Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting

2866: [Part 2] How to Get off the Emotional Roller Coaster and Date from a Centered Place by Melissa Josue of Melissa the Love Coach

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 2866: Melissa Josue explores how attachment to dating outcomes fuels anxiety and emotional instability, urging a shift toward inner wholeness and self-trust. By practicing detachment, cultivating possibility over expectation, and reconnecting with your true self, you reclaim your power and date from a place of grounded confidence and peace. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://melissathelovecoach.com/get-off-emotional-roller-coaster-date-centered-place/ [https://melissathelovecoach.com/get-off-emotional-roller-coaster-date-centered-place/] Quotes to ponder: "When you're attached to an outcome, you feel at the mercy of your circumstances and in constant fear of loss." "Rather than being in the energy of expectation and being attached to an outcome, shift to being in the energy of possibility." "You realize that no one can ever rob you of yourself. You are safe. There is nothing to lose that cannot be replaced and nothing to gain that adds to who you are."

2865: [Part 1] How to Get off the Emotional Roller Coaster and Date from a Centered Place by Melissa Josue of Melissa the Love Coach

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 2865: Melissa Josue explores the emotional highs and lows that often accompany modern dating and reveals how attachment to specific outcomes can leave us feeling anxious and out of control. By learning to let go and practice healthy detachment, not indifference, we can date from a grounded, centered place that fosters genuine connection and emotional clarity. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://melissathelovecoach.com/get-off-emotional-roller-coaster-date-centered-place/ [https://melissathelovecoach.com/get-off-emotional-roller-coaster-date-centered-place/] Quotes to ponder: "One of the most challenging issues that many of my clients and blog readers struggle with in dating is feeling like they're on an emotional roller coaster." "When you're attached, you're riding between the thrill of having something and the threat of losing it." "It's about having a much deeper awareness of your human experience, but from a place of being centered and a place of profound openness, not attachment." Episode references: The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success by Deepak Chopra: https://www.amazon.com/Seven-Spiritual-Laws-Success-Pocketbook/dp/1878424114 [https://www.amazon.com/Seven-Spiritual-Laws-Success-Pocketbook/dp/1878424114]

2864: Mindful Self-Management Strategies: How to Regulate Your Emotions in an Increasingly Complex and Chaotic World by Kylee Lessard

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 2864: Kylee Lessard shares transformative insights from the Inner MBA program at NYU, offering practical tools to regulate emotions and shift from stress to presence in daily life. By exploring Professor Jeremy Hunter's concept of mindful self-management, listeners gain accessible strategies, like self-dialogue, cold exposure, and nervous system awareness, to reclaim calm, energy, and clarity amid the chaos. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.ablueskymind.com/blog/mindful-self-management-strategies [https://www.ablueskymind.com/blog/mindful-self-management-strategies] Quotes to ponder: "Self-management, in the modern world, is all about managing the flow of your attention and the way your nervous system responds to the flow of your attention." "Where attention goes, energy flows." "Your nervous system dictates how much you struggle by bringing either accepting or resisting energy to pain that arises." Episode references: Inner MBA by NYU: https://innermbaprogram.com [https://innermbaprogram.com/]

2863: Feeling Unloved: "You Don't Love Me, Nobody Loves Me" by Vironika Tugaleva on Self Worth

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 2863: Vironika explores how our feelings of being unloved often stem not from others' actions, but from deep, unresolved inner wounds and self-rejection. Her powerful story traces the journey from external blame to self-awareness, ultimately revealing that true healing begins when we decide to treat ourselves with compassion. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.vironika.org/nobody-loves-me/ [https://www.vironika.org/nobody-loves-me/] Quotes to ponder: "I thought other people were causing me pain. In reality, they were just accidentally clicking 'play' on already existing tapes inside my mind." "The thing about hating myself was that I didn't realize I was doing it." "My relationships with others became defined by their ability either to save me from my misery or to hurt me by perpetuating it."

2862: How to Create a Chore and Reward System for Kids by Andy Hill of Marriage, Kids and Money on Habit Formation

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 2862: Andy Hill shares a practical, age-appropriate system for teaching kids responsibility and money management through a mix of unpaid family chores and paid "money chores." By combining a simple three-task allowance system with "Save, Spend, and Give" jars, he lays the groundwork for lifelong habits of contribution, self-discipline, and financial awareness, all while keeping it fun and achievable for young kids. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://marriagekidsandmoney.com/mkm-challenge-create-a-chore-and-reward-system-for-kids [https://marriagekidsandmoney.com/mkm-challenge-create-a-chore-and-reward-system-for-kids] Quotes to ponder: "When the chore is done, inspect their work to make sure they did it right. They know you're engaged and you care about the hard work they did for the family." "Help your child 'Spend, Save and Give' responsibly." "If they save up a bunch of money for something big, meet them in the middle if you want."