“What Are You?” — Identity, Belonging & the Question We All Hate

How You Live Now Determines Everything

What you do today shapes how you live tomorrow. In this episode of Brit and the Chick, Melissa Knowles and Errol Barnett explore what it really means to thrive as you age—physically, mentally, and emotionally. From body changes and fitness to mental health, recovery, and the power of saying no, this conversation is a reminder that longevity isn’t just about adding years to your life—it’s about adding life to your years. This isn’t about waiting until something breaks down. It’s about choosing a lifestyle—right now—that supports the life you want later. In this episode, we discuss: *  How daily habits impact long-term health and longevity  *  Why joy should be part of your routine—not something you earn later  *  The connection between boundaries, self-care, and overall well-being  *  How to think about your future self and start showing up for them today  If you’ve been feeling the pull to make a change, reset your routines, or simply live with more intention—this conversation is for you. Brit & The Chick is a weekly podcast hosted by longtime friends Melissa Knowles and Errol Barnett exploring culture, identity, purpose, and the questions we’re all quietly asking. 📞 Join the conversation: 762-254-0825 New episodes every Thursday.

“What Are You?” — Identity, Belonging & the Question We All Hate

“What are you?” It’s a question many of us have been asked—but what is really being asked in that moment? In this episode of Brit & The Chick, Melissa Knowles and Errol Barnett unpack identity, belonging, and the layers behind a question that can feel uncomfortable, invasive, and often defining. Through personal stories and honest conversation, they explore what it means to navigate identity in a world that often tries to simplify who we are. In this episode, we discuss: * Being “othered” and navigating mixed or complex identities * The impact of microaggressions and labeling * How ancestry and cultural heritage shape self-perception * The evolving nature of identity in a diverse world * Why we should be asking “What are you about?” instead This episode is for you if: * You’ve ever been asked “What are you?” and didn’t quite know how to answer * You’ve felt put into a box that didn’t fully reflect who you are * You’re exploring identity, heritage, and what it means to belong * You believe identity is more than labels—it’s layered 🎙️ About the Podcast Brit & The Chick is a weekly podcast hosted by Melissa Knowles and Errol Barnett—two longtime friends having millennial-minded conversations about culture, identity, and the questions we’re all quietly asking. Because identity isn’t just what you are—it’s what you’re about. 💬 Join the Conversation Call or text: 762-254-0825 Don’t just listen—be part of the conversation. ⏱️ Episode Chapters 00:00 — Introduction and Identity Exploration  02:57 — The Question: What Are You?  05:59 — Personal Stories of Othering  08:56 — Navigating Identity in Different Cultures  11:50 — Belonging and Self-Definition  14:47 — The Limitations of Labels  17:49 — Redefining Identity Questions  20:49 — Embracing Blackness and Heritage  26:34 — Exploring Ancestry and Citizenship  30:32 — Cultural Identity and Personal Reflection  35:28 — The Importance of Connection  41:19 — Defining Ourselves: What Are You About? Brit & The Chick is a weekly podcast hosted by longtime friends Melissa Knowles and Errol Barnett exploring culture, identity, purpose, and the questions we’re all quietly asking. 📞 Join the conversation: 762-254-0825 New episodes every Thursday.