13. False Identity: Discover the Lies Beneath Your Insecurity

13. False Identity: Discover the Lies Beneath Your Insecurity

Your surface struggles often point to deeper core beliefs. Learn how to uncover the lies beneath your insecurity and begin replacing them with God's truth. Have you ever wondered why you keep struggling with the same fear, insecurity, jealousy, people-pleasing, comparison, or perfectionism? In this episode, we're going beneath the surface. You'll learn how your thoughts and emotions often reveal deeper core beliefs that may be shaping your life without you even realizing it. We'll explore the difference between surface struggles, thoughts, and core beliefs—and why recognizing these false beliefs is the first step toward living from your true identity in Christ. By the end of this episode, you'll have practical questions to help you uncover the lies that may be keeping you stuck and prepare your heart for discovering who God says you really are.   ✨ Take the Next Step If you want to practice listening to God Get my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal:  https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider [https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider] Join my private facebook page for women: Break Free From Insecurity [https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244] https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 [https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244] Find my Show (all the episodes) Apple podcast: https://shorturl.at/LkeY0 [https://shorturl.at/LkeY0] Spotify:  https://shorturl.at/htTPr [https://shorturl.at/htTPr]

12. Leading from Security, Not Certainty: Why Confident Leaders Don't Need All the Answers

If you struggle with self-doubt, fear of failure, or needing all the answers, learn how confident Christian leaders lead from security in Christ rather than certainty. Do you feel pressure to have all the answers before making a decision? Many leaders believe confidence comes from certainty. But what if real confidence comes from something deeper? In this episode, we'll explore why secure leaders ask questions, seek counsel, admit mistakes, and make decisions without needing perfect certainty. You'll discover how insecurity often hides behind the need to always be right—and why your value was never meant to come from your performance. You'll learn: ✨ Why confident leaders don't need all the answers ✨ How insecurity affects decision-making ✨ The difference between leading from certainty and leading from security ✨ Why overthinking can slow your leadership ✨ How to separate your identity from your performance Most importantly, you'll be reminded that your worth is not determined by how often you're right. Your confidence can rest in who you are in Christ. Confidence is not knowing everything. Confidence is trusting the One who does.   ✨ Take the Next Step Get my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal:  https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider [https://www.breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider] Join my private facebook page for women: Break Free From Insecurity  [https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244] https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 [https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244] Find my Show (all the episodes) Apple podcast: https://shorturl.at/LkeY0 [https://shorturl.at/LkeY0] Spotify:  https://shorturl.at/htTPr [https://shorturl.at/htTPr]

11. Fighting Fear, Discouragement or Insecurity? You Don't Have to Fight Alone (Jehovah Nissi)

Do you ever feel like you're fighting fear, discouragement, insecurity, or a battle in your own mind? In this episode, we'll explore the powerful name of God, Jehovah Nissi—The Lord Is My Banner, and discover why victory isn't found in striving harder but in depending on God. You'll learn: ✨ What Jehovah Nissi means ✨ Why Israel's victory in Exodus 17 depended on God's strength, not their own ✨ How insecurity often comes from standing under the wrong banner ✨ How to identify the banners of fear, approval, performance, and self-reliance ✨ Why God's banner over you is both victory and love Plus, stay to the end for a guided activation meditation to help you surrender your battles and learn to stand under God's banner. When the Lord is your banner, you no longer have to fight for your identity—you fight from it.   ✨ Take the Next Step If you want to practice listening to God, Get my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal and weekly email:  https://breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider [https://breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider]   Email me: marji@breakfreefrominsecurity.com [marji@breakfreefrominsecurity.com]   Join my private facebook page for women: Break Free From Insecurity [https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244] https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 [https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244] Find my Show (all the episodes) Apple podcast: https://shorturl.at/LkeY0 [https://shorturl.at/LkeY0] Spotify:  https://shorturl.at/htTPr [https://shorturl.at/htTPr]

10. Struggling to Feel Good Enough? How to Break Free from Performance and Find Your True Identity with Special Guest Kara Schrock

