Actually, you know what

Podcast by Actually, You Know What

English

Personal stories & conversations

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About Actually, you know what

"Actually, you know what" is a story/experience telling podcast where Stephany (aka Steggy) dives into relationships, self-growth, and all of the lessons learned (and not learned) along the way. Humor, honesty, and chaos is promised. Think of it like chatting with your best friend over a glass of wine: sometimes funny, sometimes deep, always real. Joined often by her partner-in-crime Mal, this is your space to laugh, reflect, heal, and feel a little less alone in the messy journey of figuring life out.

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22 episodes

Episode 21: Beyond The Cosplay

What happens when something that once made you feel magical stops feeling like home?In this episode, Steggy (Stephany) talks about her relationship with cosplay. The creativity, confidence, friendships, identity, and internet /social media version of herself that came with it - and what it feels like to step away from something that shaped her for years. Is it really about costumes...or is it actually about evolution, burnout, changing passions, and learning how to let go of versions of yourself with love instead of guilt?

19 May 2026 - 53 min

Episode 20: Friendships and Fall Outs Part 2

Steggy and Mal dive further into friendship dynamics, including the question: what the HECK do male friendships look like?! Which leads us into toxic masculinity - which we'll be discussing way more in depth on another episode!

20 Apr 2026 - 1 h 11 min

Episode 19: Friendships and Fallouts

In this episode, we’re diving into the grief of losing a friend and the emotional weight that doesn’t always get acknowledged. From wondering what you did wrong to realizing how much of yourself you gave, we unpack WHY these endings can feel so uniquely painful.We also explore the different ways men and women experience friendships and why emotional vulnerability can feel easier in some spaces than others, and how societal expectations (like, toxic masculinity) shape the way we connect and communicate.We also share your responses on friendship dynamics, “girl friendships” vs. “guy friendships,” and whether people feel truly seen and supported in their relationships.This is part 1 of 2 - so tune in for the next episode!

13 Apr 2026 - 40 min

Episode 18: AOL and Algorithms Part 2

Listen to part 2 of Christopher Gutierrez walking us through dating throughout the decades and even gives men dating today some advice!

2 Apr 2026 - 1 h 14 min

Episode 17: AOL and Algorithms

From AOL chatrooms to dating apps, we’re diving into how love has evolved across the decades. Joined by author Christopher Gutierrez, we explore ghosting, swipe culture, and what we might’ve lost (or gained) along the wayBe sure to follow Christopher at @deadxstop AND check out the Catcade in Chicago! https://www.thecatcade.org/

23 Mar 2026 - 1 h 13 min

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