You Must Be Some Kind of Therapist

You Must Be Some Kind of Therapist

Podcast by Stephanie Winn

You Must Be Some Kind of Therapist intimately explores the human experience while critiquing the state of the counseling profession as it yields to cultural madness. Your host, Stephanie Winn, distills years of wisdom gained from her practice as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist as she pivots away from treating patients, and toward the question of how to apply psychology to the novel dilemmas of the 21st century. What does ethical mental health care look like in a normless age, as our moral compasses spin in search of true north? How can therapists treat patients under pressure to affirm everything from the notion of gender identity to assisted suicide? Stephanie invites heretical, free-thinking guests from many walks of life, including current and former therapists, medical professionals, writers, researchers, and people with unique lived experience, such as detransitioners. Curious about many things, Stephanie’s interdisciplinary psychological lens investigates challenging social issues and inspires transformation in the self, relationships, and society. Pick up a torch to illuminate the dark night and join us on this journey through the inner wilderness.

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episode 160. A Family Court Nightmare: Jeff Younger’s Harrowing Crusade to Save His Son artwork
160. A Family Court Nightmare: Jeff Younger’s Harrowing Crusade to Save His Son

Texas father Jeff Younger joins us to share the gut-wrenching story of his battle to prevent the gender transition of his young son without his consent. Jeff recounts how his ex-wife, a pediatrician, began telling one of their twin boys he was a girl when he was just three years old, eventually socially transitioning him and giving him the name Luna. Jeff takes us through his journey of trying to father his sons in what he describes as a "male-friendly" way through activities like boxing and wrestling, while navigating a divorce and custody battle that ultimately resulted in him losing access to his children. He describes a judicial system that he believes was systematically biased against him as a father, including being placed under a gag order preventing him from speaking about his son's gender identity and eventually being restricted to supervised visitation. Most disturbingly, Jeff reveals how his ex-wife was able to move their sons to California where she obtained court approval to pursue medical interventions including puberty blockers. Jeff hasn't seen his sons in over two years at the time of our interview, and he shares his moral stance against paying child support that he believes would fund medical interventions he opposes for his son. This conversation offers a sobering window into the intersection of parental rights, gender ideology, and the family court system. Jeff closes with a warning to parents about the importance of vigilance regarding outside influences on their children and the need to reform laws to better protect the parent-child relationship. Jeff's story contrasts with that of Harrison Tinsley in episode 143 [https://sometherapist.transistor.fm/143]. Harrison was victorious in a similar dispute, but only because of abundant evidence of his son's mother's mental instability unrelated to "gender." Jeff Younger lives in Dallas, Texas. He works as a family rights activist for justice and as an applied mathematician for a living. Donate to his GiveSendGo campaign here. [https://www.givesendgo.com/GSK8] Request to follow Jeff on X @JeffYoungerShow [https://x.com/JeffYoungerShow]. ROGD REPAIR [http://rogdrepair.com/] Course + Community gives concerned parents instant access to over 120 lessons providing the psychological insights and communication tools you need to get through to your kid. Use code SOMETHERAPIST2025 to take 50% off your first month. TALK TO ME: book a meeting [https://calendly.com/sometherapist/]. PRODUCTION: Looking for your own podcast producer? Visit PodsByNick.com [http://PodsByNick.com] and mention my podcast for 20% off your initial services. SUPPORT THE SHOW: subscribe, like, comment, & share or donate [https://www.sometherapist.com/donate]. ORGANIFI: Take 20% off Organifi [http://organifi.com/sometherapist] with code SOMETHERAPIST. Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care [https://nowaybackfilm.com/]. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. SHOW NOTES & transcript with help from SwellAI [https://www.swellai.com/?via=sometherapist]. MUSIC: Thanks to Joey Pecoraro [https://www.joeypecoraro.com/] for our song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude & permission.  ALL OTHER LINKS HERE. [https://bio.site/sometherapist] To support this show, please leave a rating & review on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-must-be-some-kind-of-therapist/id1612777134], Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3g73xg37dTN3OqnnQBZYiV], or wherever you get your podcasts [https://www.sometherapist.com/listen]. Subscribe, like, comment & share via my YouTube channel [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgj5mELe7dL_v-QbyoN6lwg]. Or recommend this to a friend! Learn more about Do No Harm. [https://donoharmmedicine.org/sometherapist/] Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST at EightSleep.com [https://www.eightsleep.com/]. Take 20% off all superfood beverages with code SOMETHERAPIST at Organifi [http://organifi.com/sometherapist]. Check out my shop for book recommendations [https://www.sometherapist.com/bookshop] + wellness products [https://www.sometherapist.com/shop-wellness-products]. Show notes & transcript provided with the help of SwellAI [https://swellai.com/?via=sometherapist]. Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro [https://www.joeypecoraro.com/] for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission. Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care [https://nowaybackfilm.com/] (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. https://nowaybackfilm.com/Follow us on X @2022affirmation [https://twitter.com/2022affirmation] or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration [https://www.instagram.com/affirmationgeneration/]. Have a question for me? Looking to go deeper and discuss these ideas with other listeners? Join my Locals community [http://somekindoftherapist.locals.com/]! Members get to ask questions I will respond to in exclusive, members-only livestreams, post questions for upcoming guests to answer, plus other perks TBD. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★ [https://www.patreon.com/sometherapist]

