Baby Talk with Katie & David

Better Partners Make Better Parents - Season 3 Wrap Up

Katie & David wrap up Season 3 here by each sharing their Top 3 Tips for helping new parents better connect in the midst of new parenthood chaos. We both firmly believe that Better Partners Make Better Parents and really get into some (hopefully helpful!) specifics here in this episode. Katie unpacks: 1) Sharing the Care right from the start 2) Trying to be Curious vs assuming and arguing 3) Leaning into Joy - where can we find the "yes"? David walks through: 1) Building Bridges of connection through Shared Agreements 2) Embrace the Suck so you can Own the Outcome as a way to get unstuck and move from "victim" to "Leader" 3) There is no Bouncing Back, only Bouncing Forward Helpful links to some of David's previous Blogposts and Youtube Videos that further explore some of the ideas mentioned in this episode: Becoming a "Leader IN" your relationship - https://www.welcometofatherhood.com/blog/the-leader-of-vs-a-leader-in [https://www.welcometofatherhood.com/blog/the-leader-of-vs-a-leader-in] Shared Agreements - https://www.welcometofatherhood.com/blog/shared-agreements-amp-baby-basics [https://www.welcometofatherhood.com/blog/shared-agreements-amp-baby-basics] Building Bridges - https://www.welcometofatherhood.com/blog/build-those-bridges [https://www.welcometofatherhood.com/blog/build-those-bridges] Bouncing Forward - https://www.welcometofatherhood.com/blog/bouncing-forward [https://www.welcometofatherhood.com/blog/bouncing-forward] New Dad Blues Busters Video - https://youtu.be/9oswUd2Z14A ***** Katie  continues to offer her FREE weekly Embracing Parenthood Postpartum support meetup via Zoom every Thursday at 1pm PST. Katie runs these herself, so please drop on in to experience more of her wisdom, grace, and compassion in person. https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com/parenting [https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com/parenting] ***** Like what we have to say? Subscribe to the channel, like this show, and come see us over at the Nest and Welcome To Fatherhood! For more information on Katie DaMota and Nest Family Resource please visit: https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com [https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com/] For more information on David Arrell, his book Welcome To Fatherhood, and his other coaching and consulting offerings please visit: https://www.welcometofatherhood.com [https://www.welcometofatherhood.com/] ***** Podcast music credit for The Road Ahead: Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/zoo/the-road-ahead License code: YQSX0VF4MX6S3N8K Photo credit: https://www.pexels.com/ [https://www.pexels.com/]

When Parenting Styles Differ

What happens when parenting approaches differ? How do our own unconscious patterns influence our ability to show up grounded and focused when things get tricky? How much variance in parenting styles is "normal," and how can those differences be navigated as a team? Listen in this week as we explore these questions and more. Topics covered include: * How our own unconsciuous energy and issues often come up under the pressures of parenting * How unhelpful patterns and processes can pull us, and/or our partners, away from our plans * The power of self-compassion as an entry to better connecting * Asking for a "re-do" when we don't show up as our best self in conflict * Dad Tip #27 - Fathers Don't Mother * Big Idea #10 - Be Attentive, Be Calm, Be Competent (in that order!) * Shared agreements and bouncing forward ***** Katie continues to offer her FREE weekly Embracing Parenthood Postpartum support meetup via Zoom every Thursday at 1pm PST. Katie runs these herself, so please drop on in to experience more of her wisdom, grace, and compassion in person. https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com/parenting [https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com/parenting] ***** Like what we have to say? Subscribe to the channel, like this show, and come see us over at the Nest and Welcome To Fatherhood! For more information on Katie DaMota and Nest Family Resource please visit: https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com [https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com/] For more information on David Arrell, his book Welcome To Fatherhood, and his other coaching and consulting offerings please visit: https://www.welcometofatherhood.com [https://www.welcometofatherhood.com/] ***** Podcast music credit for The Road Ahead: Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/zoo/the-road-ahead License code: YQSX0VF4MX6S3N8K Photo credit: https://www.pexels.com/ [https://www.pexels.com/]

Baby's Parental Preferences - The Good, the Bad, & the Ugly

This week we talk about Baby's parental preferences, why they are understandable and healthy, and share a few tips for helping better connect with your partner over this tricky topic. Items covered include: * Familiarity and Safety needs drive Baby's behavior * The Hierarchy of Attachment * Balancing Baby's preferences and parental abilities * Bostering your own abilities to share the load, and lots more * Special tips for Dads struggling in this space * And no, weaning is not the answer! Article Referenced: Hierarchy of Attachment- https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0163638312001117 [https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0163638312001117] *****  Katie continues to offer her FREE weekly Embracing Parenthood Postpartum support meetup via Zoom every Thursday at 1pm PST. Katie runs these herself, so please drop on in to experience more of her wisdom, grace, and compassion in person. https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com/parenting [https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com/parenting] ***** Like what we have to say? Subscribe to the channel, like this show, and come see us over at the Nest and Welcome To Fatherhood! For more information on Katie DaMota and Nest Family Resource please visit: https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com [https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com/] For more information on David Arrell, his book Welcome To Fatherhood, and his other coaching and consulting offerings please visit: https://www.welcometofatherhood.com [https://www.welcometofatherhood.com/] ***** Podcast music credit for The Road Ahead: Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/zoo/the-road-ahead License code: YQSX0VF4MX6S3N8K Photo credit: https://www.pexels.com/ [https://www.pexels.com/]

