137: Everything I Believed About Feminine Energy Was Wrong

137: Everything I Believed About Feminine Energy Was Wrong

For years, I thought feminine energy meant becoming softer. Speaking slower. Moving more gracefully. Being sensual. Wearing flowing dresses. Living in my "divine feminine." But beneath all of that... ...my heart was still armoured. In this episode, I'm sharing the hardest lesson I've learned on my own healing journey: that true feminine softness has nothing to do with how you look or how you move. It's about whether your body actually feels safe enough to receive. ✨ Inside this episode we'll explore: * The hidden armour that keeps women disconnected from love, pleasure and intimacy * Why your nervous system—not your mindset—decides what you're available to receive * How emotional protection becomes stored physically within the body * Why softening isn't something you perform... it's something you experience somatically * The connection between your heart, your pelvic bowl and your capacity to receive love If you've ever wondered why you've done all the inner work but still struggle to fully receive love, intimacy or pleasure... This episode might completely change the way you understand feminine energy. 🌹 Ready to experience this work for yourself? If this episode speaks to something deep within you, WISE NECTAR is my guided at-home yoni de-armouring journey, designed to help you gently soften, release stored armour and begin reconnecting with your body in the safety of your own home. Explore WISE NECTAR here: https://thewildfem.com/wise-nectar [https://thewildfem.com/wise-nectar] ✨ Feeling called to facilitate this work for other women? PRIESTESS is my 3-month trauma-informed Yoni Massage Practitioner Training, where you'll learn to safely guide women through profound somatic healing, nervous system regulation and sacred yoni massage. Our next training begins 11th October 2026, and at the time of this episode, only 2 places remain. If your soul is whispering, "This is the work I'm here to do," I'd love to welcome you. Learn more or apply here: https://thewildfem.com/priestess [https://thewildfem.com/priestess] - Join me on Instagram for a daily dose @thewildfem - here [https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/] - Join my FREE membership (The Naughty Corner) for women on Telegram - here [https://t.me/+JyWu37s4WgxjMjU0] With volcanic love, Charlotte xx

136: What I Wish EVERY Woman Knew Before Letting Someone Inside Her Body

We've been taught to disconnect from our bodies, override our truth, and believe sex is something we owe. Not anymore. In this episode, I'm sharing what I genuinely wish every woman knew before ever letting someone inside her body... ✨ We dive into: * Your body deserves consent — every single time. * How to feel if your yoni is actually open... or if you're abandoning yourself. * Why penetration gets to be slow, present, safe, and deeply connected. * The power of breath, sound, movement & staying in your body instead of leaving it. * The most liberating truth of all: you never have to do it. This episode isn't about becoming better at sex. It's about remembering that your body is sacred, your pleasure is sovereign, and you are never here to betray yourself for someone else's comfort. Press play. Your body has been waiting to hear this. 🔥 READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K? ..  ⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠ [https://thewildfem.com/wise-nectar]⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension  (get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom)  💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠ [https://tantrictools.co.uk/?ref=345]- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.   ⁠🎁⁠ FREE GOODIES⁠⁠ [https://thewildfem.com/freebies] You know I love spoiling you. Come play with me on Instagram :⁠ ⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/] ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/] BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE : Apply for PRIESTESS training HERE [https://thewildfem.com/training] Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

135: Reclaiming Feminine Rage As Sacred With Lara Claringbould

For generations, women have been taught to fear their anger. To swallow it. To soften it. To spiritualise it away. But what if your rage is sacred? This week I'm joined by sacred rage facilitator & founder of Red Rites Mystery School, Lara Claringbould, for one of the most liberating conversations I've had on the podcast. In this episode, we dive into: * 🔥 Why patriarchy disconnects women from both their rage and their erotic power. * 🔥 The difference between sacred rage, authentic anger & ego-driven projection. * 🔥 Why expressing your anger isn't the same as attacking your partner or blaming men. * 🔥 How "everything is a mirror" can become another way women abandon themselves. * 🔥 What feminine rage actually looks like when it's embodied, conscious & devotional. * 🔥 Practical ways to safely meet, honour & move your rage through the body. * This conversation is permission to stop fearing your fire... and start remembering it as one of your greatest allies. Connect with Lara: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/redritesmysteryschool/]: @redritesmysteryschool redritesmysteryschool.co.uk READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K? ..  ⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠ [https://thewildfem.com/wise-nectar]⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension  (get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom)  💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠ [https://tantrictools.co.uk/?ref=345]- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.   ⁠🎁⁠ FREE GOODIES⁠⁠ [https://thewildfem.com/freebies] You know I love spoiling you. Come play with me on Instagram :⁠ ⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/] ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/] BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE : Apply for PRIESTESS training by sending me a message ⁠HERE ⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/]or email hello@thewildfem.com  Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

134: The Healing It Takes To Have An Epic Sex Life With Jayde Alexandra

The truth? The sex you're aching for is built on the healing you're willing to do. In this episode, Jayde Alexandra and I dive into: * 🔥 What it actually takes to experience soul-shaking, cosmic intimacy. * 🌹 The feminine archetypes that completely transform your relationships and sex life. * 💔 Why resentment towards the masculine quietly kills intimacy (and how to begin softening it). * ⚡ The biggest way women unknowingly sabotage the deep, conscious, God-level lovemaking they crave. * ❤️ What has created more devotion, polarity and profound love between Jayde and her man. If you're done settling for disconnected sex and you're ready to become the woman who feels safe receiving the love, pleasure and depth she longs for... Press play. Connect with Jayde on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayde.alexandra/ [https://www.instagram.com/jayde.alexandra/] Come play with me on Instagram:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/] EXPERIENCE MY TRAUMA-INFORMED YONI MASSAGE CEREMONIES AT HOME ... ⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠ [https://thewildfem.com/wise-nectar]⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE : Apply for PRIESTESS training by sending me a message ⁠HERE ⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/]or email hello@thewildfem.com  Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

133: 5 Things Women Ache For In The Bedroom (Ask For This To 10x Your Sex Life))

Things Women Whisper To Me During Yoni Massage Sessions These are the words women whisper when they finally feel safe enough to stop performing. Not because there's something wrong with them. But because so many of us have spent our lives disconnecting from our bodies, swallowing our truth, and settling for touch that moves too fast. In this episode, I'm sharing some of the things women say during yoni massage sessions that stop me in my tracks: But this episode isn't really about yoni massage. It's about the deeper ache so many women carry: ❤️ To feel safe in their body. ❤️ To slow down enough to actually feel. ❤️ To be touched with presence instead of pressure. ❤️ To stop performing and start receiving. ❤️ To discover what's possible when safety—not urgency—leads the way. If you've ever found yourself craving more depth, more tenderness, more connection, or more of you in the bedroom... This conversation is for you. WISE NECTAR - AT HOME YONI MASSAGE❤️ Experience this love, safety & softness at home with 4x guided yoni massage rituals from me: WISE NECTAR: AT HOME YONI MASSAGE INITIATION [https://thewildfem.com/wise-nectar] TRAIN WITH ME IN TRAUMA-INFORMED BODYWORK FOR WOMEN❤️ Want the details for my yoni massage practicioner training? Message me PRIESTESS on Instagram here [https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/].Or apply NOW for the final 2 spots in November 2026 HERE [https://thewildfem.com/priestess] With love, Charlotte xx