Adult by Default

Episode 8: If You Don’t Ask, You’ll Never Know

Welcome to Episode 8! This week, we’re talking about advocating for yourself. Every day, in every way, all the time. We dive into everything from school to relationships to career, and why it’s important to speak up for yourself in every area of your life. Advocating for yourself doesn’t always look like a big, confident moment—sometimes it’s just saying the small thing you’ve been holding in. In this episode, we’ll also explore the ways society has conditioned us to act and how learning to speak up can change everything. From boundaries to self-trust, we talk about finding your voice, honoring what you actually want, and letting go of the need to be understood by everyone. Because the goal isn’t to control the outcome—it’s to stop staying silent. Whether you’re just starting your adulthood journey, or you’re a seasoned vet, speaking up and advocating for yourself is a necessity. We believe in you!  Follow Adult by Default:  Instagram: @adultbydefaultpod TikTok: @adultbydefaultpod Follow us:  @mariettegervitz @evareyman

Episode 7: Love, Pressure & The Art of Not Settling

Hi everyone and welcome to Episode 7 of Adult by Default! Today we will be talking about love, relationships, and not settling. Have you ever wondered whether there was a specific timeline that your relationship should follow, or if it’s even going in the right direction? If you have, this episode is for you!  From questioning whether we’re “behind” to figuring out what it actually means to not settle, we unpack the pressure to have it all figured out—especially when it comes to dating and long-term relationships. We talk about how knowing yourself changes everything and how to trust your own timing, rather than focusing on someone else’s. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re waiting too long or not asking for enough, we’ve got you covered. We discuss relationship pressure, compromise versus losing yourself, and the invisible checklist and timeline that comes with relationships. As always, grab your coziest sweatpants, head on over to your couch, and join us for another thrilling ride! Follow Adult by Default:  Instagram: @adultbydefaultpod TikTok: @adultbydefaultpod Follow us:  @mariettegervitz @evareyman

Episode 6: Surviving This Job Market & Reinventing Yourself

Welcome to Episode 6 of Adult By Default! Today, we’re getting honest about what it feels like to navigate careers in a time where the world feels unstable, expectations are high, and the path forward isn’t always obvious. We talk about reinvention—whether that’s switching paths, starting over, or just changing your mindset—and ponder if this is a planned or natural process. We explore the pressure to have a perfect career path, the reality of changing directions, and how to embrace growth even when it feels uncomfortable. This episode dives into the pressure to pick one path and the pitfalls of feeling behind in today’s world. We discuss the corporate world and how jobs are shifting in the current market, and talk about letting go of timelines and taking small steps toward a version of your life that actually feels aligned.  Reinvention can mean something as small as a shift in perspective, to something as major as an entire career change. If you’ve ever felt stuck, behind, or unsure what you’re even working toward, this episode is for you. So sit back, get comfortable, and join us for another fun-filled ride on the rollercoaster that is adulthood! Follow Adult by Default:  Instagram: @adultbydefaultpod TikTok: @adultbydefaultpod Follow us:  @mariettegervitz @evareyman

Episode 5: Adulting on a Budget

Hi friends! Today we are discussing finances, budget, and all things money-related during adulthood. Have you ever felt behind because you haven’t bought a house yet, or chose not to go out to dinner to afford rising gas prices? Well, this episode is for you. This week, we dive into the reality of living as an adult in today’s economy and what this means for us.  From feeling like we should have extra cash to the pressure of buying a home, we talk through the gap between expectations and today’s economy. When did the world change so much that a cup of coffee is $10? Is buying a house an attainable goal in today’s world? We also dive into how to deal with feeling behind or left out and why financial timelines aren’t one-size-fits-all. Stay tuned, because we also share our favorite things to budget for! So join us as we ponder financial questions and share our experiences with budgeting as an adult, because as you know, we’re still figuring it out along the way.  Follow Adult by Default:  Instagram: @adultbydefaultpod TikTok: @adultbydefaultpod Follow us:  @mariettegervitz @evareyman

Episode 4: Are We Allowed To Have Hobbies Anymore?

Join us for episode 4 of Adult by Default!  This week, it’s all about hobbies. We’re exploring how hobbies and personal interests shape a more fulfilling adult life. We talk about the very real benefits of hobbies, such as reducing stress, increasing creativity, boosting confidence, and contributing to overall joy.   We also discuss how hobbies don’t need to have a set definition or meet certain criteria—they can simply exist to make you feel good. Whether it’s a creative outlet, a physical activity, or something as random as candle making, having activities you enjoy and can make your own significantly improves your overall well-being. Stay tuned because we’re also starting the episode with a life update and sharing what we’re been up to lately. Hint: class is officially in session…So hop in this car, buckle up, and join us for another episode exploring the adulthood rollercoaster! If you have any thoughts on this episode or other topics you’d like to hear about, let us know in the comments below! Follow Adult by Default:  Instagram: @adultbydefaultpod [https://www.instagram.com/adultbydefaultpod?igsh=MW03aDE0OHM2MDRzdw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr] TikTok: @adultbydefaultpod [https://www.tiktok.com/@adultbydefaultpod?_r=1&_t=ZT-95AFvq9N0zl] Follow us:  @mariettegervitz [https://www.instagram.com/mariettegervitz?igsh=MXBqc3Rkcm9yeWRjNA==] @evareyman [https://www.instagram.com/evareyman?igsh=ODVkNGhlNDd3bTg1]