This week we are back with such an important topic which is boundaries. If youve ever had people comment on your food choices, your body or your life in general and always felt like you could never speak up for yourself. We are diving deep into all of that how this comes back to childhood, being a ‘good girl’, people pleasing & abandoning ourselves. How all of these then lead us to using food to cope with uncomfortable emotions and not expressing ourselves authentically. I loved this episode because all of these things I have struggled with and now understand how these massively impacted the relationship I had with food but also with myself. I also go through how to set boundaries and why it’s so important for you to do so. Boundaries do not have to be arguments or any sort of confrontation. I really hope you get something from todays episode and I would love to hear from you Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/ciaraoconnorcoaching/ [https://www.instagram.com/ciaraoconnorcoaching/] TIME STAMP: 00:00 Welcome Back Setup 00:46 Why Boundaries Matter 01:49 What Boundaries Are 05:24 People Pleasing Fallout 09:56 Food as Coping Mechanism 13:19 Practice Small Boundaries 15:41 Family Food Comments 18:02 When Nice Fails Bite Back 22:15 Express Then Decide 25:04 Self Respect Wrap Up

6 steps you can take to STOP picking yourself apart daily

Heyy guys This week we are back with an episode all around how to stop picking your body apart. Its a cycle I know so many women are caught in and I once was too. We say to ourselves if I just "look" this way I wouldn't be speaking to myself like this etc but the thing about insecurities is when you 'fix' one it just goes to another place. The real change happens when you address how you speak to yourself, the beliefs you have about your body, your self worth and how you treat yourself. That is the work I do daily with my clients and its the exact reason they all walk away with a good relationship with food and a body they have peace & safety with. I hope you guys get something from this episode and start applying it to your life!! I would love to hear from you if you enjoyed this episode Work 1-1 w/me : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd_sHOPfZS05j4gv2kH7eBtexu7bXwsqlr4RsGCwRvAs1vJlw/viewform?usp=preview [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd_sHOPfZS05j4gv2kH7eBtexu7bXwsqlr4RsGCwRvAs1vJlw/viewform?usp=preview] Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/ciaraoconnorcoaching/ [https://www.instagram.com/ciaraoconnorcoaching/] Love, Ciara

I used to feel completely out of control around food until I rebuilt self-trust

hey guys Back with an episode all around not feeling in control around food. Which is a statement i used to say a lot to myself & one i hear a lot from new clients who work with me. Firstly its not that you cant control yourself around food its that your body doesn't feel safe around food. You don't trust yourself around food, listening to your body or making choices for yourself. Self trust is one of the main things that you work on when it comes to healing your relationship with food because its the main thing that is lost when you spend years yo yo dieting, in the binge restrict cycle or always restricting. Dieting is not the issue, fatloss is not the issue but being in that way of thinking ALL of the time is the issue Todays episode we talk all things self trust. How its broken down in the first place & what you can do to rebuild self trust (all of the things i spoke about are all the things ive done and my clients have done). If you have any specific questions on this episode just drop me a message on instagram & i hope you enjoy itt!! Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/ciaraoconnorcoaching/ [https://www.instagram.com/ciaraoconnorcoaching/] Love Ciara xo

Can you have body acceptance & change your body at the same time?

Heyy guys, It's been a HOTT minute ! I am back with one of my favourite things to talk about recently which is body acceptance. I think a lot of what social media says about body acceptance isn't truth its not about standing in the mirror saying you love your body when you don't. I cleared up all the misconceptions about body acceptance and went through what it actually means to have it? Can you have it whilst also wanting to change your body at the same time? I explain it all in todays episode I hope this helps one of you on your own journey with your body image!! If you have any questions just drop me a message on instagram If you feel called to work 1-1 with me to do the deeper work on your relationship with food and body image you can apply here : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd_sHOPfZS05j4gv2kH7eBtexu7bXwsqlr4RsGCwRvAs1vJlw/viewform?usp=preview [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd_sHOPfZS05j4gv2kH7eBtexu7bXwsqlr4RsGCwRvAs1vJlw/viewform?usp=preview] Love Ciara xo

Health anxiety?? How do I stop thinking worst case scenario?

Heyy guys Back again with another one of my fave episodes all around health anxiety!! Today i dive into my own experience with health anxiety, always thinking worse case scenario, worrying about everything to the point it consumed my mind. I wanted to look at what is underneath that fear and why do we feel the need to always think that way? Cant wait to hear what you guys think please do let me know if you give it a listen over on instagram and like always i hope you get something from todays episode even if it helps you better understand your own mind Love Ciara xo