Soft Cock Week Podcast

What can we do when that voice in the head just won't let us enjoy or shut the F*ck up? When the mind cockblocks our pleasure even when all could be delight? Hypnosis and self-hypnosis are powerful tools you can use to reset your sexual expectations and enjoyment. Cultivate self-acceptance AND soft cock sensuality by changing negative self-talk to powerfully positive suggestions. Erica Leroye talks with Dr. Amy Marsh, sexologist and founder of the Intimate Hypnosis Training Center. After the engaging conversation between these two embodiment sexologists, Dr.Amy has provided a full presentation and a guided hypnosis you can use at home. If you would like the pdf of the hypnosis script to use with yourself or a partner it is available on her Cockversation page at www.softcockweek.com For More Information and to Connect With Dr.Amy Marsh [https://amymarshsexologist.com/2020/01/24/new-at-my-hypnosis-school/] amymarshsexologist.com [https://amymarshsexologist.com/2020/01/24/new-at-my-hypnosis-school/] Amy’s Books: Entrancing: Hypnotizing Your Way to More Pleasure, Romance, and Sex! Sexological Hypnosis: Overview, History, & Techniques amymarshsexologist.com For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com [https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com] For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ [https://www.softcockweek.com/] We have MERCH! Check out our storewww.softcockweek.com/store [http://storewww.softcockweek.com/store] Takeaways Self-love and acceptance are crucial for sexual enjoyment. Hypnosis can help bypass negative self-talk. Fluctuations in erections are normal and should be embraced. Positive self-talk can enhance sexual confidence. The nervous system plays a key role in arousal. Techniques like erotic hypnosis can enhance pleasure. Self-hypnosis is a valuable tool for body acceptance. Communication with partners about desires is essential. Pleasure can be experienced in many forms, not just penetration. Creating a safe space for intimacy is vital. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Sofcock Appreciation Week 04:19 Dr. Amy's Journey and Expertise 07:25 Understanding Hypnosis in Sexuality 10:54 The Science Behind Hypnosis 12:52 The Role of Self-Suggestion 16:33 Addressing Negative Self-Talk 21:07 Practical Tools for In-the-Moment Challenges 25:35 Using Self-Affirmations Effectively 29:40 Understanding Sexual Response and Neural Pathways 34:16 Exploring the Impact of Cultural Norms on Male Sexuality 36:42 Hypnosis Techniques for Sexual Empowerment 42:18 The Importance of Self-Hypnosis and Partner Support 45:50 The Fluidity of Sexual Experience 48:51 The Power of Words and Positive Reinforcement 54:39 Dr. Amy's Presentation and Demo Soft Cock Appreciation Week, hypnosis, self-love, sexuality, body acceptance, pleasure, nervous system, positive self-talk, erotic hypnosis, intimacy

Erica Leroye and Zach Budd, LMSW, consent educator and OG SCWeek participant explore sexuality, consent, and the impact of toxic masculinity, toxic femininity, and “genderless toxicity” on mental and physical health.This conversation touches on race and culture, power and powerlessness, and the impacts of societal expectations on men's health. By naming that which is often unsaid they move the conversation about “softness” from shame and isolation to sexual empowerment by: *  Normalizing men talking about penises and penis health especially in minority communities. Looking at the barriers and discovering ways to circumvent them, and/or just knock them the fuck out. * Addressing healthcare discrepancies, hypersexualization, and traumas that impact sexual well-being * Discussing medication related erectile/ejaculation/arousal issues and expanding what sexual pleasure might look like for those on meds * Vulnerability can enhance intimacy in relationships. Curiosity can alleviate anxiety in sexual situations and immense pleasure can be found in non-penetrative activities. For More Information and to Connect With Zach Budd X.  black_sexgeek IG zinvictuz For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com [https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com] For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ [https://www.softcockweek.com/] We have MERCH! Check out our storewww.softcockweek.com/store [http://storewww.softcockweek.com/store] and support Soft Cock Appreciation Week Takeaways The conversation encourages open discussions about sexual themes. Consent education is crucial in addressing sexual trauma. Toxic masculinity can lead to harmful perceptions of manhood. Toxic femininity affects boys' development in educational settings. Education systems often fail to support boys' natural development. Hypersexualization of black men creates unrealistic expectations. Representation in media is essential for diverse sexual narratives. Self-talk significantly impacts mental health and relationships. Toxicity in relationships can lead to physical health issues. Creating safe spaces for dialogue is vital for healing. Toxicity in one's mind can lead to performance anxiety. Healthy attachment involves being seen, heard, and accepted. Body acceptance is a journey that evolves over time. Vulnerability can enhance intimacy in sexual relationships. Communication about sexual health is crucial for connection. Exploring pleasure beyond penetration can be fulfilling. Prostate health is vital, especially for black men. Curiosity can counteract anxiety in sexual situations. Men can experience pleasure in various ways beyond traditional norms. It's important to challenge toxic masculinity in discussions about health. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Soft Cock Appreciation Week 02:39 Zach Budd's Background and Connection to Soft Cock Week 04:39 Understanding Consent and Sexuality Education 06:02 Toxic Masculinity and Its Impact on Men 12:20 Exploring Toxic Femininity and Gendered Toxicity 19:00 The Effects of Toxicity on Mental and Physical Health 26:29 The Role of Education in Shaping Masculinity 33:44 Hypersexualization and Racial Stereotypes 37:08 The Importance of Representation in Sexuality 40:40 The Impact of Anxiety and Jealousy on Sexual Health 43:00 Navigating Self-Care and Toxicity 48:07 Personal Journeys: Body Acceptance and Health 59:16 The Importance of Vulnerability in Relationships 01:11:34 Exploring Pleasure Beyond Penetration 01:15:29 Prostate Health and Breaking Taboos Soft Cock Appreciation Week, toxic masculinity, toxic femininity, consent, sexuality education, mental health, representation, LGBTQ, trauma, self-care, toxic masculinity, performance anxiety, body acceptance, vulnerability, sexual health, prostate health, growth mindset, healthy attachment, pleasure exploration, mental health

