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Episode 15 - Why Great Ideas Stall: How to get buy-in by reaching the right people

14 min · 9. juli 2026
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Have you ever had an idea that everyone agreed was a good idea… after it was too late? You did the analysis. You gathered the data. You built the business case. Maybe you even created the world's most beautiful PowerPoint deck. And then someone said: "You really should have talked to Susan three months ago." Ouch. If you've ever watched a great improvement idea stall because it reached the wrong people—or reached the right people too late—this episode is for you. In this episode of Thoughts on Change, we're continuing the C.H.A.N.G.E. Shaper™ series with the G: Get to the Right People. Because here's one of the hardest lessons many Continuous Improvement practitioners eventually learn: Great ideas don't spread because they're great. They spread because the right people believe in them. What You'll Learn Many of us believe our job is to build the best possible solution. So we gather more data.  Create better presentations.  Answer every possible objection. But the quality of the solution is only part of the equation. In this episode, I explore: * Why talking to the wrong person first can quietly kill even your best ideas * The difference between decision makers and true influencers * How to identify the people who can accelerate—or unintentionally derail—your change effort * Why involving people early creates stronger solutions and less resistance * The role curiosity plays in building influence * A practical stakeholder mapping exercise you can use on your very next project The Right Person Changes Everything One of the stories I share comes from early in my career. I believed I'd found a simple way to eliminate a costly source of scrap that was wasting hundreds of thousands of dollars each year. My manager liked the idea—but didn't think Engineering would approve it. Engineering wasn't convinced either. The project should have ended there. Instead, I kept asking questions until I found someone else: a product test technician who understood exactly what evidence the design engineers would need before they'd support the change. That single conversation completely changed the outcome. A few months later, the engineers approved the design change, the problematic parts were eliminated, and the savings became reality. The lesson wasn't that my idea became better. The lesson was that I finally found the right person. Four Questions Every Change Leader Should Ask Rather than guessing who should be involved, I recommend asking four simple questions: 1. Who feels the problem? The people living with the frustration already understand why change matters. They bring urgency that data alone never can. 2. Who owns the resources? Who controls the budget, people, equipment, time, or attention needed to make the change happen? Excitement doesn't fund projects. Resources do. 3. Who influences the decision? The organization chart tells you who approves. The influence chart tells you who shapes the approval. Those aren't always the same people. 4. Who could accidentally stop this? This may be the most overlooked question. Who might feel surprised?  Who might lose something?  Who might unintentionally create resistance simply because they weren't involved early enough? Thinking through these questions before launching your idea dramatically increases your chances of success. A Common Mistake I See Women in CI Make Many women in Continuous Improvement wait until an idea is fully polished before sharing it. We want every answer.  Every data point.  Every possible objection addressed. Unfortunately, while we're perfecting the solution, nobody else even knows it exists. Then we unveil it… only to discover someone could have pointed out an important concern weeks earlier. I've done this more than once. What I've learned is that involving the right people earlier rarely weakens an idea. It almost always makes it stronger. People are far more likely to support something they helped shape. Reflection Questions As you think about the change effort you're currently leading, ask yourself: * Who actually feels the problem I'm trying to solve? * Who controls the resources needed to solve it? * Who truly influences the decision makers? * Who could unintentionally create resistance if I leave them out? * Which important conversation have I been avoiding? * Am I spending more time refining my idea than sharing it with the people who matter? The Big Takeaway Successful change leaders don't just build great solutions. They intentionally build relationships with the people who can help those solutions succeed. Ideas don't spread through organizations because they're logical. They spread through conversations, trust, influence, and involvement. When you consistently get your ideas in front of the right people, at the right time, in the right way, your influence grows—and so does your ability to create meaningful change. Coming Next Next up, we wrap up the C.H.A.N.G.E. Shaper™ series with the final letter: E: Energize Positive Momentum Starting change is only the beginning. The real challenge is creating the energy that keeps it moving long after the kickoff meeting is over.   Links: Video [https://youtu.be/o5GonQLYcMM] Podcast Site [https://www.kellymallery.com/thoughtsonchange] C.H.A.N.G.E. Shaper™ [https://www.kellymallery.com/changeshaper]

