Can We Start Over?

The Sacred Path of Returning to Self with Paula Mallis

Join Lindsey Akey for a deeply healing and honest conversation with Paula Mallis —spiritual mentor, doula, mother, and founder of WMN Space. Paula shares her story of profound inner transformation: from growing up in North Carolina to building community in Los Angeles, and ultimately finding peace and presence in Ojai, California. We explore Paula’s journey through sobriety, motherhood, and a near-death experience that radically changed her relationship with time, silence, and the divine. Paula opens up about conscious conception, postpartum care, and how she holds space for women through all forms of birth—whether a baby, a business, or a new version of self. Lindsey reflects on her transition from city life to Ojai, what it’s meant to be part of Paula’s 9-month mentorship, and the experience of sitting in Paula’s powerful full moon circles—spaces that feel less like a share and more like a sacred counsel. Topics we cover: * Healing after a brain event and near-death experience * The power of spiritual psychology and somatic awareness * The evolution of WMN Space and doula work * Conscious motherhood and postpartum support * Community, mentorship, and feminine wisdom * Personal transformation through grief, presence, and prayer * The importance of rest, stillness, and the wisdom of the body Whether you’re navigating a major life transition or simply craving the grounded presence of women’s wisdom, this episode will help you reconnect with what matters most. Mentioned in this episode: → The Grounding Hour [https://lindseyakey.as.me/schedule/17cb1bef/appointment/78169908/calendar/8729785] — A 1:1 somatic session with Lindsey Akey If you’re feeling overwhelmed, activated, or simply unmoored, The Grounding Hour is a space to return to your body and access clarity. In just 60 minutes, you'll release the pressure, reconnect with yourself, and leave with your feet on the ground and your heart open. Book Your Session Here [https://lindseyakey.as.me/schedule/17cb1bef/appointment/78169908/calendar/8729785] About Paula Mallis: Paula Mallis is a doula, spiritual mentor, and facilitator of women’s circles. With a background in Spiritual Psychology and a decade of experience holding space for birth and transformation, Paula supports women in connecting to their intuition, embodying their truth, and navigating life’s transitions with grace and authenticity. She lives in Ojai, California, with her husband and two children. Connect with Paula:  www.paulamallis.com [https://www.paulamallis.com/] Connect with Lindsey:  www.lindseyakey.com [https://www.lindseyakey.com/] @itslindseyakey [https://www.instagram.com/itslindseyakey] CONNECT WITH US! We'd love to hear from you! What do you want to hear more about? What do you love? Have a topic request or a guest suggestion? Send us a DM on Instagram. Britt's Photography [https://jbrittphotography.com/] Somatic Healing with Lindsey [https://www.lindseyakey.com/] Instagram @canwestartoverpod [https://www.instagram.com/canwestartoverpod/] @j.britt_robisheaux [https://www.instagram.com/j.britt_robisheaux/] @itslindseyakey [https://www.instagram.com/itslindseyakey/]

Commitment That Feels Like Care -- 44 In Flow with Jamie Jett and Lindsey Akey

Episode Summary: In this inspiring and grounded conversation, Lindsey Akey and licensed Nutritional Therapy Practitioner Jamie Jett come together to share the vision behind their co-facilitated program, 44 in Flow—a 44-day wellness journey that blends nutrition, somatic practices, meditation, and daily rituals to support deep personal growth and transformation. They explore the importance of community, accountability, and simple daily commitments in creating sustainable wellness. This episode is full of real talk about food, rebellion, self-discipline, kindness, and why structure doesn’t have to mean rigidity—it can actually lead to freedom. If you’ve been craving more connection to your body, your energy, and your intuition, this episode will leave you inspired and ready to take the first step. What We Talk About: * Why community and accountability are essential for growth * How rebellion and resistance show up in our wellness practices * The surprising power of simple daily rituals * Why nourishment is foundational to mental clarity and creativity * The balance between structure and flow in personal development * Committing to transformation without falling into perfectionism * How to use kindness and connection as tools for self-improvement Key Takeaways: * Personal transformation begins with simple commitments * Rebellion often arises as a response to disconnection or past pressure * Nutrition and mindfulness must be engaging, not punishing * Daily acts of kindness can ripple outward into every area of life * Supportive structure creates more space, not less * Community amplifies clarity, healing, and joy Sound Bites: > “We wanna feel alive.” >  “It’s like the base of a pyramid.” >  “Every day is a new opportunity.” >  “It just feels so good to be.” >  “Practice means getting better.” >  “Everyone is doing amazing things.” >  “It’s going to be amazing to see.” Join 44 in Flow This 44-day guided journey runs from April 21 to June 3 and includes: * 5 weekly group sessions * Nourishing meal plans * Daily inspiration and check-ins * Audio meditations and breathwork * A loving, supportive community  → Sign up here [https://yourtravelingntp.com/44-in-flow/]  https://yourtravelingntp.com/44-in-flow [https://yourtravelingntp.com/44-in-flow/] Connect with Lindsey Akey Website: www.lindseyakey.com [https://www.lindseyakey.com] Instagram: @itslindseyakey [https://www.instagram.com/lindseyakey] Connect with Jamie Jett Website: https://yourtravelingntp.com [https://yourtravelingntp.com/] Instagram: @yourtravelingntp [https://www.instagram.com/yourtravelingntp] CONNECT WITH US! We'd love to hear from you! What do you want to hear more about? What do you love? Have a topic request or a guest suggestion? Send us a DM on Instagram. Britt's Photography [https://jbrittphotography.com/] Somatic Healing with Lindsey [https://www.lindseyakey.com/] Instagram @canwestartoverpod [https://www.instagram.com/canwestartoverpod/] @j.britt_robisheaux [https://www.instagram.com/j.britt_robisheaux/] @itslindseyakey [https://www.instagram.com/itslindseyakey/]