Breastfeeding and Weaning Support

In honor of World Breastfeeding Week, Katie leads the way in our conversation about Breastfeeding and Weaning as a whole family commitment. How this commitment looks and what challenges are faced vary from the planning and beginning stages of Breastfeeding, to the ongoing efforts to sustain it, and to the inevitable concluding process of Weaning. All of these stages have emotional, relational, and practical components, so listen in this week as we discuss: * Helpful tips for getting off to the best start to your Breastfeeding jounrey * The importance of your Village for support and comfort * Partner focused tips for connecting and supporting the journey every step of the way * and so much more Reference links for this episode include: * Katie's weekly support group: /www.thenestfamilyresource.com/parenting [https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com/parenting] * Previous Breastfeeding episode: https://www.babytalkpodcast.net/infant-feeding-pt-1-breastfeeding-basics/ [https://www.babytalkpodcast.net/infant-feeding-pt-1-breastfeeding-basics/] * Previous Partner focused perspective: https://www.babytalkpodcast.net/infant-feeding-pt-2-partners-pumping-and-planning-ahead/ [https://www.babytalkpodcast.net/infant-feeding-pt-2-partners-pumping-and-planning-ahead/] *****  Katie continues to offer her FREE weekly Embracing Parenthood Postpartum support meetup via Zoom every Thursday at 1pm PST. Katie runs these herself, so please drop on in to experience more of her wisdom, grace, and compassion in person. https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com/parenting [https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com/parenting] ***** Like what we have to say? Subscribe to the channel, like this show, and come see us over at the Nest and Welcome To Fatherhood! For more information on Katie DaMota and Nest Family Resource please visit: https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com [https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com/] For more information on David Arrell, his book Welcome To Fatherhood, and his other coaching and consulting offerings please visit: https://www.welcometofatherhood.com [https://www.welcometofatherhood.com/] ***** Podcast music credit for The Road Ahead: Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/zoo/the-road-ahead License code: YQSX0VF4MX6S3N8K Photo credit: https://www.pexels.com/ [https://www.pexels.com/]

Biological Differences between New Mothers and New Fathers

Join is this week as Katie & David explore and discuss some of the profound and powerful differences in the biology of new Mothers and Fathers. How do their respective brains change and adapt to parenthood in different ways? How does knowing about various neurotransmitter levels and activations help us see our partners in a more understanding and compassion light? How can we appreciate these differences as attributes rather than flaws? Topics covered include: * How Mom Brains and Dad Brains are wired differently * What this wiring looks like and how it shows up in attention and behavior * What feedback loops are heightened, and how these circuits shape parenting * Testosterone, Oxctocin, and other hormonal influences * Specific tips for new Moms and Dads for better connecting to each other * Bringing more space, grace, and understanding into how parenting styles differ Articles reference in this episode include: * https://bloomlife.com/preg-u/dadbrain/ [https://bloomlife.com/preg-u/dadbrain/] * https://www.happiestbaby.com/blogs/parents/fatherhood-mens-bodies [https://www.happiestbaby.com/blogs/parents/fatherhood-mens-bodies] * https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/15/parenting/baby/fatherhood-mens-bodies.html [https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/15/parenting/baby/fatherhood-mens-bodies.html] * https://bigthink.com/neuropsych/neuroscience-of-fatherhood/ [https://bigthink.com/neuropsych/neuroscience-of-fatherhood/] * https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/thoughts-and-feelings/202304/being-more-involved-affects-new-fathers-biologically [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/thoughts-and-feelings/202304/being-more-involved-affects-new-fathers-biologically] * https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2022.745767/full [https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2022.745767/full] ***** Katie continues to offer her FREE weekly Embracing Parenthood Postpartum support meetup via Zoom every Thursday at 1pm PST. Katie runs these herself, so please drop on in to experience more of her wisdom, grace, and compassion in person. https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com/parenting [https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com/parenting] ***** Like what we have to say? Subscribe to the channel, like this show, and come see us over at the Nest and Welcome To Fatherhood! For more information on Katie DaMota and Nest Family Resource please visit: https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com [https://www.thenestfamilyresource.com/] For more information on David Arrell, his book Welcome To Fatherhood, and his other coaching and consulting offerings please visit: https://www.welcometofatherhood.com [https://www.welcometofatherhood.com/] ***** Podcast music credit for The Road Ahead: Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/zoo/the-road-ahead License code: YQSX0VF4MX6S3N8K Photo credit: https://www.pexels.com/ [https://www.pexels.com/]