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40| The Three Lies Hair Stylists Tell Themselves and How to Stop believing Them

21 min · 29. juni 2026
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Have you ever caught yourself thinking... "I'm not good enough." "Everyone else is doing better than me." "Maybe I made the wrong decision." If so, you're not alone. As hairstylists, the hardest conversations we often have aren't with our clients. They're the conversations we have with ourselves. In this episode, I'm sharing three of the biggest lies I see hairstylists tell themselves and, more importantly, how to replace them with thoughts that build confidence instead of tearing it down. We'll talk about why learning your craft feels uncomfortable, how comparison steals your confidence, and what to do when you start questioning whether you're really cut out for this career. If you've been feeling discouraged, overwhelmed, or stuck, this episode is here to remind you that your current circumstances don't define your future. In this episode, you'll learn: • Why feeling uncomfortable doesn't mean you're failing • How to stop comparing yourself to other hairstylists • Why your mindset matters just as much as your technical skills • Practical ways to change your self talk and build confidence • How to stop questioning yourself and start creating a plan for success   If you enjoyed this episode, here are a few more conversations I think you'll love: #21-Why Hairstylist Think about Quitting and What Most Don't See Yet #18- Emotionally Drained behind the Chair? How Hair Stylists Prevent Burnout and protect Their Energy #8- Hairstylist Encouragement Remember Why You Started behind the Chair   If this episode encouraged you, I'd be so grateful if you'd subscribe, leave a review, and share it with another hairstylist who needs to hear this today. Ready to build a fully booked chair? If today's episode encouraged you, I'd love to invite you to watch my free masterclass: How I Went from an Empty Chair to Fully Booked in 6 Months (and the 3 Things I Did That Made the Biggest Difference) Inside, I'll walk you through the exact mindset shifts and business strategies that helped me rebuild my clientele and create a consistent, profitable business behind the chair. You can watch it for free here: Empty to Fully Booked Workshop [https://www.onpointhairbysherri.com/fully-workshop] Want more? Everything else — the podcast, courses, and free resources — lives at https://www.onpointhairbysherri.com   Connect with Sherri: sherri@onpointhairbysherri.com

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episode 43| Financial Freedom Behind the Chair Isn't a Fantasy: My Real Numbers After 40 Years artwork

43| Financial Freedom Behind the Chair Isn't a Fantasy: My Real Numbers After 40 Years

Do you ever wonder what your numbers would actually look like if you stopped guessing and started really knowing your business? Have you ever quietly wished you could scale back your schedule… without your income falling apart? Do you keep your personal and business money so tangled together that you couldn't tell someone your real numbers if you tried? In this episode of Cutting Through It, I'm getting personal about my own numbers after 40 years behind the chair, including the schedule I run today and what it actually took to get here. Because the truth is…for a long time, I had no real idea what I was actually making. In this episode, I'm walking you through the story behind my numbers, the early years of breaking even, the burnout that followed, and the shift that changed everything about how I run my business today.  In This Episode, You'll Learn: * Why “two days a week” almost sounds like a fantasy — and what it actually took to get there * The real reason I had no idea what I was making for years * What finally forced me to get honest about my numbers * The one money habit I wish I'd started years earlier * Why breaking my numbers apart changed how I saw my entire business * What gave me permission to finally scale back my schedule If you're ready to stop guessing about your business and start building a schedule and income that actually works for your life, I'd love for you to join me inside my free workshop:  From Empty to Fully Booked 👉 https://www.onpointhairbysherri.com/from-empty-to-fully-booked-workshop [https://www.onpointhairbysherri.com/from-empty-to-fully-booked-workshop]  Learn More 👉 https://www.onpointhairbysherri.com [https://www.onpointhairbysherri.com/]  Connect Join my free Facebook community for hairstylists: Hairstylist Tips: Cutting & Getting Clients [https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1E8VpoBf4p/] Have a question? Email me directly: sherri@onpointhairbysherri.com

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episode 42| The Client Retention Secret No One Talks About artwork

42| The Client Retention Secret No One Talks About

If a client has ever told you, "I love the way you style my hair, I just could never do this at home"… That's not a compliment. It's a red flag. And it might be quietly costing you your best clients. This episode is for you if you've ever had a client who loved their cut in the chair, went quiet for a few weeks, and then just... stopped booking. You never got a complaint. You never got a reason. They just disappeared. 👉 It's not because they didn't love your work. 👉 It's not because they found someone cheaper. 👉 It's because of something that happens the second they walk out your door — and most stylists never think to fix it.    What You'll Learn in This Episode 1️⃣ The "Compliment" That's Actually a Retention Red Flag I break down why "I love it, I just can't do it myself" is one of the clearest warning signs in the industry, and why the real test of a great haircut isn't how it looks walking out of your salon. 2️⃣ How to Become a "Beauty Detective" With Every Client I walk you through the method I use to find out exactly what's really happening with a client's hair at home, from their tools to their products to their day-to-day life, so you know precisely what to teach them and how. 3️⃣ The Simple Follow-Up Habit Most Stylists Skip I share the one thing I do after the appointment that's quietly been one of the biggest reasons I've built a long-term, loyal clientele, and why it works even better than you'd expect.  A Mindset Shift to Take with You Client retention isn't just about the cut. It's about what happens after your client leaves your chair, and whether they can succeed with their hair on their own. I also talk about my free workshop, where I share the three things that made the single biggest difference when I rebuilt my business in six months, going from an empty chair to a fully booked chair. If you want that breakdown, grab your spot below. Xo, Sherri ✂️   Grab Your Free Spot in the Workshop → The 3 Things That Took Me from an Empty Chair to a Fully Booked Chair in 6 Months: From Empty to Fully Booked Workshop [https://www.onpointhairbysherri.com/from-empty-to-fully-booked-workshop] Want more? Visit my website👉 https://www.onpointhairbysherri.com   Connect with Sherri: sherri@onpointhairbysherri.com