05. maj 2025 - 1 h 25 min
episode 159. Detrans Grandma: Identity Crisis and Self Discovery After Postmenopausal Testosterone Use artwork
159. Detrans Grandma: Identity Crisis and Self Discovery After Postmenopausal Testosterone Use

In this episode, I sit down with Gina, an older detransitioner with a compelling story that spans decades. We delve into her journey, beginning with her childhood experiences of gender dysphoria in the 1970s, her eventual transition in her 50s, and her decision to detransition in 2023. Gina shares her early crush on a girl and how that shaped her understanding of her identity, leading her to believe she needed to become a boy to express her feelings. We explore the complexities of her transition, including the overwhelming effects of testosterone on her sex drive and how it altered her sexual orientation, making her attracted to men for the first time. Gina reflects on the societal pressures surrounding gender and beauty, and how her past experiences of trauma influenced her decisions.  We also discuss the impact of her identity on her relationship with her daughter, highlighting the importance of communication and understanding in parenting. Throughout our conversation, we aim to unpack the nuances of identity, the role of societal expectations, and the emotional turmoil that can accompany such profound life changes. In 1970, at the age of ten, Gina traversed a hill to the neighboring ranch to confess to her friend that she was supposed to be a boy. Forty years later, she “transitioned.” After thirteen years of living as a “trans-man,” she had an awakening that inspired her to begin detransitioning. Now in radical acceptance of her womanhood, she is recovering. Gina's goal is to create a healing space in the country for female detransitioners, crossing a different kind of hill this time, to a new ranch.   Gina’s art: @aluminum_couture on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/aluminum_couture/] Gina’s Substack: @thisbodyofmine [https://substack.com/@thisbodyofmine]  00:00 Start [00:02:17] Childhood crush and gender identity. [00:05:13] Childhood crush and identity. [00:10:08] Secret crushes and shame. [00:16:50] Coming out as a lesbian. [00:19:11] Attraction and identity transformation. [00:23:46] Masculinity as a protective shield. [00:26:05] Grandiosity in young women's identities. [00:30:50] Identity and rejection in relationships. [00:34:50] Gender identity and self-perception. [00:39:34] Hormonal changes and sexual attraction. [00:44:03] The impact of testosterone on behavior. [00:49:19] Dreams and identity exploration. [00:54:56] Fragility of ego in identity. [00:58:21] Identity crisis and personal anchors. [01:01:05] Suicide prevention and parental responsibility. [01:05:07] Nurturing motherhood and identity. [01:10:06] Grandparenthood and identity transformation. [01:14:36] Identity and self-acceptance journey. [01:18:48] Effects of testosterone on motivation. [01:22:50] Identity and motherhood loss. [01:28:17] Identity acceptance and transformation. [01:30:13] Rediscovering identity through transition. [01:34:54] Emotional stability and external connections. ROGD REPAIR [http://rogdrepair.com/] Course + Community gives concerned parents instant access to over 120 lessons providing the psychological insights and communication tools you need to get through to your kid. Use code SOMETHERAPIST2025 to take 50% off your first month. TALK TO ME: book a meeting [https://calendly.com/sometherapist/]. PRODUCTION: Looking for your own podcast producer? Visit PodsByNick.com [http://PodsByNick.com] and mention my podcast for 20% off your initial services. SUPPORT THE SHOW: subscribe, like, comment, & share or donate [https://www.sometherapist.com/donate]. ORGANIFI: Take 20% off Organifi [http://organifi.com/sometherapist] with code SOMETHERAPIST. Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care [https://nowaybackfilm.com/]. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. SHOW NOTES & transcript with help from SwellAI [https://www.swellai.com/?via=sometherapist]. MUSIC: Thanks to Joey Pecoraro [https://www.joeypecoraro.com/] for our song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude & permission.  ALL OTHER LINKS HERE. [https://bio.site/sometherapist] To support this show, please leave a rating & review on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-must-be-some-kind-of-therapist/id1612777134], Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3g73xg37dTN3OqnnQBZYiV], or wherever you get your podcasts [https://www.sometherapist.com/listen]. Subscribe, like, comment & share via my YouTube channel [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgj5mELe7dL_v-QbyoN6lwg]. Or recommend this to a friend! Learn more about Do No Harm. [https://donoharmmedicine.org/sometherapist/] Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST at EightSleep.com [https://www.eightsleep.com/]. Take 20% off all superfood beverages with code SOMETHERAPIST at Organifi [http://organifi.com/sometherapist]. Check out my shop for book recommendations [https://www.sometherapist.com/bookshop] + wellness products [https://www.sometherapist.com/shop-wellness-products]. Show notes & transcript provided with the help of SwellAI [https://swellai.com/?via=sometherapist]. Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro [https://www.joeypecoraro.com/] for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission. Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care [https://nowaybackfilm.com/] (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. https://nowaybackfilm.com/Follow us on X @2022affirmation [https://twitter.com/2022affirmation] or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration [https://www.instagram.com/affirmationgeneration/]. Have a question for me? Looking to go deeper and discuss these ideas with other listeners? Join my Locals community [http://somekindoftherapist.locals.com/]! Members get to ask questions I will respond to in exclusive, members-only livestreams, post questions for upcoming guests to answer, plus other perks TBD. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★ [https://www.patreon.com/sometherapist]

