EP26: “Can We Keep Kids Catholic?” with Fr Chad VanHoose

EP26: “Can We Keep Kids Catholic?” with Fr Chad VanHoose

About this Episode Can you actually “keep” kids Catholic—or is that the wrong question entirely? In this episode of the YDisciple Podcast, Pete and Annie are joined again by NET’s chaplain, Father Chad VanHoose, to wrestle with one of the most common—and pressure-filled—questions in ministry and parenting. Together, they unpack the heart behind the question and challenge the assumptions built into it, especially the idea that faith can be controlled, managed, or guaranteed. Through honest conversation, they explore the tension between responsibility and surrender: doing everything you can to form young people in the faith while recognizing that their relationship with God is ultimately not yours to control. They highlight the dangers of a “formula mindset,” the importance of authentic witness, and the role of freedom in true discipleship. Rather than focusing on “keeping” someone Catholic, the conversation shifts toward a more life-giving mission: introducing young people to the person of Jesus and inviting them into a relationship that transforms over time. This episode offers both freedom and challenge—reminding leaders and parents alike that while we play a role, God is the one who ultimately draws hearts. CONNECT WITH US * Have questions? Email us at ydpodcast@netusa.org [ydpodcast@netusa.org] * Book your free call with a YDisciple Coach at ydisciple.com/coaching * Please take a moment to rate & review on Apple Podcasts * Visit https://theydisciplepodcast.fireside.fm/ [https://theydisciplepodcast.fireside.fm/] to learn more about the podcast REFLECTION FOR THIS WEEK Ask yourself: * Where am I trying to control someone else’s faith journey instead of trusting God with it? * Do I approach discipleship more like a formula—or a relationship? * How am I personally growing in my own relationship with Jesus? This week, shift your focus from outcomes to presence—choose one moment to intentionally witness your faith through joy, prayer, or authentic conversation.

EP25: Going Off Script with YD Coaches, Molly & H

About this Episode What if the most impactful moments in ministry aren’t the ones you plan—but the ones you’re willing to follow? In this episode of the YDisciple Podcast, Annie Grandell are joined by YDisciple coaches Molly Gallagher and H. Dorian for another “Coaches at the Roundtable” conversation. Together, they explore what it really means to “go off script” in ministry—not as a lack of preparation, but as a deeper trust in the Holy Spirit and attentiveness to the young people right in front of you. Through real stories from the field, they unpack the tension between structure and flexibility: knowing when to follow the guide and when to follow the moment. They highlight how powerful it can be to prioritize relationship over content, to pivot when something isn’t landing, and to embrace the unknown with humility and authenticity. You’ll hear why going off script often leads to deeper trust, more meaningful conversations, and real transformation—and how even moments of uncertainty (“I don’t know”) can become the foundation for stronger discipleship. Whether you’re leading a small group, planning a retreat, or navigating real-time conversations with teens, this episode will give you the confidence to trust the process, trust the Spirit, and meet young people where they truly are. CONNECT WITH US * Have questions? Email us at ydpodcast@netusa.org [ydpodcast@netusa.org] * Book your free call with a YDisciple Coach at ydisciple.com/coaching * Please take a moment to rate & review on Apple Podcasts * Visit https://theydisciplepodcast.fireside.fm/ [https://theydisciplepodcast.fireside.fm/] to learn more about the podcast REFLECTION FOR THIS WEEK Ask yourself: * Where am I relying too heavily on a “plan” instead of being present to the people in front of me? * How can I grow in trusting the Holy Spirit during conversations or ministry moments? * Am I creating space for authentic dialogue—or just trying to “get through” content? This week, practice letting go of control in one small moment—whether in prayer, conversation, or leadership—and ask the Holy Spirit to guide what happens next.