Do you feel like you have to be "good enough" to be accepted? Do you find yourself striving, comparing, overthinking, or trying to prove your worth? Have you ever wondered why following all the rules still doesn't bring peace? In this powerful conversation, Kara Schrock shares her journey from insecurity, performance, and perfectionism into freedom and healing. Growing up in a strict religious environment, Kara learned to hide her struggles and strive for acceptance. But when health challenges and a deep hunger for God led her into a personal encounter with Him, everything began to change. Together, we talk about the difference between living from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil versus the Tree of Life, how performance can keep us trapped in insecurity, and why true healing begins when we embrace our identity in Christ. ✨ In This Episode: • How childhood wounds can shape our identity • Why striving and perfectionism never satisfy • The connection between insecurity and performance • What it means to eat from the Tree of Life • How truth brings healing and freedom • Practical steps for releasing old beliefs and embracing truth ✨ Key Truth: You don't become whole by trying harder. You become whole by receiving the truth of who God says you are. ✨ Guest: Kara Schrock is a life coach, speaker, and host of The Imagine Code. She helps women heal, rediscover their identity, and step into freedom through truth, healing, and personal transformation. Kara’s Website:  https://www.genhousewives.com [https://www.genhousewives.com/gen-housewives-home] ✨ Take the Next Step If you want to practice listening to God, Get my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal and weekly email:  https://breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider [https://breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider]   Email me: marji@breakfreefrominsecurity.com [marji@breakfreefrominsecurity.com] Join my private facebook page: Break Free From Insecurity [https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244] https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 [https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244] Find my Show (all the episodes) Apple podcast: https://shorturl.at/LkeY0 [https://shorturl.at/LkeY0] Spotify:  https://shorturl.at/htTPr [https://shorturl.at/htTPr]

09. Stumped on Understanding the Way God Speaks to You? This Encouragement Will Help.

In this episode of Break Free From Insecurity, we talk about why hearing God can feel so difficult—and how the key is not  striving harder, but learning to abide. If you’ve ever wondered why other Christians seem to hear God so clearly while you feel unsure, discouraged, or spiritually disconnected, this episode will encourage you deeply. You’ll discover what it means to abide in Christ, how spiritual union with God changes the way we hear Him, and why God may already be speaking to you more than you realize. Through biblical teaching, personal stories, practical steps, and a guided activation, you’ll learn how to become more aware of God’s presence within you and grow in confidence hearing His voice. In this episode: * Why hearing God is relational, not mechanical * What abiding in Christ really means * How guilt, shame, fear, and striving block spiritual awareness * Bible verses about being one with Christ * Practical ways to recognize God’s peace and presence * A guided visualization and journaling exercise to help you connect with God If you’ve struggled with spiritual insecurity, overthinking, or feeling distant from God, this episode will help you stop striving and start abiding as you grow in friendship with the One who loves you deeply.   ✨ Take the Next Step If you want to practice listening to God, Get my free 3-Day Listening Prayer Journal and weekly email:  https://breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider [https://breakfreefrominsecurity.com/insider]   Email me: marji@breakfreefrominsecurity.com [marji@breakfreefrominsecurity.com] Join my private facebook page: Break Free From Insecurity [https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244] https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244 [https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093986057839244] Find my Show (all the episodes) Apple podcast app [https://shorturl.at/LkeY0] and click here: https://shorturl.at/LkeY0 [https://shorturl.at/LkeY0] Android and Apple users:  Download Spotify app /click here:  https://shorturl.at/htTPr [https://shorturl.at/htTPr] Youtube: https://shorturl.at/3UYKH [https://shorturl.at/3UYKH]  _____________________________________________________ Instructions on writing a review If this podcast encouraged you, will you give me a 5 Star review?   Here are the directions:   (Preferred Method) If you have an iPhone (Apple Podcasts): 1. Open the Apple Podcasts app 2. Search: Break Free From Insecurity Or try clicking here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-insecurity-intrusive-thoughts-mindset/id1892876547 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-free-from-insecurity-intrusive-thoughts-mindset/id1892876547]  3. Follow! 4. Make sure you are on the page that lists all my shows “shows” 5. Scroll down under the trailer to Ratings and Reviews. 6. Click Write a Review  7. Tap  8.  (5 stars!)  9. Tap Write a Review (even 1–2 sentences helps so much!) 10. Copy link (3 dots) and share.  Make sure to add some sentences or add your review.  If you use Spotify (Android): 1. Open Spotify 2. Search: Break Free From Insecurity and go to the show where you can see all three episodes and the trailer or try clicking here: https://open.spotify.com/show/7gRbKvsBHoFF7klxul4w6B [https://open.spotify.com/show/7gRbKvsBHoFF7klxul4w6B]  3. Follow! 4. Tap the  3 dots under the main photo at tap and Rate show 5. Leave a comment under one of the episodes 6. Copy link (3 dots) and share.   Every rating, review, and share helps more women find freedom, identity, and purpose.  Thank you for being part of this with me—it truly means more than you know.              Marji Broce