All About Being Single

38 Life Truths from a Single Cat Lover | 38 to Remember | Episode 38

What keeps popping up in your life, nudging you to pay attention? Well, that’s the vibe we’re diving into today! I’m Wioleta, your host, and I just hit the big 3-9. To celebrate, I’m sharing 38 life truths that hit me hard this past year—some are deep, some are hilarious, and some are just plain relatable as we navigate the single life. From realizing that my cat Treble is basically my therapist to discovering that balance is just a myth, I hope you find these nuggets of wisdom as helpful as I did. So kick back, grab your favorite snack, and let’s explore these lessons together! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Turning 39 is no walk in the park, but it sure can be a good excuse to reflect on life! Wioleta dives into her own journey with 38 life truths learned over the past year, sharing gems that resonate whether you're single, taken, or just trying to figure it all out. From the comforting presence of her beloved cat Treble to the realities of home remodeling, she emphasizes the importance of surrounding yourself with the right people. Some folks lift you up, while others feel like an anchor, and Wioleta is here to remind us to keep the good vibes only! Plus, let’s not forget the sheer joy of rediscovering music that you thought you’d forgotten! With a sprinkle of humor and a splash of sincerity, she encourages listeners to embrace their own lessons and to remember that, at the end of the day, only you know what's best for you. So grab a cup of your favorite brew and get ready to nod along to some serious insights about life, love, and everything in between! Takeaways: * Life is a series of lessons, and sometimes the same lesson keeps popping up, nudging us to pay attention. * The importance of taking daily nature walks cannot be overstated; it's my personal zen time. * Having a supportive pet, like my cat Treble, can truly be one of life's greatest joys during ups and downs. * Not every friend serves the same purpose; some are for fun, others for empathy, and some might need to be let go.

Surviving Home Remodeling | A Single’s DIY Projects | Episode 37

We're diving into a little something different today, as I take a breather from the usual format to share a bit about my life and the overwhelming journey of home remodeling. Yep, you heard it right—remodeling my house has turned into a full-on marathon that’s stretched way beyond my initial timeline and budget. I mean, who knew that ripping out tiny bathroom flooring could leave a dust cloud big enough to rival a desert storm? But here's the kicker: while juggling this chaos, I've realized just how incredible we singles can be. Whether it’s tackling DIY projects, managing finances, or even just keeping up a social life—we’re basically superhuman. So, grab a drink, kick back, and let’s chat about the wild ride of single living and all the amazing things we’re doing while flying solo! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Ever find yourself deep in DIY projects, feeling like a superhero without a sidekick? That’s exactly the vibe Wioleta captures in this episode of All About Being Single. She dives into her chaotic journey of home remodeling that’s turned into a four-year saga of dust, sweat, and perhaps a few tears. With a casual tone that feels like chatting with a good friend over coffee, she recounts the trials of tackling a home renovation while juggling a full-time job and a social life. I mean, who knew ripping up a bathroom floor could be such an epic saga? Wioleta shares her recent adventures in battling the infamous hardy backer board, which, if you’ve ever done any flooring, you’ll know is about as forgiving as a toddler on a sugar high. By the end of it, she emphasizes the superhuman feats that singles accomplish daily—managing finances, maintaining a home, and keeping a social calendar all while flying solo. It’s a shout-out to all the singles out there who are rocking their independence, reminding us that we often achieve more than we give ourselves credit for. Takeaways: * Being single often means taking on superhuman tasks, like managing home renovations solo. * House remodeling can be a time-consuming and costly adventure, as I learned firsthand. * We singles juggle jobs, social lives, and home projects, proving our amazing multitasking skills. * Even when overwhelmed, it's crucial to appreciate our accomplishments as single individuals.

"Put Yourself Out There" | The Worst Dating Advice Ever? | Episode 36

Coupled folks love to throw around the advice to "put yourself out there," like it’s the magic potion for singles. But let’s be real—it's not as easy as it sounds, right? I mean, it’s as if they think we’re just sitting at home twiddling our thumbs, waiting for Prince Charming to come rescue us from our basements. We dive into the reality that many of us are out there living our lives, whether it’s hiking, working, or grabbing coffee, but that doesn’t always mean we’re stumbling upon Mr. Right. We chat about how this classic advice often overlooks the complexity of dating, timing, and the sheer luck involved in making a meaningful connection. So, grab your headphones and let’s unravel this cliché together—because putting yourself out there might not be the golden ticket everyone thinks it is! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Navigating the dating jungle, especially as a single person, can sometimes feel like a never-ending saga of unsolicited advice from coupled friends. You know the drill—everyone loves to tell us to ‘just put ourselves out there’ as if we’re hibernating in a cave waiting for Prince Charming to drop by. But let’s be real for a second. Sure, some folks might be sitting at home, but many of us are out there living our best lives—hitting up grocery stores, coffee shops, and even the occasional hiking trail. Yet, despite our best efforts, the elusive partner still manages to slip through our fingers like a bar of soap in a shower fight. The episode dives deep into the reality of what it means to put yourself out there, and it’s not just about swiping right on dating apps or going to bars filled with emotionally unavailable people. It’s about understanding the nuances of chance encounters and how timing and mutual attraction really play a role in finding that special someone. We chat about the irony of receiving advice from those who may have barely dipped their toes into the dating pool. It's almost comical when they suggest that finding love is as simple as just stepping out the door. We explore how many singles are already juggling work, social lives, and personal passions, and yet, the dating scene can still feel like a desert. I share my own experiences of being out in the world, from bustling coffee shops to serene hikes, and how even being conventionally attractive doesn’t guarantee that someone is going to stroll up and ask for my number. The episode is a reminder that while putting yourself out there is important, it’s not a one-size-fits-all solution, and there are so many factors at play that can make or break the connection. In the latter part of our chat, we tackle the frustrating contradictions in dating advice. You know, the classic "Stop looking, and it’ll happen" versus "You just need to put yourself out there!" It’s like a dating advice buffet where you can’t quite figure out what to plate up. We conclude with some empowering thoughts on how to reinterpret this cliché advice to actually work for us. Instead of chasing love, we talk about focusing on living fully and authentically, which might just lead to that unexpected connection. So, whether you’re single and ready to mingle or just enjoying your solo journey, this episode is packed with insights that remind us that love often comes when we least expect it. Takeaways: * Coupled friends often think we singles are just hiding away, waiting to be discovered. * Living life fully doesn't guarantee we'll meet someone special, it's all about timing and luck. * The phrase 'put yourself out there' means different things, and it's not a one-size-fits-all advice. * Sometimes, being out there doesn't lead to healthy connections; it’s about quality over quantity. * It's crucial to be selective and focus on what aligns with our needs and values in dating. * Being single doesn’t mean being lonely; it's about enjoying our independence and growth.