Living Authentically with River Ayla: Escaping the Dream of Others & Reclaiming Identity

In this conversation, Lindsey sits down with River Ayla to dive deep into themes of patience, identity, healing, and the journey of self-discovery.  River Ayla is an energy recalibration specialist and quantum healer who empowers conscious leaders to overcome self-imposed limitations. Her transformative work guides individuals to release what holds them back and step confidently into their purpose.  They discuss the importance of recognizing when one is living someone else's dream, the impact of life-altering events on personal identity, and the process of healing from trauma. River shares her experiences with PTSD and the transformative power of energy work, emphasizing the significance of self-witnessing and accountability in the healing journey.  The conversation highlights the complexities of change and the importance of community support while advocating for personal empowerment and freedom. River shares the impact of sobriety on creativity and life choices, the significance of personalized healing modalities, and the balance of giving and receiving in relationships.  River shares insights from her experiences in energy work and the transformative power of connection, emphasizing that true healing comes from within and is unique to each individual.  River is such a gift to work with and know, drive into this conversation to learn more about her work!  Use the code STARTOVER for 10% off River Ayla's self-paced programs [https://www.clearresonancelab.com/self-paced-solutions] —Sourced Series, Aligned Activated Alchemized, Identity Alchemy. Discover more at clearresonancelab.com [https://www.clearresonancelab.com/] or @therealriverayla [https://www.instagram.com/therealriverayla]. Takeaways * It's important to discern whether your goals are truly yours. * Life-altering events can prompt significant identity reassessment. * Healing often involves letting go of past identities. * Witnessing oneself is crucial for personal empowerment. * Change can be uncomfortable but is often necessary for growth. * Energy work can facilitate healing and transformation. * PTSD can manifest in various ways and requires holistic approaches. * Accountability is key to personal growth and change. * Self-witnessing allows for freedom from external validation. Self-witnessing is a radical act of self-empowerment. * External validation can trap individuals in a cycle of unfulfillment. * Community is important, but true safety comes from within. * Healing often requires accountability and self-reflection. * Energy work can lead to profound personal transformations. * Sobriety can open up new avenues for creativity and self-discovery. * True freedom comes from making conscious choices that align with one's values. keywords: patience, timing, identity, healing, trauma, energy work, PTSD, accountability, transformation, self-witnessing, self-witnessing, external validation, healing, energy work, sobriety, personal growth, connection, creativity, modalities, efficiency CONNECT WITH US! We'd love to hear from you! What do you want to hear more about? What do you love? Have a topic request or a guest suggestion? Send us a DM on Instagram. Britt's Photography [https://jbrittphotography.com/] Somatic Healing with Lindsey [https://www.lindseyakey.com/] Instagram @canwestartoverpod [https://www.instagram.com/canwestartoverpod/] @j.britt_robisheaux [https://www.instagram.com/j.britt_robisheaux/] @itslindseyakey [https://www.instagram.com/itslindseyakey/]