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Episode 15 - Why Great Ideas Stall: How to get buy-in by reaching the right people

Have you ever had an idea that everyone agreed was a good idea… after it was too late? You did the analysis. You gathered the data. You built the business case. Maybe you even created the world's most beautiful PowerPoint deck. And then someone said: "You really should have talked to Susan three months ago." Ouch. If you've ever watched a great improvement idea stall because it reached the wrong people—or reached the right people too late—this episode is for you. In this episode of Thoughts on Change, we're continuing the C.H.A.N.G.E. Shaper™ series with the G: Get to the Right People. Because here's one of the hardest lessons many Continuous Improvement practitioners eventually learn: Great ideas don't spread because they're great. They spread because the right people believe in them. What You'll Learn Many of us believe our job is to build the best possible solution. So we gather more data.  Create better presentations.  Answer every possible objection. But the quality of the solution is only part of the equation. In this episode, I explore: * Why talking to the wrong person first can quietly kill even your best ideas * The difference between decision makers and true influencers * How to identify the people who can accelerate—or unintentionally derail—your change effort * Why involving people early creates stronger solutions and less resistance * The role curiosity plays in building influence * A practical stakeholder mapping exercise you can use on your very next project The Right Person Changes Everything One of the stories I share comes from early in my career. I believed I'd found a simple way to eliminate a costly source of scrap that was wasting hundreds of thousands of dollars each year. My manager liked the idea—but didn't think Engineering would approve it. Engineering wasn't convinced either. The project should have ended there. Instead, I kept asking questions until I found someone else: a product test technician who understood exactly what evidence the design engineers would need before they'd support the change. That single conversation completely changed the outcome. A few months later, the engineers approved the design change, the problematic parts were eliminated, and the savings became reality. The lesson wasn't that my idea became better. The lesson was that I finally found the right person. Four Questions Every Change Leader Should Ask Rather than guessing who should be involved, I recommend asking four simple questions: 1. Who feels the problem? The people living with the frustration already understand why change matters. They bring urgency that data alone never can. 2. Who owns the resources? Who controls the budget, people, equipment, time, or attention needed to make the change happen? Excitement doesn't fund projects. Resources do. 3. Who influences the decision? The organization chart tells you who approves. The influence chart tells you who shapes the approval. Those aren't always the same people. 4. Who could accidentally stop this? This may be the most overlooked question. Who might feel surprised?  Who might lose something?  Who might unintentionally create resistance simply because they weren't involved early enough? Thinking through these questions before launching your idea dramatically increases your chances of success. A Common Mistake I See Women in CI Make Many women in Continuous Improvement wait until an idea is fully polished before sharing it. We want every answer.  Every data point.  Every possible objection addressed. Unfortunately, while we're perfecting the solution, nobody else even knows it exists. Then we unveil it… only to discover someone could have pointed out an important concern weeks earlier. I've done this more than once. What I've learned is that involving the right people earlier rarely weakens an idea. It almost always makes it stronger. People are far more likely to support something they helped shape. Reflection Questions As you think about the change effort you're currently leading, ask yourself: * Who actually feels the problem I'm trying to solve? * Who controls the resources needed to solve it? * Who truly influences the decision makers? * Who could unintentionally create resistance if I leave them out? * Which important conversation have I been avoiding? * Am I spending more time refining my idea than sharing it with the people who matter? The Big Takeaway Successful change leaders don't just build great solutions. They intentionally build relationships with the people who can help those solutions succeed. Ideas don't spread through organizations because they're logical. They spread through conversations, trust, influence, and involvement. When you consistently get your ideas in front of the right people, at the right time, in the right way, your influence grows—and so does your ability to create meaningful change. Coming Next Next up, we wrap up the C.H.A.N.G.E. Shaper™ series with the final letter: E: Energize Positive Momentum Starting change is only the beginning. The real challenge is creating the energy that keeps it moving long after the kickoff meeting is over.   Links: Video [https://youtu.be/o5GonQLYcMM] Podcast Site [https://www.kellymallery.com/thoughtsonchange] C.H.A.N.G.E. Shaper™ [https://www.kellymallery.com/changeshaper]