Have you been curious about bringing sex toys into your play but have thoughts like, “It means I’m ‘less than’ if we use a toy”, “I can’t feel my partners pleasure if we use a toy,” “I’m embarrassed that I like sex toys,”  “I tried toys and they didn’t do anything for me,” “If we use toys we’ll become less sensitive, get addicted to it, and it will create problems down the line”? Then this conversation is for you! Join Erica Leroye as she and Carl the Toy Guy, Owner of PTTreasures toy emporium, as they deep dive together into:   Common blocks people have around bringing toys into solo and partnered experiences and fun and practical suggestions for overcoming hesitancies and embracing and enjoying sex toys.   A toy “show and tell” with examples and brainstorming for creative uses for people who have a variety of erectile concerns including ideas for how to shop for them, pick them, use them and clean them. Addressing cultural and societal stigmas around men exploring their sexual desires and ways to brush that off and claim the joy that playing with toys and discovering new sensations can offer the whole self.  For More Information and to Connect With Carl www.pttreasures.com IG pt_treasures Carl has offered a discount on his site, for all us SC Appreciators. USE CODE SOFTCOCK for 15% off purchases on this site For a full list of all the toys mentioned in this episode go to our episode page https://www.softcockweek.com/2024-cockversations/9ebjpsryumtfu4ts4u8s8ebk6vcypl For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ We have MERCH! Check out our storewww.softcockweek.com/store and support both Soft Cock Week and this year’s, once we make a profit, partner SELFED (getselfed.org) Takeaways Toys can enhance intimacy and pleasure in relationships. Many men face blocks due to societal norms and personal beliefs. Communication is key when introducing toys into a relationship. Toys can be used creatively beyond their intended purpose. Understanding toy materials and proper cleaning is essential. Lube plays a crucial role in the enjoyment of toys. Erectile dysfunction does not mean the end of pleasure. Foreplay with toys can deepen connection between partners. It's important to learn your own body to maximize pleasure. Toys can be a fun and exciting addition to sexual experiences. Sex toys can enhance both solo and partnered play. Communication is key to understanding and fulfilling each other's desires. Orgasm is not the only goal; pleasure is the main focus. Different toys serve various purposes and can be used creatively. Understanding the mechanics of orgasm can improve sexual experiences. The market for sex toys is growing and becoming more innovative. It's important to choose body-safe materials when selecting toys. Men are increasingly advocating for their own pleasure and exploring new experiences. Sexual health is linked to regular ejaculation, which can be supported by toys. Creating a comfortable environment for discussing sexual desires is essential. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Toy Guy and Sofcock Appreciation Week 01:53 Carl's Journey to Becoming the Toy Guy 03:22 Overcoming Blocks to Using Toys 07:07 Understanding Men's Concerns with Toys 10:04 The Importance of Communication in Using Toys 12:07 Connecting with Partners Through Toys 16:10 Exploring Different Uses for Toys 19:20 The Role of Foreplay with Toys 22:18 Understanding Toy Materials and Cleaning 28:32 Lube and Its Importance with Toys 33:21 Toys for Erectile Disappointment 37:40 Show and Tell: Exploring Different Toys 50:55 Exploring the World of Sex Toys 54:46 The Importance of Communication in Pleasure 01:01:00 Understanding Orgasm and Stimulation 01:06:53 Innovative Toys and Their Uses 01:12:56 Navigating Sexual Experiences and Expectations 01:20:43 The Future of Sex Toys and Market Trends sex toys, erectile dysfunction, pleasure, intimacy, communication, toy materials, lube, foreplay, sexual wellness, relationships, sex toys, pleasure, communication, orgasm, stimulation, intimacy, sexual health, innovation, relationships, education

