Green Flags, Red Agendas

The Tea, The Truth and what’s next!

Season One Finale: The Tea, The Truth & What’s Next 🍵✨ It’s been 15 incredible episodes of laughter, tension, truths, and unfiltered vibes! As we wrap up Season One of Truth and Tensions, we’re pausing to regroup, promote, and come back bigger and better. In this short bonus episode, we reflect on the journey so far, spill behind-the-scenes gist, and share what’s next for the gang. If you’ve laughed, cried, or shouted “PERIOD!” at any point—this one’s for you. Thank you for riding with us. See y’all soon. 💜

Does the patient Dog really eat the fattest bone?

In this fiery and reflective episode of Truth and Tensions, we unpack the popular Nigerian proverb, “The patient dog eats the fattest bone,” and ask—does it really? Or is the patient dog just being starved while everyone else feasts? We dive deep into how this ideology has shaped the lives of women, especially under the weight of patriarchy. From being told to “wait your turn” to watching others thrive while playing by different rules, we explore how patience, silence, and endurance have been weaponized against women in relationships, careers, and societal expectations. Expect hot takes, laughter, truth bombs, and as always—some tensions. Tune in for a ride!

Crazy things are happening!!!

In this spicy episode of Truth and Tensions, we dive headfirst into some of the wildest, jaw-dropping relationship stories we came across during the week! From shocking betrayals to ridiculous red flags, we’re giving blind reactions, asking the hard questions, and laughing through the madness. No story is off limits, and no reaction is too dramatic. Tune in as we navigate the chaos of love, lust, and lessons — Nigerian style. Because truly… crazy things are happening!

Green Flags, Red Agendas

At first glance, some behaviors look wholesome, kind, even perfect — but dig a little deeper, and the truth starts to stink. In Nigerian society, where charisma can mask control and “doing the most” is praised, it’s easy to confuse toxic manipulation with genuine care. This episode unpacks those so-called “green flags” that low-key scream emotional manipulation, control, or deep insecurity when you really sit with them. Join the conversation, You will love it!

Fine face, zero feelings?

In this episode, we are asking the REAL questions: Why are people dating who they are not even attracted to? Is it loneliness, desperation… or just cruise? This week on Truth and Tensions, we’re dragging (and laughing) through the trenches of fake vibes, confused hearts, and attraction gone wrong! Get ready for gbas gbos!