9. juli 202614 min
episode Episode 14 - The Current You're Fighting: Why Great Ideas Stall Inside Organizations artwork

Episode 14 - The Current You're Fighting: Why Great Ideas Stall Inside Organizations

Have you ever had an improvement idea that was absolutely the right thing to do… and it still went nowhere? The data was solid. The problem was real. The people closest to the work agreed it needed to happen. And yet somehow the project stalled, got deprioritized, or quietly died in a meeting. If you've ever experienced that, you're not alone. In this episode of *Thoughts on Change*, we're continuing the C.H.A.N.G.E. Shaper™ series with the **N: Navigate the Business Environment**. Because here's a hard truth many Continuous Improvement practitioners eventually learn: **The best idea rarely wins. The idea that fits the environment does.** What You'll Learn Many of us got into Continuous Improvement because we love solving problems. We want to improve processes, eliminate waste, and make work better. What we don't always realize is that organizations aren't just systems of processes. They're systems of people. And wherever people gather, politics, influence, relationships, competing priorities, and timing all play a role in how decisions get made. In this episode, I explore: * Why "office politics" aren't inherently bad * How to navigate organizational dynamics without becoming manipulative * The difference between an org chart and an influence chart * Why understanding social networks is critical for sustaining change * How timing can make or break even the best improvement ideas * The role social capital plays in gaining support for change * How advocacy and navigation work together to increase your influence The Current Is Stronger Than You Think One of my favorite metaphors from this episode is the idea of navigating a river. You can spend all day yelling at the current because you think it should flow differently. Or you can learn how the current moves and use it to help you get where you're trying to go. Organizations work the same way. The strongest change leaders aren't the ones who fight the environment. They're the ones who understand it.   Four Organizational Currents Every CI Leader Must Understand 1. Goals and Priorities One of the fastest ways to lose traction is assuming everyone cares about the same things you do. You may be focused on waste reduction and flow. Your plant manager may be focused on labor costs. Your VP may be focused on customer delivery. None of them are wrong. They're simply looking at the business through different lenses.   2. Influence (The Real Kind) Your org chart is not your influence chart. Every organization has unofficial influencers: * The veteran operator everyone trusts * The supervisor people listen to * The engineer whose opinion carries weight If you don't understand who influences whom, you're making change much harder than it needs to be.   3. Timing Sometimes your idea isn't wrong. It's just early. Many of us respond to resistance by explaining harder, building more slides, and gathering more data. But sometimes the organization simply isn't ready.   4. Relationships and Social Capital Relationships matter. A lot. Think of social capital like a bank account. Every time you help, support, listen, and contribute, you make a deposit. Every time you ask for time, attention, resources, or support, you make a withdrawal. Too many withdrawals without deposits eventually leave you overdrawn.   An Important Conversation for Women in CI I also spend some time discussing a reality many women face while building relationships across organizations. Building trust, showing genuine interest, and connecting with people are critical change leadership skills. Unfortunately, those behaviors can sometimes be misinterpreted, leading to uncomfortable or inappropriate interactions. I share a personal experience and offer practical guidance on: * Establishing clear boundaries * Finding allies and advocates within the organization * Documenting concerns when boundaries are repeatedly crossed No woman should have to navigate those situations alone. If you need help, please get in touch.   Reflection Questions As you think about your current change efforts, ask yourself: * Do I understand the priorities of the people whose support I need? * Do I know who truly influences this decision? * Is the timing helping me or hurting me? * Have I built enough social capital to support this effort? * Am I fighting the current or working with it?   The Big Takeaway The best change leaders don't just understand processes. They understand the entire environment they are operating in and trying to change. Change doesn't happen in a vacuum. It happens inside organizations full of competing priorities, limited resources, and human beings doing their best. When you learn to navigate that environment instead of fighting it, change gets a whole lot easier.   Coming Next Next up in the C.H.A.N.G.E. Shaper™ series: **Get to the Right People™** Because sometimes the difference between an idea that spreads and an idea that dies is simply who hears it first. Links: Video [https://youtu.be/drd7Gd_MyR4] Thoughts on Change webpage [https://www.kellymallery.com/thoughtsonchange] Get in Touch [https://calendly.com/kmallery/30-min-call]