With Prostate Cancer rates touching many families, the movement around support and education offers models for us to consider in thinking about erectile health specifically. In this conversation, Erica Leroye invites Billy Hatzichristos, support group facilitator at Man Cave Health to discuss the multifaceted challenges faced by men dealing with prostate cancer, particularly focusing on the impact on relationships, intimacy, and self-advocacy. This conversation gives insights into how Man Cave support groups work and also: Billy’s personal story with Prostate Cancer and his path to becoming a facilitator and guide for other men Balancing the focus of the “stats” during health recovery with the emotional components What men are talking about together in open and authentic ways when given the space to do so The important role of partners and peers in recovery How hemp based products, like Native Ceuticals, can support well-being and sexual function For More Information and to Connect With Billy Hatzichristos Mancavehealth.org https://longislandhemp.com/ For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ We have MERCH! Check out our storewww.softcockweek.com/store and support both Soft Cock Week and this year’s, once we make a profit, partner SELFED (getselfed.org) Other References Made in this Episode: https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/the-endocannabinoid-system-essential-and-mysterious-202108112569 Prostate Cancer Research Institute https://pcri.org/ Takeaways Soft Cock Appreciation Week encourages open conversations about men's health. Support groups provide a safe space for men to share their experiences. Prostate cancer can affect men at a younger age than commonly thought. Men often struggle to find support during their health journeys. Communication with partners is crucial for navigating sexual health issues. Body acceptance is an important aspect of recovery after prostate cancer. Cannabis and hemp products can aid in managing health issues. Men need to be proactive in their health care and screenings. The endocannabinoid system plays a role in regulating health and wellness. It's essential to educate men about their health options and resources. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Softcock Appreciation Week 03:43 The Importance of Support Groups for Men 08:24 Billy's Personal Journey with Prostate Cancer 12:50 Understanding Prostate Cancer Awareness 17:39 Breaking Barriers to Support 22:27 Navigating Treatment Options 30:10 Sexual Function and Intimacy Post-Cancer 32:52 Navigating Relationships During Health Challenges 34:27 Understanding the Impact of Medical Trauma 36:29 Rebuilding Intimacy Post-Surgery 39:58 Acceptance and Body Image After Prostate Cancer 46:21 Transitioning to a New Career in Health 52:51 The Role of Hemp in Health and Wellness prostate cancer, men's health, support groups, sexual health, body acceptance, cannabis, hemp products, erectile dysfunction, intimacy, health awareness

Continuing on the theme of “Why is talking openly and honestly about changes in erectile function still so taboo among men?” Erica Leroye speaks with Percy Hawkes, LMFT, Surrogate Partner, and founder of the Portland Queer Healers Collective, about his years facilitating men’s groups for both hetero and queer men and the wisdom and lessons we can apply as partners, providers and peers. With compassion and curiosity they discuss: Embracing Softness and Connection in male relationships Exploring societal and cultural barriers to open communication about health and strategies to encourage vulnerability and authenticity with peers partners and providers Body Acceptance and Aging The value of men's groups in an era of growing isolation and loneliness and the power of sharing stories for mental and physical well-being Resource Mentioned in this Conversation: The Mankind Project https://mankindproject.org/ For More Information and to Connect With Percy Hawkes https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/percy-hawkes-portland-or/390834 For More Information and to Connect With Erica Leroye https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com For More Information and to Connect With Soft Cock Appreciation Week https://www.softcockweek.com/ We have MERCH! Check out our store www.softcockweek.com/store Takeaways Men often struggle to communicate about sexual health and function. Group dynamics can facilitate open discussions among men. Body acceptance is crucial as men age and face changes. Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. Softness can be a source of connection and intimacy. Men desire to feel seen, heard, and loved. The mind-body connection plays a significant role in sexual health. Normalizing conversations about erectile function can reduce stigma. Intergenerational conversations can provide valuable insights for younger men. Community support is essential for men's mental and emotional well-being. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Soft Cock Appreciation Week 05:35 Challenges in Male Communication 13:02 The Vulnerability of Male Sexual Health 22:14 Body Acceptance and Aging in Men 40:23 Intergenerational Conversations and Male Support 48:34 Finding Community and Support Groups 57:23 Embracing Softness and Connection 01:09:09 Closing Thoughts and Resources soft cock, male communication, body acceptance, vulnerability, sexual health, men's groups, aging, intimacy, mental health, community support