Embracing Change: Hypnotherapy, Healing, and Authenticity with Leo Max

In this episode of Can We Start Over, Lindsey Akey sits down with hypnotherapist and healing practitioner Leo Max to explore his journey of personal growth, emotional healing, and self-discovery.  From the fast-paced energy of New York to the transformative and raw atmosphere of Bali, Leo shares his experiences navigating relocation, friendship dynamics, and the challenges of maintaining authenticity in different world settings. They dive into the complexities of being a healing practitioner in ever-changing environments, the lessons learned from people-pleasing tendencies, and the importance of creating a supportive space for emotional processing.  Leo reflects on his time in Amsterdam, where he found a sense of flow and energy. Through dance, therapy, and other grounding practices, he has learned to integrate lightness and freedom into his journey. Join Lindsey and Leo for an insightful conversation on navigating cultural shifts, setting boundaries, and embracing authenticity in healing and relationships. Key Takeaways: * Relocation can be a catalyst for self-discovery and healing. * Emotional processing is most effective in a conducive environment. * Hypnotherapy requires personal space and energetic boundaries. * Friendships evolve with life changes and personal growth. * People-pleasing often stems from good intentions but can hinder authenticity. * Neutrality can serve as a protective mechanism in challenging situations. * Amsterdam’s energy provided a new perspective on urban living. * Dance is a powerful somatic practice for grounding and healing. * Integrating mind, body, and spirit is essential for deep healing. * Lightness and authenticity allow for greater freedom in life choices. Work with Leo Max. Book a 1:1 deep-dive hypnotherapy session [https://restorative-hypnosis.com/1-1-services] or join Leo’s monthly group hypno journeys [https://restorative-hypnosis.com/group-hypnosis] to explore personal transformation and healing.  Follow Leo on Instagram @restorativehypnosis [https://www.instagram.com/restorativehypnosis] to stay updated on future workshops and group journeys. Join The Garden: A Somatic Healing Group for Women If you’re a woman over 30 looking for a supportive community focused on emotional healing and personal transformation, join Lindsey’s somatic healing group, The Garden [https://www.lindseyakey.com/groups/p/the-garden-monthly-healing-group]. This space is designed for women seeking deeper connection, embodiment practices, and healing through community. Learn more and join The Garden today: Let's BLOOM [https://www.lindseyakey.com/groups/p/the-garden-monthly-healing-group] Connect with Us:  Follow Lindsey Akey on Instagram: @itslindseyakey [https://www.instagram.com/itslindseyakey]  Subscribe to Can We Start Over for more inspiring conversations.  Share this episode with someone on their journey of self-discovery! #Hypnotherapy #SomaticHealing #SelfDiscovery #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalHealing #Spirituality #Authenticity #Bali #Austin #NewYork #Amsterdam #HealingPractices #PeoplePleasing #Neutrality #UrbanLiving #DanceTherapy #MindBo CONNECT WITH US! We'd love to hear from you! What do you want to hear more about? What do you love? Have a topic request or a guest suggestion? Send us a DM on Instagram. Britt's Photography [https://jbrittphotography.com/] Somatic Healing with Lindsey [https://www.lindseyakey.com/] Instagram @canwestartoverpod [https://www.instagram.com/canwestartoverpod/] @j.britt_robisheaux [https://www.instagram.com/j.britt_robisheaux/] @itslindseyakey [https://www.instagram.com/itslindseyakey/]

Trust Your Frequency: Reclaiming Personal Power with Kate Blake

In this transformative episode of Can We Start Over, we sit down with the incredible Kate Blake—a coach and energy vortex healer. Kate shares her journey of self-discovery and healing after navigating significant life changes, including a divorce. We explore the intersections of spirituality, personal power, and practical living, offering valuable insights for anyone seeking to reclaim agency and embrace their authentic self. Throughout the conversation, Kate highlights the importance of bridging the esoteric and practical, connecting with your body’s energy, and finding joy in life’s simplest moments. She also dives into the role of community in fostering self-love and emotional well-being, emphasizing that true healing often involves surrendering to life’s journey with trust and grace. Takeaways: * Motorcycling as a form of meditation and joy. * Self-discovery is a lifelong process of uncovering who we are. * Spirituality becomes accessible when we balance the esoteric with the practical. * Coaching can help unlock personal agency and a deeper sense of self. * Money doesn’t determine self-worth or happiness. * Genuine connection with others is vital for our well-being. * Learning to feel okay with where you are is crucial for personal growth. * The universe supports us in our journeys, often in unexpected ways. * Resilience, self-acknowledgment, and surrender are key to navigating life’s challenges. * Community enhances emotional well-being and personal transformation. * Emotional pain can deepen your connection with others. * Finding joy in the present moment is a deliberate and essential practice. Kate Blake's Offerings: Learn more about Kate’s coaching and energy healing work. * Website: www.kateblake.com [https://kateblake.com] * Expansion Membership: Discover Kate’s Expansion membership, a community that blends energy healing and personal growth practices to help you navigate life’s challenges with resilience and grace. Reach out to Kate here [kate@kateblake.com] to dive in. * Instagram: @KateBlakesessions [https://www.instagram.com/kateblakesessions/] * LinkedIn: @KateBlakeSessions [https://www.linkedin.com/in/kateblakesessions/] * Book a limited offer session with Kate [https://calendly.com/kateblake/vortex-energy-healing-special?month=2025-01] Join Lindsey's Membership for women ready to BLOOM * The Garden: Explore Lindsey’s group healing membership, The Garden, designed to support women on their spiritual and personal growth journeys. Join now at the discounted price of $47/month for a limited time.  Connect With Us: * Follow Can We Start Over on your favorite podcast platform. * Share this episode with someone who needs a dose of inspiration and healing. * Don’t forget to leave a review to help others discover our podcast. CONNECT WITH US! We'd love to hear from you! What do you want to hear more about? What do you love? Have a topic request or a guest suggestion? Send us a DM on Instagram. Britt's Photography [https://jbrittphotography.com/] Somatic Healing with Lindsey [https://www.lindseyakey.com/] Instagram @canwestartoverpod [https://www.instagram.com/canwestartoverpod/] @j.britt_robisheaux [https://www.instagram.com/j.britt_robisheaux/] @itslindseyakey [https://www.instagram.com/itslindseyakey/]