Across the River

AA: The Resurrectionists: Grave Robbing for Medical Schools

The grave should be the end of the story — but for 19th-century medical schools, it was only the beginning. In this episode of The Asphodel Archives, Charon’s Intern unearths the world of the Resurrectionists: the grave robbers who supplied cadavers to anatomy classrooms when the law failed to keep up with science. How did society justify turning stolen bodies into medical education, and what did it mean for the poor whose graves were least protected? Learn more and join the archives at https://charons-intern.com [https://charons-intern.com/] Support me on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/cw/CharonsIntern]

Across the River 03: Maori Culture, Mental Health and ways of grieving - Lance Houia

In this episode of Across the River, I speak with Lance Houia, a Māori cultural educator and mental health advocate from Rotorua, Aotearoa / New Zealand. We talk about tangi (tangihanga), the Māori funeral tradition, a multi-day process of mourning that brings family, community, and ancestors together. Lance explains what it means to sit with the dead, to grieve openly, and why practices like the haka are not performances, but ways of releasing emotion instead of carrying it alone. Lance is the founder of My Soul Warrior, [https://mysoulwarriors.teachable.com/l/products?sortKey=name&sortDirection=asc&page=1] a mental health and leadership framework that combines emotional mastery, somatic practices, and cultural knowledge. His work focuses on resilience, leadership under pressure, and the importance of real human connection , especially in moments of loss. This is an honest conversation about death, community, and the question of who shows up when life breaks. learn more about Lance`s Work: Website: https://mysoulwarrior.com Instagram: @lhouia Course: https://mysoulwarriors.teachable.com

WCIA #05 Empty Vaults, Open Graves: The Illinois Scandal

In the world of deathcare, your reputation is your only currency. For over a century, the Illinois Funeral Directors Association (IFDA) was the gold standard of that currency—a "family of families" protecting the traditions of the trade. But beneath the somber suits and professional handshakes, a $300 million disaster was quietly being hollowed out from the inside. This week, we deconstruct the collapse of the IFDA Master Trust. This isn't a story of a shadowy outsider or a corporate raider. It is a forensic look at an "autoimmune disorder" within an institution—where professional courtesy replaced oversight, and "trust" became a substitute for transparency. In this episode, we explore: * The Vault of Trust: How a century-old association convinced thousands of funeral directors to hand over their clients' life savings. * The "Key-Man" Betrayal: The disturbing mechanics of a scheme where the Association used the dead’s money to bet on the death of their own members. * The Banality of Negligence: How a $100 million hole went unnoticed because no one botherered to read the investment reports. * The Aftermath: Why, in a scandal that shuttered family businesses and emptied retirement accounts, no one ever went to prison. When the people hired to guard the gates decide they are above suspicion, the gates are already lost. Join Charon’s Intern as we examine what happens when the watchdog chooses a nap over a shift.

Asphodel Archives #04: The Civil War and Embalming: How America Learned to Preserve the Dead

Before the American Civil War, embalming was rare, experimental, and largely unnecessary. Most people died close to home, buried within days by family or community. War changed that.As hundreds of thousands of soldiers died far from where they were born, families demanded the return of bodies across vast distances. Heat, time, and transport made traditional burial impossible. In response, a new profession emerged almost overnight: battlefield embalming.In this episode of Asphodel Archives, we explore how the Civil War transformed deathcare in the United States—introducing modern embalming practices, professional corpse preservation, and the first large-scale confrontation between public health, commerce, and grief.We examine the work of early embalmers like Thomas Holmes, the logistical realities of transporting the dead by rail, and how the death of Abraham Lincoln permanently normalized embalming in American funerary culture.This episode traces how a wartime necessity reshaped civilian burial practices—and how the desire to see the dead one last time changed the business, ethics, and expectations of death in America. Topics: Civil War history, embalming, death rituals, funeral history, battlefield medicine, transport of the dead, American deathcare, 19th-century burial practices. To create your own Will (or Trust) check with trust&will [https://trustandwill.sjv.io/c/6821610/851588/11883] to get it done. (*) Follow us on Instagram, TikTok or check our website charons-intern.com [https://www.charons-intern.com/] * Disclosure: This episode contains an affiliate link. If you choose to use the Trust & Will referral link, the show may receive a commission at no additional cost to you. We only share resources we believe are relevant to estate planning and end-of-life preparation.

WCIS #04- National Prearranged Services: The $500 Million Funeral Fraud (1992–2008)

For sixteen years, a company called National Prearranged Services (NPS) promised peace of mind: pay for your funeral in advance so your family wouldn’t have to decide in grief. Headquartered in Missouri, NPS sold prepaid funeral plans across sixteen U.S. states and appeared to manage hundreds of millions of dollars in consumer trust funds.Behind the brochures and polished audits, those funds were never safe.Instead of placing prepaid funeral money into legally required trust accounts, NPS executives routed the deposits through a web of affiliated insurance companies and shell entities controlled by the same family. Money meant to sit untouched for decades was siphoned off to finance luxury homes, private aircraft, real estate ventures, and insider loans—while falsified reports kept regulators in the dark.When the scheme collapsed in 2008, nearly 97,000 families discovered their “fully funded” funeral plans were empty. The missing amount—estimated between $450 and $600 million—forced funeral directors to bury people at their own expense, absorb catastrophic losses, or turn families away in the worst moments of their lives.This episode examines one of the largest funeral fraud cases in U.S. history, the federal prosecution of Doug Cassity, and how fragmented state oversight allowed a pyramid scheme built on grief to survive for over a decade.Topics: true crime, funeral industry scandals, prepaid funeral fraud, deathcare ethics, financial crime, consumer protection failures, institutional oversight, unclaimed trust funds, U.S. federal fraud cases. If you want to prepare your Will or a Trust, check our Partner at trust&will [https://trustandwill.sjv.io/c/6821610/851588/11883] .(*) If you want to know more about us visit our website charons-intern.com [https://www.charons-intern.com/] * this is an affiliate link. We might earn a commission from any purchase you might make under this Link at no extra charge for you. Thank you for your support.