UNRULY BY NATURE: Exploring the Wisdom of Animals, Plants, and Our Connection to Nature

Episode 016: Letting Go, Self-Blame & The Truth About Life With Sensitive Dogs

1 h 15 min · 15. apr. 2026
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We'd LOVE to hear from you! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2545250/fan_mail/new] What if nothing has gone “wrong” with your dog… or you? In this episode of Unruly By Nature, we explore the deeper truth behind living with sensitive and reactive dogs, and how the pain points become powerful catalysts for our own growth.  This conversation dives into what it really means to let go of control, release guilt, and step out of the exhausting cycle of self-blame that so many dog owners experience.  From emotional real-life moments to shifting long-held beliefs about behavior, training, and responsibility, this episode is raw, honest, and deeply relatable. Inside this episode: *  Why sensitive dogs aren’t a problem and a powerful catalyst for change *  The hidden weight of guilt, blame, and needing to “get it right”  *  Replacing illusions of control with animal-led perspectives *  How our dog reflects our emotional world  *  Navigating reactive moments without spiraling into shame  *  The truth about conflict (and how it’s actually a gift)  *  Expanding beyond judgment into curiosity and awareness  *  Living authentically (even when it looks unconventional) This episode isn’t about fixing your dog.  It is about transforming yourself, trusting your intuition, and building a relationship rooted in honesty and connection. Life isn’t perfect… It’s messy and real. Thanks for wandering the wild edges with us on Unruly By Nature.  If you loved this conversation, share it with someone who’s ready to explore the deeper side of life with dogs. Rachel Knott - Animal Communicator Website: rachelknott.com [https://rachelknott.com] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/myanimalmatters [https://www.facebook.com/myanimalmatters] Kim Howatt - Author and Imaginal Adventurer Website: kimberlyhowatt.com [https://kimberlyhowatt.com] Substack: https://kimberlyhowatt.substack.com/ [https://kimberlyhowatt.substack.com/] Sue Mimm - Life Explorer Substack: https://suemimm.substack.com/ [https://suemimm.substack.com/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/pawsreflectconnect [https://www.facebook.com/groups/pawsreflectconnect] Until next time — stay curious, stay connected, stay unruly. xoxo  Kim, Sue, and Rachel

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episode Episode 021: Why We Love Our Dogs So Deeply artwork

Episode 021: Why We Love Our Dogs So Deeply

We'd LOVE to hear from you! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2545250/fan_mail/new] Welcome to season 2 of unruly By Nature! In this first episode of our new season, we explore the connection that bonds us so deeply with our dogs. Some relationships change the course of our lives. Few are as profound as the bond we share with our dogs. In this episode, we welcome our very first guests to the show! Actor, writer, podcast host, and devoted dog mum Jennifer Apple joins us with her handsome and unforgettable companion, Walter.  What begins as a conversation about one remarkable little dog soon becomes an exploration of presence, intuition, adventure, grief, unconditional love, and the extraordinary ways animals help us discover who we truly are. Together, we explore why the human-dog bond feels so different from every other relationship, how our animals become mirrors for our own lives, and why curiosity, not certainty, opens the door to deeper, heart-centered connection. Whether you've loved a dog, lost a dog, or simply wondered why animals touch our hearts so profoundly, this conversation is an invitation to slow down, listen more deeply, and rediscover yourself through the relationships that matter most. Join Rachel, Sue, Kim, Jennifer, and Walter for an honest, humorous, and heartfelt conversation about the life-changing wisdom our dogs quietly share every day. Thanks for wandering the wild edges with us on Unruly By Nature.  If you loved this conversation, share it with someone who’s ready to explore the deeper side of life with dogs. Rachel Knott - Animal Communicator Website: rachelknott.com [https://rachelknott.com] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/myanimalmatters [https://www.facebook.com/myanimalmatters] Kim Howatt - Author and Imaginal Adventurer Website: kimberlyhowatt.com [https://kimberlyhowatt.com] Substack: https://kimberlyhowatt.substack.com/ [https://kimberlyhowatt.substack.com/] Sue Mimm - Life Explorer Substack: https://suemimm.substack.com/ [https://suemimm.substack.com/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/pawsreflectconnect [https://www.facebook.com/groups/pawsreflectconnect] Until next time — stay curious, stay connected, stay unruly. xoxo  Kim, Sue, and Rachel

8. juli 20261 h 23 min
episode Episode 020: The Miracle of Sharing Life With Dogs: Letting Go of Pressure & Trusting Connection artwork