28. apr. 2025 - 1 h 37 min
episode 158. Illness Identity and the Capture of Psychiatry with Dr. Kristopher Kaliebe artwork
158. Illness Identity and the Capture of Psychiatry with Dr. Kristopher Kaliebe

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Kristopher Kaliebe, a child, adult, and forensic psychiatrist known for his critical stance on “gender-affirming care.” We delve into the complexities surrounding the current landscape of gender identity and the implications for mental health care. Dr. Kaliebe shares his journey into this contentious field, highlighting his concerns about the medicalization of gender dysphoria and the potential harm it poses to vulnerable youth. We explore the concept of "illness identity," where young people may gravitate towards labels that define their struggles, often leading to over-diagnosis and inappropriate treatment. Dr. Kaliebe emphasizes the importance of understanding the nuances behind statements like "I feel like a woman" or "I feel like a boy," urging listeners to consider the psychological factors at play. We also discuss the troubling trend of social transition among children and the societal pressures that contribute to this phenomenon. Throughout our conversation, we question the integrity of professional organizations that have adopted advocacy over science, leading to a lack of diverse perspectives in psychiatric practice. This episode aims to shed light on the urgent need for a more balanced dialogue in mental health care, encouraging professionals and parents alike to critically evaluate the current approaches to gender identity and treatment. Kristopher Kaliebe, MD is a Professor of Psychiatry at University of South Florida, in Tampa Florida. He is Board Certified in Psychiatry, Child and Adolescent Psychiatry and Forensic Psychiatry. He is a Distinguished Fellow at the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (AACAP). His clinical work has been primarily in University clinics, Federally Qualified Health Centers and juvenile corrections. At USF Dr. Kaliebe instructs medical students, psychiatry residents, child and adolescent psychiatry fellows, and forensic psychiatry fellows. From 2013-2021 he served as co-chair of AACAP’s Media Committee. From 2016 to 2022 he was the liaison between the AACAP and the American Academy of Pediatrics. Dr. Kaliebe’s publications and presentations include the effects of digital technologies, gender, psychotherapy, juvenile, corrections, mind-body medicine, nutrition, and mental health in primary care settings. He is concerned about naïve interventionalism in medicine. Restore Childhood: https://restorechildhood.com/ [https://restorechildhood.com/]   00:00 Start [00:01:43] Gender-affirming care skepticism. [00:03:39] Early onset gender dysphoria. [00:08:10] Gender dysphoria diagnosis concerns. [00:13:07] Illness identity versus stigma. [00:16:44] Illness identity and social transition. [00:21:08] Gender identity and social transition. [00:25:37] Gender identity's incoherent evolution. [00:29:31] Symbolic equivalence in identity. [00:32:01] Comfort and identity in gender. [00:38:01] Psychiatry's response to advocacy pressures. [00:39:49] Advocacy versus science in medicine. [00:45:34] Institutional takeover as a virus. [00:48:31] Emotional communication in media. [00:51:05] Classical liberalism in education. [00:55:24] Parental caution in therapy choices. [01:00:06] Overprotecting youth in society. [01:05:38] Building identity through