25. juni 202614 min
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Episode 13 - Just Because It's a Problem Doesn't Mean You Should Solve It

Change efforts don't usually fail because they're bad ideas. They fail because they're buried under noise. As Continuous Improvement leaders, we see problems everywhere. We spot waste, inefficiencies, bottlenecks, and opportunities that others miss. But one of the hardest lessons to learn is that not every problem needs to be solved right now. In this episode, we continue the C.H.A.N.G.E. Shaper™ series by unpacking the third characteristic: Advocate for What Matters Because advocacy isn't about pushing harder, selling your ideas better, or convincing people you're right. It's about helping people see what truly matters and connecting improvement efforts to the outcomes the organization needs most. The Hidden Trap for CI Leaders Most CI professionals are naturally drawn to solving problems. The challenge is that organizations rarely suffer from a lack of problems to solve. They suffer from a lack of focus. When every opportunity becomes a priority, teams become overwhelmed, leaders become distracted, and improvement efforts lose momentum. Advocacy is the ability to cut through the noise and answer one critical question: What problem do we need to solve right now? Not what problem we can solve. Not what problem we want to solve. What problem will have the greatest impact on the goals the organization is trying to achieve? What You'll Learn In this episode, you'll learn: • why advocacy is about alignment and clarity rather than persuasion • how to connect frontline problems to strategic business goals • practical questions to uncover the barriers preventing progress • why not every improvement opportunity deserves immediate attention • how to translate CI-speak into ValueSpeak™ so leaders understand the impact • what to do when leadership still says "no" Connecting Strategy to Reality Organizations often communicate strategy through high-level objectives: "Increase EBITDA." "Improve labor productivity." "Reduce costs." But those goals rarely mean much to the people doing the work every day. This is where CI leaders create value. Your role is to connect the organization's strategic goals to the real frustrations, obstacles, and problems people experience on the front line. When leaders can see how frontline issues impact business results—and frontline teams can see how their daily challenges connect to organizational goals—clarity begins to emerge. That's advocacy. Questions That Help You Find What Matters When you're trying to connect strategy to improvement work, ask questions like: • What conditions need to exist for us to achieve this goal? • What would have to be true for this to happen? • What currently prevents us from reaching this target? That final question often reveals the real barriers standing in the way of progress. From there, your job becomes identifying which problems matter most and validating them with data. Because data has a way of cutting through assumptions and helping people focus on reality. Learning to Say "Not Right Now" One of the most difficult parts of advocacy is deciding what not to work on. Some problems are real. Some opportunities are valuable. But not all of them are the highest priority. Advocating for what matters sometimes means helping people understand that a problem will not be solved today—not because it isn't important, but because something else is more important right now. Remember: You're not saying "No." You're saying "Not right now." And that focus is often what allows organizations to make meaningful progress. Translating CI-Speak into ValueSpeak™ One of the biggest challenges CI leaders face is communicating upward. We often present problems through the language of process improvement while senior leaders are listening through the language of business outcomes. Leaders want to understand: • How much money will this save? • How will this improve productivity? • What business result will this affect? • How does this support our strategic objectives? The stronger your ability to translate problems into ValueSpeak™, the easier it becomes to build support and create alignment. Reflection Questions Think about a change effort you're leading right now and ask yourself: • What truly matters in this change effort? • Have I clearly explained why it matters—in their language? • What does the organization need us to solve right now? • What can we say "not right now" to so we can focus? • Where am I avoiding advocacy because it feels uncomfortable? The Shift Advocacy gives change structure. It helps organizations focus their attention, energy, and resources on the problems that will create the greatest impact. Without advocacy, change becomes scattered. With advocacy, change becomes purposeful. And that's where real results begin. What's Next? Next up in the C.H.A.N.G.E. Shaper™ series: Navigate the Business Environment Because even the best ideas struggle when you don't understand how decisions actually get made. Want More Support? Most of the women I work with aren't struggling because they lack knowledge, skill, or good ideas. They're struggling because they can't get those ideas heard, understood, and acted upon. They're stuck between leadership priorities and frontline realities, trying to create change without the influence they need. That's exactly what we work through inside Credible. Heard. Used. It's a 5-month development program designed specifically for Continuous Improvement leaders who want to build credibility, increase influence, and get their ideas used. You'll find more information in the link below. Video [https://youtu.be/9hZEyGf4ne4] Links ValueSpeak™ Quick Translation Guide [https://www.kellymallery.com/_files/ugd/37d85e_5f59f9a552a34d5d974882a99bd494c2.pdf] Credible. Heard. Used. [https://www.kellymallery.com/credibleheardused] Thoughts on Change Page [https://www.kellymallery.com/thoughtsonchange]