Episode 020: The Miracle of Sharing Life With Dogs: Letting Go of Pressure & Trusting Connection

We'd LOVE to hear from you! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2545250/fan_mail/new] What if the greatest miracles aren't the dramatic ones? What if they're happening around us every single day? In the small nuance of everyday routine? The first flight of a bird, the first opening of a flower, or the quiet connection we share with our dogs? In this season one finale of Unruly By Nature, Kim, Sue, and Rachel explore the everyday miracles hiding in plain sight. From peonies and ants to birds raising their young, from full moon reflections to unforgettable stories of beloved dogs, this conversation weaves together nature, intuition, animal wisdom, and the beauty of letting life unfold. The trio explores how much pressure humans place on themselves, and unconsciously, on their relationships with their animals. The miracle of how dogs continually invite us back to something simpler: presence, partnership, curiosity, and trust. Rather than striving for perfection, control, or performance, what if we allowed ourselves to experience the miracle of being alive alongside another species? In This Episode • Why everyday moments may be the most miraculous of all • What nature teaches us about flow, trust, and timing • The surprising connection between full moons, emotions, and life cycles • Why many dog guardians carry unnecessary pressure and responsibility • Moving from control and performance into partnership and connection • The intelligence and wisdom animals bring to our lives • A touching story about listening to a dog at the end of life • How curiosity, play, and simplicity can deepen relationships with dogs The miracle isn't somewhere else. It's already here, every single day, in the birds outside the window, the dog beside your feet, the emotions moving through your heart, and the connection waiting to be noticed. The richness of life and the experience of miracles arrive when we fully participate every single day instead of standing on the sidelines waiting for the time to be right. Thanks for wandering the wild edges with us on Unruly By Nature.  If you loved this conversation, share it with someone who’s ready to explore the deeper side of life with dogs. Rachel Knott - Animal Communicator Website: rachelknott.com [https://rachelknott.com] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/myanimalmatters [https://www.facebook.com/myanimalmatters] Kim Howatt - Author and Imaginal Adventurer Website: kimberlyhowatt.com [https://kimberlyhowatt.com] Substack: https://kimberlyhowatt.substack.com/ [https://kimberlyhowatt.substack.com/] Sue Mimm - Life Explorer Substack: https://suemimm.substack.com/ [https://suemimm.substack.com/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/pawsreflectconnect [https://www.facebook.com/groups/pawsreflectconnect] Until next time — stay curious, stay connected, stay unruly. xoxo  Kim, Sue, and Rachel

10. juni 20261 h 6 min
episode Episode 019: What Superpowers Do Dogs Have? Exploring Animal Wisdom, Imagination & Human Growth artwork

Episode 019: What Superpowers Do Dogs Have? Exploring Animal Wisdom, Imagination & Human Growth

We'd LOVE to hear from you! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2545250/fan_mail/new] What if your dog’s greatest superpower is something humans have forgotten how to use? In this episode of Unruly By Nature, we dive into imagination, intuition, emotional resilience, and the powerful ways dogs help us reconnect with ourselves.  From living fully in the present moment to embracing curiosity, symbolism, and emotional honesty, this conversation explores how our dogs continuously mirror the parts of ourselves we’re still learning to understand. Inside this episode: *  The superpowers dogs naturally embody  *  Why dogs move through conflict so much faster than humans  *  The hidden intelligence behind imagination and symbolism  *  Animal communication and energetic connection with dogs  *  How humans suppress curiosity, play, and intuition  *  Why dogs help us reconnect with joy and emotional freedom  *  The difference between imagination and visualization  *  How hindsight, memories, and storytelling shape healing and growth  *  Why weirdness, curiosity, and authenticity matter  This episode is playful, deep, emotional, imaginative, and wonderfully unruly. And asks the question: What do our animals see as their humans' superpower? Because the more we open ourselves to curiosity and connection…  the richer life becomes. Thanks for wandering the wild edges with us on Unruly By Nature.  If you loved this conversation, share it with someone who’s ready to explore the deeper side of life with dogs. Rachel Knott - Animal Communicator Website: rachelknott.com [https://rachelknott.com] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/myanimalmatters [https://www.facebook.com/myanimalmatters] Kim Howatt - Author and Imaginal Adventurer Website: kimberlyhowatt.com [https://kimberlyhowatt.com] Substack: https://kimberlyhowatt.substack.com/ [https://kimberlyhowatt.substack.com/] Sue Mimm - Life Explorer Substack: https://suemimm.substack.com/ [https://suemimm.substack.com/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/pawsreflectconnect [https://www.facebook.com/groups/pawsreflectconnect] Until next time — stay curious, stay connected, stay unruly. xoxo  Kim, Sue, and Rachel

