Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting

3034: [Part 2] Our Marriage Was Struggling, Here Are 12 Things That Helped Us Heal and Strengthen It by Shawna Scafe of Simple on Purpose

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3034: Shawna Scafe shares the practical mindset shifts that helped transform a struggling marriage into a stronger, more peaceful partnership. From learning humility and accountability to creating a home filled with comfort, fun, and acceptance, her reflections offer encouraging reminders that healthy relationships are built through small, intentional choices every day. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://simpleonpurpose.ca/struggling-marriage-advice/ [https://simpleonpurpose.ca/struggling-marriage-advice/] Quotes to ponder: “Making space for one another to take care of our health and wellness makes us better partners.” “I wanted our home to be a place where you can find comfort instead of worried you will be confronted on something at any moment.” “We will never get the ‘perfect’ life, but we do get a hundred little moments every day that are perfect, if we seek them out.” Episode references: Relationship Coaching Resource: https://www.gottman.com/couples/ [https://www.gottman.com/couples/] Marriage Counselling Information: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/marriage-counseling [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/marriage-counseling] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

3033: [Part 1] Our Marriage Was Struggling, Here Are 12 Things That Helped Us Heal and Strengthen It by Shawna Scafe of Simple on Purpose

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3033: Shawna Scafe reflects on the hard seasons of her marriage and the intentional changes that helped rebuild trust, connection, and respect over 14 years together. Through honest lessons about resentment, appreciation, communication, and personal growth, she shares practical insights that can help couples create a stronger and healthier relationship. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://simpleonpurpose.ca/struggling-marriage-advice/ [https://simpleonpurpose.ca/struggling-marriage-advice/] Quotes to ponder: "Resentment kills every relationship." "I am responsible for how I am thinking and feeling, they cannot generate love/appreciation/joy FOR me." "Showing appreciation to your spouse for the ways that they show up and care for you/home/kids will let them feel seen and cherished." Episode references: The Enneagram Institute: https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ [https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

3032: One Sentence That Will Change Your Life by Dr. Kelly Flanagan on Life Changing Insight

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3032: Dr. Kelly Flanagan explores the exhausting burden of trying to keep everyone happy and the freedom that comes from embracing imperfection with honesty and compassion. His powerful “one sentence” offers a healthier way to navigate conflict, boundaries, accountability, and self-acceptance while creating deeper, more authentic relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drkellyflanagan.com/one-sentence-that-will-change-your-life/ [https://drkellyflanagan.com/one-sentence-that-will-change-your-life/] Quotes to ponder: “I’m not going to worry very much about offending people anymore, which means I need you to tell me when I do, so I can think about it and decide if I need to apologize.” “I’m sick of living in fear of what others will think of me, if I make a mistake, or say a wrong word, or accidentally make them feel uncomfortable, or don’t respond to them in the way they wish.” “When our hearts are populated by this sentence, and when our lives become populated by people who are also living it, we will, finally, be living fully and freely.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

3031: If Kindness and Generosity Is So Good for Us, Why Are We So Suspicious of It? by Charlie Brown of Simple and Straightforward

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3031: Charlie Brown reflects on a chance encounter in Porto that turned a simple run into a meditation on trust, generosity, and human nature. Through humor, vulnerability, and personal stories, he explores why we instinctively question kindness even though science and experience both suggest generosity makes us happier, healthier, and more connected. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/spread-the-ripple/if-kindness-and-generosity-is-so-good-for-us-why-are-we-so-suspicious-of-it-63328da00af4 [https://medium.com/spread-the-ripple/if-kindness-and-generosity-is-so-good-for-us-why-are-we-so-suspicious-of-it-63328da00af4] Quotes to ponder: “Why are we always so suspicious of the kindness of strangers?” “To be generous is to be human. We crave it. It nurtures us.” “When you’re generous, you’re happier. There’s even evidence to suggest you’re healthier too because giving to others lowers your stress levels.” Episode references: Free Hugs Campaign: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Free_Hugs_Campaign [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Free_Hugs_Campaign] New York City Marathon: https://www.nyrr.org/tcsnycmarathon [https://www.nyrr.org/tcsnycmarathon] Silence of the Lambs: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0102926/ [https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0102926/] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

3030: I'm Bored! 6 Tricks For Beating Summer Boredom by Jen of This Time of Mine on Summer Activities

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3030: Jen of This Time of Mine shares practical ways to make summer break feel fun and balanced without turning parents into full-time entertainers. From creating simple routines and encouraging independence to embracing quiet time and even boredom itself, these ideas help kids stay engaged, creative, and happier all summer long. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://thistimeofmine.com/beating-summer-boredom/ [https://thistimeofmine.com/beating-summer-boredom/] Quotes to ponder: “Summer break brings a much needed change in pace, but I think we can all admit that certain days are more challenging than others.” “It’s good for kids to be bored. It sparks their creativity and imagination like nothing else.” “Help kids practice being self-sufficient and independent with daily summer responsibilities.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]