creativity. [01:08:50] Consequences of overprotective parenting. [01:10:32] Consequences in parenting. [01:15:50] Male identity and societal challenges. [01:18:41] Restore Childhood initiative. ROGD REPAIR [http://rogdrepair.com/] Course + Community gives concerned parents instant access to over 120 lessons providing the psychological insights and communication tools you need to get through to your kid. Use code SOMETHERAPIST2025 to take 50% off your first month. TALK TO ME: book a meeting [https://calendly.com/sometherapist/]. PRODUCTION: Looking for your own podcast producer? Visit PodsByNick.com [http://PodsByNick.com] and mention my podcast for 20% off your initial services. SUPPORT THE SHOW: subscribe, like, comment, & share or donate [https://www.sometherapist.com/donate]. ORGANIFI: Take 20% off Organifi [http://organifi.com/sometherapist] with code SOMETHERAPIST. Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care [https://nowaybackfilm.com/]. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. SHOW NOTES & transcript with help from SwellAI [https://www.swellai.com/?via=sometherapist]. MUSIC: Thanks to Joey Pecoraro [https://www.joeypecoraro.com/] for our song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude & permission.  ALL OTHER LINKS HERE. [https://bio.site/sometherapist] To support this show, please leave a rating & review on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-must-be-some-kind-of-therapist/id1612777134], Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3g73xg37dTN3OqnnQBZYiV], or wherever you get your podcasts [https://www.sometherapist.com/listen]. Subscribe, like, comment & share via my YouTube channel [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgj5mELe7dL_v-QbyoN6lwg]. Or recommend this to a friend! Learn more about Do No Harm. [https://donoharmmedicine.org/sometherapist/] Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST at EightSleep.com [https://www.eightsleep.com/]. Take 20% off all superfood beverages with code SOMETHERAPIST at Organifi [http://organifi.com/sometherapist]. Check out my shop for book recommendations [https://www.sometherapist.com/bookshop] + wellness products [https://www.sometherapist.com/shop-wellness-products]. Show notes & transcript provided with the help of SwellAI [https://swellai.com/?via=sometherapist]. Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro [https://www.joeypecoraro.com/] for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission. Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care [https://nowaybackfilm.com/] (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. https://nowaybackfilm.com/Follow us on X @2022affirmation [https://twitter.com/2022affirmation] or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration [https://www.instagram.com/affirmationgeneration/]. Have a question for me? Looking to go deeper and discuss these ideas with other listeners? Join my Locals community [http://somekindoftherapist.locals.com/]! Members get to ask questions I will respond to in exclusive, members-only livestreams, post questions for upcoming guests to answer, plus other perks TBD. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★ [https://www.patreon.com/sometherapist]

21. apr. 2025 - 1 h 21 min
episode 157. Anti-Feminist Therapy? Dr. Hannah Spier on How Ideals of Independence Fail Women in Practice artwork
157. Anti-Feminist Therapy? Dr. Hannah Spier on How Ideals of Independence Fail Women in Practice