27. maj 20261 h 5 min
episode Episode 018: Are We Over-Controlling Our Dogs? Tuning In To Nature, Freedom & Connection artwork

Episode 018: Are We Over-Controlling Our Dogs? Tuning In To Nature, Freedom & Connection

We'd LOVE to hear from you! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2545250/fan_mail/new] What if dogs were never meant to fit perfectly into our human playbook? In this episode of Unruly By Nature, we explore what happens when we stop trying to control every outcome and start allowing life, nature, and our dogs to unfold more organically.  Inspired by the energy of Beltane and the wild expansion of spring, this conversation dives into the tension between structure and freedom, instinct and expectation, and why so many humans feel exhausted trying to “raise the perfect dog.” Inside this episode: *  Why nature doesn’t need a playbook to thrive  *  The pressure humans place on themselves to “get dogs right”  *  How control creates stress in human-dog relationships  *  The difference between guidance and over-management  *  Why dogs love experimentation, chaos, and feedback  *  How sensitive dogs push us toward deeper self-awareness  *  The beauty of fun, curiosity, and being truly present with your dog  *  Letting dogs express their instincts safely instead of suppressing them  This episode is a reminder that life isn’t meant to be perfectly managed.  It’s meant to be experienced. Connection grows when we stop trying to strangle it with control and allow it to find it's own unique and thriving path. Thanks for wandering the wild edges with us on Unruly By Nature.  If you loved this conversation, share it with someone who’s ready to explore the deeper side of life with dogs. Rachel Knott - Animal Communicator Website: rachelknott.com [https://rachelknott.com] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/myanimalmatters [https://www.facebook.com/myanimalmatters] Kim Howatt - Author and Imaginal Adventurer Website: kimberlyhowatt.com [https://kimberlyhowatt.com] Substack: https://kimberlyhowatt.substack.com/ [https://kimberlyhowatt.substack.com/] Sue Mimm - Life Explorer Substack: https://suemimm.substack.com/ [https://suemimm.substack.com/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/pawsreflectconnect [https://www.facebook.com/groups/pawsreflectconnect] Until next time — stay curious, stay connected, stay unruly. xoxo  Kim, Sue, and Rachel

13. maj 20261 h 6 min
episode Episode 017: What Do You Feed Your Dog? The Truth About Overthinking Dog Nutrition artwork

Episode 017: What Do You Feed Your Dog? The Truth About Overthinking Dog Nutrition

We'd LOVE to hear from you! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2545250/fan_mail/new] What should you really be feeding your dog?  That depends... In this episode of Unruly By Nature, we answer a powerful listener question that opens the door to a much bigger conversation about dog nutrition, health, and the pressure to “get it right.”  From raw feeding to home-cooked meals, picky eaters to “perfect diets,” we explore how feeding your dog often becomes less about food and more about fear, control, and hyper-responsibility. Inside this episode: *  Discussion into raw, cooked, and commercial dog food  *  Why your dog might not be “picky”, just unheard  *  How your own relationship with food might mirro your dog’s  *  The pressure, guilt, and fear around feeding dogs “correctly”  *  Why rigid feeding rules potentially create more stress  *  How to trust your dog’s body and instincts  *  The deeper connection between diet, health, and emotional wellbeing  *  Why love and presence matter more than perfection  This conversation goes beyond nutrition…  It’s about learning to listen, letting go of control, and allowing the feedback your dog is already giving you to guide your decisions. Because there is no perfect diet. There’s only what works. For you and your dog. Thanks for wandering the wild edges with us on Unruly By Nature.  If you loved this conversation, share it with someone who’s ready to explore the deeper side of life with dogs. Rachel Knott - Animal Communicator Website: rachelknott.com [https://rachelknott.com] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/myanimalmatters [https://www.facebook.com/myanimalmatters] Kim Howatt - Author and Imaginal Adventurer Website: kimberlyhowatt.com [https://kimberlyhowatt.com] Substack: https://kimberlyhowatt.substack.com/ [https://kimberlyhowatt.substack.com/] Sue Mimm - Life Explorer Substack: https://suemimm.substack.com/ [https://suemimm.substack.com/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/pawsreflectconnect [https://www.facebook.com/groups/pawsreflectconnect] Until next time — stay curious, stay connected, stay unruly. xoxo  Kim, Sue, and Rachel

29. apr. 20261 h 2 min