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EP. 4 Under The Influence-When Politeness overrides Intuition

10 min · 5. feb. 2026
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Summary In this episode of the Under the Influence podcast, Rachael Mohr explores the themes of politeness, intuition, and the societal pressures surrounding relationships and marriage. She discusses how politeness can often override our intuition, leading to feelings of obligation and discomfort in relationships. Rachael emphasizes the importance of self-trust and listening to one's inner voice, especially when navigating the complexities of marriage and personal expectations. The conversation encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and to prioritize their emotional well-being over societal norms. Takeaways- Politeness can often override our intuition. Marriage is often seen as the end goal, but it should be a choice. Societal expectations can create pressure to stay in relationships. Intuition is a calm feeling that should be listened to. Self-trust is crucial for emotional health. You can feel obligated to stay in a relationship due to time invested. It's important to communicate your needs in relationships. Being polite can sometimes lead to emotional neglect. You are not weak for wanting to prioritize your own needs. Practicing self-awareness can lead to personal growth. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Theme of Marriage 02:35 The Pressure of Societal Expectations in Marriage 05:18 Intuition vs. Conditioning: Understanding Self-Trust 08:14 Learning from Past Experiences and Embracing Change Keywords politeness, intuition, relationships, self-trust, societal expectations, marriage, emotional health, personal growth, communication, self-awareness

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