The '"It'll Happen When You Least Expect It" Myth | Episode 35

You know that classic line, “It’ll happen when you least expect it”? Yeah, we're diving deep into that one today. I mean, how many times have we heard it, right? It’s like the universe’s favorite one-liner, but let’s be real—it often feels more like a dismissal than solid advice. I share my own experiences where, despite not actively searching, love was playing hide and seek like a champion! We’ll explore how this phrase can come off as a little condescending and why it doesn’t always hold true for everyone. So, grab your favorite drink, kick back, and let’s unravel this together, because finding love isn’t about waiting for a random moment; it’s about knowing yourself and being ready for whatever comes next. Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. We dive into the oh-so-familiar phrase, "It'll happen when you least expect it," that gets thrown around like confetti at a wedding. Everyone's heard it, and honestly, it can feel like a bit of a punch in the gut for us singles. Wioleta, our charming host, shares her personal journey through years of being single, where she was *definitely* not on the lookout for love, yet still, nothing came knocking at her door. She reflects on how this phrase often feels dismissive, especially during those times when it seems like no one is interested in even having a conversation, let alone a date. Wioleta humorously points out that just because your friend found their soulmate while they were busy binge-watching their favorite show doesn’t mean it’s a universal truth. She emphasizes that wanting a partner isn’t something to be ashamed of and that it’s perfectly normal to put effort into finding love, much like one would when searching for a job. After all, we don't tell job seekers to just chill and it will all work out, right? This episode is a heartfelt reminder that self-awareness and understanding what we want in a partner is crucial, and Wioleta encourages listeners to embrace their journey, reminding us that sometimes, the search for love is just as important as finding it. Takeaways: * The phrase 'it'll happen when you least expect it' often feels dismissive to singles, right? * Finding a partner isn’t just about luck; it involves self-awareness and knowing what you want. * Many people believe they found love without looking, but that’s not the whole story, folks! * Wanting a partnership and putting effort into it is completely normal and should be celebrated. * Dating advice from coupled friends can feel like clickbait; it just doesn't apply to everyone. * Understanding yourself and your needs is crucial before you can meet a truly compatible partner.

Am I Too Picky or Do I Just Know My Worth? | Episode 34

Are you actually too picky, or do you just know what you need and deserve? This episode dives into the age-old debate about whether having high standards in dating is a flaw or a sign of self-awareness. We chat about how often people throw around the "too picky" label, especially those who haven't been in the dating trenches themselves. I share some of my own experiences with dating folks who clearly weren’t a good fit but convinced myself to stick around just to avoid being labeled as selective. It’s all about understanding that wanting compatibility and respect isn’t being picky—it’s about knowing your worth and not settling for less. So grab your favorite drink, get comfy, and let’s explore what it really means to be discerning in the dating world! Suggestions on how to improve this podcast? Email me at allaboutbeingsingle@gmail.com. Want to send a voice memo regarding an episode's topic? Leave me a voice note at www.allaboutbeingsingle.com. Want to see additional content? Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thisiswioleta/ or https://www.instagram.com/allaboutbeingsingle/or on Threads https://www.threads.com/@thisiswioleta. Want to watch this on YouTube? Subscribe to my channel https://www.youtube.com/@AllAboutBeingSingle. Download the free https://singleminded.gumroad.com/l/huivqv. Navigating the dating world can be a wild ride, especially when you're single and hearing the same tired line: "Maybe you're just too picky." Our host, Wioleta, dives into this stereotype, shedding light on the frustrations that come with being single in a society that often places blame on the individual rather than recognizing the complexities of modern dating. She shares personal anecdotes, from dates with folks who seem to have forgotten basic hygiene to those who are just plain incompatible. Wioleta emphasizes that having standards isn't being picky; it's knowing what you deserve. She reflects on her own experiences, realizing that many who judge singles have never truly been in our shoes, making their advice less than helpful. The episode encourages listeners to embrace their standards and not feel pressured to settle just for the sake of being in a relationship. Wioleta's witty banter and relatable storytelling keep the conversation light, proving that while dating can be tough, knowing your worth is the key to navigating it successfully. So, if you're tired of hearing that you're too picky, tune in for a pep talk on why knowing your needs makes you smart, not selective. Takeaways: * It's totally okay to have high standards in dating; knowing what you deserve is key. * People who call you too picky often haven't faced the same dating struggles you have. * Being selective about potential partners is a strength, not a flaw, so own it! * Settling for less can lead to unhappiness and regret, so prioritize your own needs. * Don't let others' opinions sway your standards; trust your instincts about compatibility. * Dating should be fun and fulfilling, so never feel pressured to lower your expectations.