11. juni 202616 min
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Episode 12 - Kata & TWI Summit Reflections

What actually makes change stick? Is it: * the tool?  * the process?  * the storyboard?  * the training?  Or is it something much deeper? In this episode of Thoughts on Change, I sit down with Mark Rosenthal and Laurel Martin to unpack one of the biggest challenges in Continuous Improvement: Why organizations can implement Lean tools… and still struggle to create lasting behavior change. And honestly? This conversation gets to the heart of what real change leadership actually looks like.   What We Explore We dig into: * why psychological safety matters in Continuous Improvement  * how leaders unintentionally reinforce the wrong behaviors  * why curiosity is more powerful than blame  * the difference between compliance and genuine engagement  * how Kata and TWI are often misunderstood as “tools” instead of leadership development systems  * what it really means to “integrate, not implement”  * why unresolved disagreement at the leadership level quietly kills transformation efforts  * and how sustainable culture change happens through repeated responses—not presentations    One of My Favorite Moments One of the strongest themes in this conversation is this shift: Instead of asking: “How do we get people to comply?” What if we asked: “What kind of response are we reinforcing?” Because every leadership reaction teaches people something. When leaders respond with: * blame  * defensiveness  * pressure  * control  People learn to: * hide problems  * avoid risk  * stay quiet  * protect themselves  But when leaders respond with: * curiosity  * experimentation  * safety  * learning  People begin to think differently. And that’s where culture shifts.   The Power of the First Reaction We also talk about how important those first few seconds are when something goes wrong. That moment when: * a standard isn’t followed  * an experiment fails  * someone raises a concern  * resistance appears  Your first reaction matters more than you think. Because leaders are constantly teaching people: ·       what is safe ·       what gets punished ·       what gets rewarded ·       and what kinds of thinking are welcome   Compliance vs Commitment One of the biggest takeaways from this episode: Compliance is not the same thing as commitment. If your change effort depends entirely on: * convincing harder  * presenting more data  * pushing people toward agreement  You may get short-term compliance… …but not real ownership. Real teamwork requires: * trust  * safety  * involvement  * and genuine alignment    A Powerful Reframe One line from the conversation that really stuck with me: “Integrate, don’t implement.” Because sustainable change doesn’t happen when we drop a Lean tool into an organization and hope people use it. It happens when: * people understand it  * it fits their context  * it solves a meaningful problem  * and leaders reinforce the behaviors needed to sustain it    What This Means for CI Leaders If you work in: * Continuous Improvement  * Operational Excellence  * Lean leadership  * manufacturing leadership  * culture transformation  * organizational change  This episode is a reminder that your real job isn’t installing tools. It’s shaping: * systems  * responses  * behaviors  * and learning environments    Reflection Questions As you listen, think about: * What behaviors are being reinforced in my organization right now?  * How do leaders respond when problems surface?  * Are we building compliance… or capability?  * What reactions are unintentionally creating fear or defensiveness?  * Are we integrating improvement into culture—or just implementing tools?    The Big Takeaway Sustainable change is not about: ·       installing a storyboard ·       running a workshop ·       forcing agreement It’s about intentionally shaping how people think, respond, learn, and engage over time. That’s the real work.   Connect with the Guests This episode features insights from: * Mark Rosenthal  [https://www.linkedin.com/in/markrosenthal/?skipRedirect=true] * Laurel Martin  [https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurelhmartin/] Both bring deep experience in Lean thinking, leadership development, Kata, and organizational learning.   Enjoying the Podcast? If you’re trying to move culture instead of just install tools, hit subscribe and share this with another CI warrior who’s navigating the messy human side of change. Video [https://youtu.be/55mdKA4vg7Q]