Dr. Hannah Spier, a psychiatrist from Zurich, Switzerland, calls herself an "anti-feminist psychiatrist.” We delve into the complexities of women's mental health, particularly how feminist ideologies can lead to feelings of inadequacy and burnout. Hannah shares her insights from years of treating women who often find themselves stuck in therapy, grappling with anxiety and unfulfilled desires, particularly around relationships and motherhood. We explore the concept of dating with intention, emphasizing the importance for women of knowing what we want while we still retain the advantages of youth. Hannah discusses the common patterns she sees in her patients, such as the pressure to achieve academically while neglecting emotional needs, which can lead to a cycle of anxiety and dissatisfaction. We also touch on the societal expectations placed on women and how these can create a disconnect between their true desires and their life choices. Throughout our conversation, we challenge the notion of self-esteem and discuss the role of gratitude in overcoming resentment. Hannah argues that understanding the realities of both women's and men's experiences can help shift perspectives and foster healthier relationships. This episode aims to provoke thought about the choices women make and the societal narratives that shape those choices, ultimately encouraging listeners to reflect on their own paths and desires. Hannah Spier is a Norwegian-born medical doctor trained in Psychiatry in Norway and Switzerland, with a degree in Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapy from the University of Zurich. Now based in Zurich with her husband and three children, she launched the Psychobabble publication and podcast [https://hannahspier.substack.com/] in October 2022 to challenge postmodern influences and champion traditional values in the mental health field. YouTube: @psychobabblewithspier [https://www.youtube.com/@psychobabblewithspier] Psychobabble Substack [https://substack.com/@psychobabblewithspier]  00:00 Start [00:01:27] Anti-feminist psychiatrist explained. [00:07:26] Biological clock and priorities shift. [00:11:08] Success redefined for mothers. [00:14:06] Choices and leverage for women. [00:20:18] Biological realities of women's choices. [00:25:46] Antidote to resentment is gratitude. [00:30:00] Narcissism and self-perception. [00:34:48] Resentment in motherhood and relationships. [00:36:10] Women's relationship goals and challenges. [00:43:34] Choosing the right partner. [00:48:05] Evolutionary psychology and motherhood. [00:52:17] Dating with intention. [00:54:23] Postmodernism's impact on self-improvement. [01:02:27] Expecting more from ourselves. [01:03:21] Flaws in psychiatric treatment. [01:10:06] Maternal instincts and self-care. [01:15:36] Lies of feminism. [01:16:43] Vulnerability and relationship dynamics. [01:22:01] Confusion between love and passion. [01:28:06] Healing from domestic violence. [01:30:14] Maternal instincts and nurturing energy. ROGD REPAIR [http://rogdrepair.com/] Course + Community gives concerned parents instant access to over 120 lessons providing the psychological insights and communication tools you need to get through to your kid. Use code SOMETHERAPIST2025 to take 50% off your first month. TALK TO ME: book a meeting [https://calendly.com/sometherapist/]. PRODUCTION: Looking for your own podcast producer? Visit PodsByNick.com [http://PodsByNick.com] and mention my podcast for 20% off your initial services. SUPPORT THE SHOW: subscribe, like, comment, & share or donate [https://www.sometherapist.com/donate]. ORGANIFI: Take 20% off Organifi [http://organifi.com/sometherapist] with code SOMETHERAPIST. Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care [https://nowaybackfilm.com/]. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. SHOW NOTES & transcript with help from SwellAI [https://www.swellai.com/?via=sometherapist]. MUSIC: Thanks to Joey Pecoraro [https://www.joeypecoraro.com/] for our song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude & permission.  ALL OTHER LINKS HERE. [https://bio.site/sometherapist] To support this show, please leave a rating & review on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-must-be-some-kind-of-therapist/id1612777134], Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3g73xg37dTN3OqnnQBZYiV], or wherever you get your podcasts [https://www.sometherapist.com/listen]. Subscribe, like, comment & share via my YouTube channel [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgj5mELe7dL_v-QbyoN6lwg]. Or recommend this to a friend! Learn more about Do No Harm. [https://donoharmmedicine.org/sometherapist/] Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST at EightSleep.com [https://www.eightsleep.com/]. Take 20% off all superfood beverages with code SOMETHERAPIST at Organifi [http://organifi.com/sometherapist]. Check out my shop for book recommendations [https://www.sometherapist.com/bookshop] + wellness products [https://www.sometherapist.com/shop-wellness-products]. Show notes & transcript provided with the help of SwellAI [https://swellai.com/?via=sometherapist]. Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro [https://www.joeypecoraro.com/] for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission. Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care [https://nowaybackfilm.com/] (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. https://nowaybackfilm.com/Follow us on X @2022affirmation [https://twitter.com/2022affirmation] or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration [https://www.instagram.com/affirmationgeneration/]. Have a question for me? Looking to go deeper and discuss these ideas with other listeners? Join my Locals community [http://somekindoftherapist.locals.com/]! Members get to ask questions I will respond to in exclusive, members-only livestreams, post questions for upcoming guests to answer, plus other perks TBD. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★ [https://www.patreon.com/sometherapist]

14. apr. 2025 - 1 h 33 min
episode 156. Not Man Enough to Be a Woman: How William Allen Detransitioned After 30 Years artwork
156. Not Man Enough to Be a Woman: How William Allen Detransitioned After 30 Years