EP24: The Trinitarian Missionary Dynamic

About this Episode What if the way we approach ministry isn’t just about strategy—but about reflecting the very nature of God? In this episode of the YDisciple Podcast, Pete Burds and Annie Grandell unpack NET Ministries’ guiding philosophy: the “Trinitarian missionary dynamic.” While it might sound like a complex theological phrase, it points to something deeply practical—how our identity, relationships, and mission are all rooted in the life of the Trinity. Drawing from NET’s formation model and the document Birthed by the Holy Spirit, they explore how relating to God as Father, following Jesus as disciple, and living in the Holy Spirit as missionary shapes not only personal faith, but the way we lead others. They also highlight how communion and mission are inseparable—our relationships fuel mission, and mission deepens our relationships. Whether you’re forming a small group, leading a ministry team, or simply seeking to grow in your own faith, this episode offers a compelling vision for living and leading from a place of identity, belonging, and purpose. CONNECT WITH US * Have questions? Email us at ydpodcast@netusa.org [ydpodcast@netusa.org] * Book your free call with a YDisciple Coach at ydisciple.com/coaching * Please take a moment to rate & review on Apple Podcasts * Visit https://theydisciplepodcast.fireside.fm/ [https://theydisciplepodcast.fireside.fm/] to learn more about the podcast REFLECTION FOR THIS WEEK Ask yourself: * Am I leading from what I do—or from who I am as a son or daughter of God? * How is my relationship with the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit shaping the way I approach ministry? * Where is God inviting me to grow in communion—and how might that lead me into mission? Spend time this week in prayer with the Trinity—speaking to the Father, walking with Jesus, and inviting the Holy Spirit to lead you more deeply into both relationship and mission.

EP23: The Intersection Between Discernment and Discipleship with Fr. Chase Hilgenbrink

About this Episode What does it really mean to discover your vocation—and how do we help young people get there? In this episode of the YDisciple Podcast, Pete Burds and Annie Grandell sit down with Father Chase Hilgenbrink, a former professional soccer player turned priest and vocations director. Father Chase shares his powerful story of chasing success at the highest levels of athletics, only to find that achievement alone couldn’t satisfy the deeper longing in his heart. Through a profound encounter with Jesus, he began to see that vocation isn’t something we stumble into—it’s an invitation. Together, they explore how discipleship is the foundation for every vocation, why mentorship (especially from parents) is essential, and what youth ministry often gets wrong when it tries to entertain instead of proclaim truth. They also discuss signs of hope among young people today, including a growing hunger for authenticity, stability, and meaning. If you’re leading teens or walking with others in their faith journey, this conversation offers both clarity and encouragement for forming disciples who are ready to give their lives away. CONNECT WITH US * Have questions? Email us at ydpodcast@netusa.org [ydpodcast@netusa.org] * Book your free call with a YDisciple Coach at ydisciple.com/coaching * Please take a moment to rate & review on Apple Podcasts * Visit https://theydisciplepodcast.fireside.fm/ [https://theydisciplepodcast.fireside.fm/] to learn more about the podcast REFLECTION FOR THIS WEEK Ask yourself: * Do I see my vocation as something I control—or something God is inviting me into? * Who are the mentors in my life that are helping me grow in discipleship? * Where might I be settling for comfort or success instead of responding to God’s deeper call? Take time this week to pray honestly about your future, asking God not just what you want—but what He desires for your life.

EP22: 7 Things Everyone in Ministry Should Do This Summer

About this Episode What if summer isn’t just a break from ministry—but one of the most strategic seasons for it? In this episode of the YDisciple Podcast, Pete Burds and Annie Grandell explore seven practical and intentional ways ministry leaders can make the most of the summer months. Whether your schedule slows down or ramps up with camps, trips, and events, they highlight how this unique season creates space for deeper connection, renewal, and forward-thinking leadership. From taking a personal retreat to investing in relational ministry, Pete and Annie unpack how summer rhythms open doors for meaningful discipleship—both with young people and within your parish staff. They also explore the value of pre-evangelization, building relationships outside your usual circles, and learning from other ministry leaders. You’ll also hear why reading and personal formation matter more than ever in leadership, and how thoughtful planning during the summer can set you up for a healthier, more fruitful year ahead. If you’ve ever felt like summer slips by too quickly—or gets filled without intention—this episode will help you approach it with clarity and purpose. CONNECT WITH US * Have questions? Email us at ydpodcast@netusa.org [ydpodcast@netusa.org] * Book your free call with a YDisciple Coach at ydisciple.com/coaching * Please take a moment to rate & review on Apple Podcasts * Visit https://theydisciplepodcast.fireside.fm/ [https://theydisciplepodcast.fireside.fm/] to learn more about the podcast REFLECTION FOR THIS WEEK Ask yourself: * Where do I need renewal or intentional time with the Lord this summer? * How can I be more relational—not just program-focused—with young people in this season? * What is one step I can take now to better prepare for the upcoming ministry year? Pray for the wisdom to use this season well—not just to rest or stay busy, but to be intentional in ways that bear lasting fruit.