Think Outside the Boss
Ann Eileen Thompson spent nearly 30 years climbing to the top. Global teams at Procter & Gamble. A company she co-founded, scaled onto the Inc. 500, and sold. From the outside, a flawless leadership career. And then she got fired, and she will look you dead in the eye and tell you she had it coming. Most people who get walked out the door spend years telling everyone how wrong the company was. Ann did the opposite. She admitted they were right, and that single act of honesty cracked open the most important lesson of her entire career. In this conversation, Ann and Katie go somewhere most leadership conversations are too polished to go. She reveals the exact habit that got her fired, the one almost every single person reading this is guilty of without realizing it. When she stopped respecting a boss, she quietly gathered the other frustrated people and built a coalition that all agreed they knew better. It felt like venting in the parking lot. It was actually a slow demolition of the entire team's trust, and it showed up in the business results, not just the mood in the room. And she gets radically honest about the parts we usually hide. What it feels like to be deceived about your own behavior while believing you're the good guy. What to do when you genuinely cannot respect the person you report to. Why a single firing can teach you more than a decade of promotions. And how she walked away from a career that was quietly burning her to the ground, took an eighteen month silence, and rebuilt what she actually wanted from her work and her life. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL DISCOVER: * Why criticizing people from the outside almost never changes their behavior * The "get inside the tent" approach to leading people through growth and change * The real difference between calling people up and calling people out * Why hard conversations are the core of leadership, not a side task * How venting about your boss to coworkers quietly erodes trust across a whole team * The healthy and unhealthy ways to handle a leader you don't respect * What getting fired taught Ann about accountability and self-awareness * The one question every leader should ask after losing a job or a team member * How the best mentors create growth without ever telling you exactly what to do * The first step to take when you feel stuck and can't name what you actually want We talk about: 00:00 Intro 02:30 The moment a teacher called her a leader before she saw it in herself 05:00 What great coaching looks like: goalposts, milestones, and room to figure it out 07:30 Her first hard conversation and learning to lead through conflict 10:00 The career path: Ohio State, Macy's, and learning how to influence people 12:30 Why P&G became her crash course in real leadership 14:30 Learning as much from the bad leaders as the good ones 16:00 Get inside the tent: the difference between calling people up and calling people out 19:00 The condescending boss and what bad leadership actually feels like 21:30 Healthy vs. unhealthy ways to cope with a leader you can't respect 24:00 How gossip seeds division and quietly hits business results 26:30 The job where she seeded division and got fired 29:00 Why she now says they were right to fire her 31:00 The warning signs she blew off, and why 33:00 How she'd coach her former self: respect, decide, stay or go 35:30 How faith reshaped the way she leads and works 42:00 Burnout, selling the company, and the reset that followed 45:00 Rediscovering what actually brings her joy 48:30 The mission she lives now: coaching people toward purpose 51:00 How to start when you feel stuck and don't know what comes next Resources: * Try Softer by Aundi Kolber https://amzn.to/4ekHvCF [https://amzn.to/4ekHvCF] * Good to Great by Jim Collins https://amzn.to/4uL0QTp [https://amzn.to/4uL0QTp] * The Leadership Challenge by James M. Kouzes and Barry Z. Posner https://amzn.to/4ubSyCY [https://amzn.to/4ubSyCY] * Experiencing God by Henry Blackaby, Richard Blackaby, & Claude King https://amzn.to/4vp55ns [https://amzn.to/4vp55ns] Connect with Ann * LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anneileenthompson/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/anneileenthompson/] * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ann_eileen_thompson/ [https://www.instagram.com/ann_eileen_thompson/] * Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/anneileenthompson/ [https://www.facebook.com/anneileenthompson/] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FaithDrivenLeader [https://www.youtube.com/@FaithDrivenLeader] * Website: https://anneileenthompson.com/ [https://anneileenthompson.com/] Connect with me * Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/katie_armentrout [https://www.instagram.com/katie_armentrout] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@katiearmentrout [https://www.youtube.com/@katiearmentrout] * LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/katiearmentrout [https://www.linkedin.com/in/katiearmentrout] * Newsletter: http://www.peoplefluence.com/newsletter [http://www.peoplefluence.com/newsletter] * Website: http://www.peoplefluence.com [http://www.peoplefluence.com] #Leadership #HardConversations #FaithAtWork
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