In this powerful episode, I speak with William Allen, a man who lived for 30 years as a “transgender woman” named Maggie before detransitioning between 2020-2023. William shares his remarkable life story, from his earliest childhood memories of gender dysphoria through his transition in 1993, to his religious awakening and eventual detransition. His newly released book, "Not Man Enough to Be a Woman [https://amzn.to/443H4bd]," details this extraordinary journey. William begins by sharing the viral social media post that caught my attention on Detrans Awareness Day. He then takes us back to his childhood in the 1960s, where despite appearing as a typical boy who played with neighborhood friends and joined the Boy Scouts, he secretly wished he had been born a girl and would dress in his mother's clothes when alone. He describes how throughout his youth, he couldn't understand why he had these feelings, finding no answers even in psychology textbooks during college. William shares the story of his first marriage, when his gender dysphoria temporarily subsided during the initial years of falling in love, only to return "with a vengeance" later, ultimately destroying his marriage. By 1993, William began hormone therapy, had his beard removed through electrolysis, and underwent surgeries. He details the physical changes from estrogen, the workplace transition, and how he was able to "pass" in society as a woman for many years. William speaks candidly about his life as Maggie. He describes a deathbed reconciliation with his estranged father in 2015 and the conversation decades earlier that gave his book its title - when his father told him he wasn't "man enough to be a woman." The turning point in William's story came in 2020 when he experienced a profound religious transformation that changed his perspective on his life and identity. This led to his decision to detransition, a three-year process that included saving money, finding a surgeon willing to perform a mastectomy, legal name changes, and rebuilding relationships. William's story raises profound questions: What happens when a false identity embraced for decades no longer aligns with one's deepest values? After living thirty years as Maggie, William's return to his birth identity offers a rare window into the complexities of gender dysphoria, transition, and detransition that few have experienced over such an extended period. His story challenges simplistic narratives while offering compassion for those struggling with gender identity issues. William Allen struggled with gender identity disorder from childhood in the 1960s. Hiding his condition throughout his teenage, college, and young adult years, his obsession only grew stronger, eventually ruining his marriage. He began his “transition” in 1993. After hormones, beard removal, voice coaching, and surgery, he "passed" and settled into a successful life, until he rediscovered his faith. He completed his detransition in 2023, after 30 years living as a “transwoman.” William now speaks out against the transgender movement’s deceptions and intentional targeting of children. Find him at notmanenoughtobeawoman.com [https://notmanenoughtobeawoman.com/] or get his book on Amazon [https://amzn.to/443H4bd]. Follow him on X @wmallen2024 [https://x.com/wmallen2024].  00:00 Start [00:01:08] Detransitioning after long-term experience. [00:07:03] Life as a man pretending. [00:09:36] Transition and survival narrative. [00:14:45] Transformation through faith. [00:18:10] Childhood aspirations and challenges. [00:23:35] Antisocial behavior in childhood. [00:26:39] Antisocial behavior and redemption. [00:35:05] Father-son relationship and reconciliation. [00:37:33] Gender identity and parental conflict. [00:40:21] The power of affirmation. [00:48:25] Decision to transition. [00:49:49] Hormone effects and personal experiences. [00:56:24] Euphoria of life-changing transitions. [01:02:25] Trans community's impact on women. [01:03:34] Transformation through faith and repentance. [01:08:30] The nature of sin. [01:12:50] Transformation through faith. [01:18:47] Dating after gender transition. [01:20:47] Detransitioning and surgical challenges. [01:27:44] Detransitioning and its consequences. [01:29:23] Support for parents of “trans” youth. [01:33:25] Promoting William's new book. ROGD REPAIR [http://rogdrepair.com/] Course + Community gives concerned parents instant access to over 120 lessons providing the psychological insights and communication tools you need to get through to your kid. Use code SOMETHERAPIST2025 to take 50% off your first month. TALK TO ME: book a meeting [https://calendly.com/sometherapist/]. PRODUCTION: Looking for your own podcast producer? 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Subscribe, like, comment & share via my YouTube channel [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgj5mELe7dL_v-QbyoN6lwg]. Or recommend this to a friend! Learn more about Do No Harm. [https://donoharmmedicine.org/sometherapist/] Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST at EightSleep.com [https://www.eightsleep.com/]. Take 20% off all superfood beverages with code SOMETHERAPIST at Organifi [http://organifi.com/sometherapist]. Check out my shop for book recommendations [https://www.sometherapist.com/bookshop] + wellness products [https://www.sometherapist.com/shop-wellness-products]. Show notes & transcript provided with the help of SwellAI [https://swellai.com/?via=sometherapist]. Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro [https://www.joeypecoraro.com/] for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission. 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