The Women We Lose in Tech (And How We Change the Story)

The Women We Lose in Tech (And How We Change the Story)

This week, we’re joined by Lillie Beiting—Salesforce architect, author, speaker, and co-founder of 50x35, a storytelling initiative sparked by a startling reality: nearly half of women leave the tech industry by age 35. We discuss the stories behind that statistic—the pressure to put on “armor” at work, the women who paved the way before us, and the responsibility today’s leaders have to reach back and make the path a little easier for those coming next. Then, in true Coffee Meets Cloud fashion, the conversation takes a hard left into a passionate debate about kids, screens, handwriting, and whether technology is replacing the very struggle that helps us learn. From cursive and critical thinking to attention spans and the value of doing hard things, we ask: What are we losing in our rush to make everything easier? Plus, we talk Dreamin’ events, the power of the Salesforce community, and why some of the best innovation happens when practitioners share what they’ve learned. Want to learn more about 50x35 or share your own story? Visit: https://www.50x35.org/ [https://www.50x35.org/] Catch Lillie speaking on June 25th about Salesforce Experience Cloud Security Architecture by registering at: https://ezprotect.io/event/salesforce-experience-cloud-security-architecture/ [https://ezprotect.io/event/salesforce-experience-cloud-security-architecture/]

From Cursive to ChatGPT

Technology has become a permanent fixture in our classrooms—but what are students gaining, and what might they be losing? In this episode, we dive into the growing role of technology in education and explore an increasingly important question: Which skills should children still practice deliberately because technology doesn't build them automatically? From handwriting and spelling to critical thinking, problem-solving, and navigating disagreement, we discuss how school-issued devices, AI tools, and digital-first learning environments are changing the way children learn. While technology creates incredible opportunities, it can also make it easy to outsource skills that were once considered foundational. We also explore: • Whether convenience is replacing capability in education • The impact of AI and automated tools on critical thinking • How personalized algorithms can limit exposure to different viewpoints • The connection between technology, dopamine-driven behavior, and rising anxiety among young people • What parents can do to help children develop skills that screens can't teach As parents and technology professionals, we're not advocating for less innovation—we're asking how we can be more intentional about preparing kids for a world where technology is everywhere. Resources Mentioned: Olympic Minds Podcast: Leadership Beyond Limits (Episode 34 featuring Sherry Winn) https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLCQ7Pa1beyOKTIc9hByCe62XS7ouJWzZy [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLCQ7Pa1beyOKTIc9hByCe62XS7ouJWzZy] The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt https://www.anxiousgeneration.com [https://www.anxiousgeneration.com/]

Summer Woes and Southern Manners

This week on Coffee Meets Cloud, we’re diving into the chaos, comedy, and contradictions of modern life — from surviving summer break with overstimulated kids to navigating workplace burnout, AI adoption, Southern etiquette, and personal loss. We unpack the idea that today’s kids may be losing the ability to simply be bored, how AI is quietly reshaping the way we think and work, and why tech professionals are living years ahead of the general public when it comes to AI adoption. Along the way, we share our own experiences using tools like ChatGPT and Claude for everything from meal planning to productivity — and where we think the line between convenience and cognitive atrophy starts to blur. The conversation also takes a more personal turn as we talk about grief, health journeys, family genetics, and the emotional whiplash of adulthood. From endocrinology appointments and anti-inflammatory diets to losing beloved pets and grandparents in the same week, this episode balances humor and heartbreak in the way only real friendship can. And of course, we couldn’t resist ending with a conversation about Southern manners, raising respectful kids, workplace meeting culture, and whether being underestimated might actually be a superpower. It’s thoughtful, funny, honest, and a little all over the place — exactly like summer.

Out of Office, Out of Tune, Out of Patience

This week, the Coffee Meets Cloud crew goes everywhere — from Botox injections and gray hair to remote-work ethics, family guilt, performance culture, and the pressure to constantly “have it together.” What starts as Friday chaos (kids home from school, dog drama, tech issues) quickly turns into one of the most honest conversations yet. The hosts unpack aging without apology, the money and mental load behind “maintenance,” shifting workplace expectations for women, and why visible spending doesn’t automatically mean someone is wealthy. They also dive into remote work boundaries, green-dot culture, “mouse jigglers,” time fraud, and the dangerous obsession with measuring presence instead of outcomes. Along the way: stories about over-employed contractors, high performers who finish 8 hours of work in 4, and the uncomfortable truth about how many organizations reward optics over actual value. Layered underneath the humor is a bigger conversation about identity, performance, guilt, and learning how to prioritize the life happening right in front of you. Until then, keep your coffee strong.

Retuning Life, One String at a Time

What do you do when people disappoint you? This episode started with a commencement speech about guitars going out of tune… and somehow turned into one of our most honest conversations yet. We talk about friendship heartbreak, parenting through disappointment, learning who your real people are, and why life isn’t about having a huge circle — it’s about knowing who actually shows up. Also: • Cassandra reviews an energy drink that tastes like sunscreen • Rachel buys patriotic metal roosters • Caramie accidentally starts a conversation about emotional survival Basically: laughter, life lessons, and chaos. Our favorite kind of episode.