28. maj 202651 min
episode Episode 11 - Are you overhelping your team? Helping with intention in CI. artwork

Episode 11 - Are you overhelping your team? Helping with intention in CI.

If you work in CI, helping probably feels like second nature. In fact, it’s probably one of the reasons you got into this work in the first place. But here’s the uncomfortable question we’re digging into today: Is your helping actually helping? There’s a fine line between helping people grow and accidentally creating dependence. And if you cross that line, your help can quietly become harmful—for them and for you. The Hidden Trap for CI Leaders Many of us in CI become the scheduler, organizer, reminder system, problem solver, answer machine. At first, that support may be necessary. But over time? You can unintentionally train teams to rely on you instead of building their own capability. That’s when frustration grows, burnout starts creeping in, resistance increases, and you become the bottleneck in the very change you’re trying to create. What You’ll Learn In this episode, we continue the C.H.A.N.G.E. Shaper™ series by unpacking the second characteristic: Help with Intention You’ll learn: * the difference between helpful help and hurtful help * how overhelping creates dependency in teams * how to recognize when you’ve crossed the “helpful line” * practical ways to step back without abandoning people * how boundaries can actually increase your credibility and respect The Vicious Cycle of Overhelping Overhelping creates a pattern that looks like this: You step in to help: → people depend on you → you become overwhelmed → frustration builds → resistance increases → burnout follows. Helping with Intention Looks Different Helping with intention does not mean abandoning people, withholding support, or saying “figure it out yourself”. It means being intentional about what support they actually need, what capability they need to build next, and how you can help them grow without becoming dependent on you. Powerful Questions to Ask Instead of Giving Answers One of the biggest shifts? Moving from answering to asking. Some favorite coaching questions from the episode: * “What problem are you trying to solve?” * “What do you already know about that?” * “How could you find that out?” * “Who else might know more about this?” * “How could you test your understanding?” Sometimes giving the answer quickly is just another form of doing the work for them. And as uncomfortable as it can feel, stepping back may actually be the most supportive thing you can do. Reflection Questions Think about a current project or team you’re supporting. Ask yourself: * Where am I stepping in too quickly? * Who am I unintentionally training to depend on me? * Am I helping because it’s best for them… or because it feels safer for me? * What question could I ask instead of giving the answer? The Shift Helping with intention shifts you: from hero to leader. That’s where sustainable change starts to happen. What’s Next Next up in the C.H.A.N.G.E. Shaper™ series: Advocating for What Is Really Important In noisy organizations, helping people improve isn’t enough—you also need to know how to connect change to what truly matters. Want More Support? Most of the women I work with aren’t struggling because they lack knowledge or skill. They’re struggling because their approach isn’t landing the way they think it is. They’re overhelping and overexplaining. And exhausting themselves trying to create change. That’s exactly what we work through inside Credible. Heard. Used. You’ll find more information here [https://www.kellymallery.com/credibleheardused] Video [https://youtu.be/LNG3rv53kbU]

14. maj 202612 min