13. juli 202620 min
episode 41| Before You Say Yes to That Client: 3 Consultation Red Flags Every Hairstylist Should Know artwork

41| Before You Say Yes to That Client: 3 Consultation Red Flags Every Hairstylist Should Know

Before You Say Yes to That Client… Have you ever been halfway through a service and thought, "I wish I had never started this." Every hairstylist has experienced that sinking feeling at least once. Sometimes it isn't about whether you have the technical skills to perform the service. It's about recognizing the warning signs before you begin, setting realistic expectations, and having the confidence to protect both your reputation and your peace of mind. In this episode, I'm sharing a real story that reminded me why trusting your instincts is one of the most valuable skills you can develop behind the chair. I'll walk you through three consultation red flags that can help you avoid difficult situations, build stronger client relationships, and confidently say yes to the right clients. In This Episode, You'll Learn: • How to recognize consultation red flags before they become costly mistakes. • Why listening to a client's body language is just as important as listening to their words. • How to identify when a client isn't trusting your professional expertise. • Why saying "no" to the wrong client creates room for the right clients. • How trusting your instincts can protect your confidence, your reputation, and your business. Ready to Build a Fully Booked Chair? Building a successful business isn't about saying yes to every client. It's about attracting the right clients and creating a business you love. I'd love to invite you to watch my FREE masterclass: How I Went from an Empty Chair to Fully Booked in 6 Months (and the 3 Things I Did That Made the Biggest Difference). Inside, I'll share the exact mindset shifts and business systems that helped me rebuild my clientele, build a fully booked chair, and create a profitable business behind the chair. 🎥 Click the link here- Empty to Fully Booked Workshop [https://www.onpointhairbysherri.com/fully-workshop]   If you enjoyed this episode, here are a few more conversations I think you'll love: 🎧 #3- The Power of a Consultation-How to Turn First Time Clients into Lifelong Clients 🎧 #16- Client Consultation: The Step-by-Step Plan to help Keep Clients Coming back 🎧 #27-Hair Consultation Tips: How to Guide Your Client to the Right Style Even When They Want Something else   If this episode encouraged you, I'd be so grateful if you subscribed to the podcast, left a review, and shared it with another hairstylist who could use a little encouragement today.

6. juli 202616 min
episode 40| The Three Lies Hair Stylists Tell Themselves and How to Stop believing Them artwork

40| The Three Lies Hair Stylists Tell Themselves and How to Stop believing Them

Have you ever caught yourself thinking... "I'm not good enough." "Everyone else is doing better than me." "Maybe I made the wrong decision." If so, you're not alone. As hairstylists, the hardest conversations we often have aren't with our clients. They're the conversations we have with ourselves. In this episode, I'm sharing three of the biggest lies I see hairstylists tell themselves and, more importantly, how to replace them with thoughts that build confidence instead of tearing it down. We'll talk about why learning your craft feels uncomfortable, how comparison steals your confidence, and what to do when you start questioning whether you're really cut out for this career. If you've been feeling discouraged, overwhelmed, or stuck, this episode is here to remind you that your current circumstances don't define your future. In this episode, you'll learn: • Why feeling uncomfortable doesn't mean you're failing • How to stop comparing yourself to other hairstylists • Why your mindset matters just as much as your technical skills • Practical ways to change your self talk and build confidence • How to stop questioning yourself and start creating a plan for success   If you enjoyed this episode, here are a few more conversations I think you'll love: #21-Why Hairstylist Think about Quitting and What Most Don't See Yet #18- Emotionally Drained behind the Chair? How Hair Stylists Prevent Burnout and protect Their Energy #8- Hairstylist Encouragement Remember Why You Started behind the Chair   If this episode encouraged you, I'd be so grateful if you'd subscribe, leave a review, and share it with another hairstylist who needs to hear this today. Ready to build a fully booked chair? If today's episode encouraged you, I'd love to invite you to watch my free masterclass: How I Went from an Empty Chair to Fully Booked in 6 Months (and the 3 Things I Did That Made the Biggest Difference) Inside, I'll walk you through the exact mindset shifts and business strategies that helped me rebuild my clientele and create a consistent, profitable business behind the chair. You can watch it for free here: Empty to Fully Booked Workshop [https://www.onpointhairbysherri.com/fully-workshop] Want more? Everything else — the podcast, courses, and free resources — lives at https://www.onpointhairbysherri.com   Connect with Sherri: sherri@onpointhairbysherri.com

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episode 39| 3 Habits That Could Change Your Business in the Next 30 Days artwork

39| 3 Habits That Could Change Your Business in the Next 30 Days

Episode 40: 3 Habits That Could Change Your Business in the Next 30 Days What if growing your clientele faster isn't about finding a new marketing strategy, posting more on social media, or working longer hours? What if it's about a few simple habits that most hairstylists overlook? In this episode, I'm sharing three habits that helped me take ownership of my business, make better decisions behind the chair, and create more opportunities for growth throughout my career. These aren't flashy strategies. They're simple actions that can help you build momentum, increase confidence, and start treating your chair like the business it truly is. In this episode, you'll learn: *  Why knowing your numbers can completely change the way you make decisions in your business *  How to stop seeing gaps in your schedule as a problem and start seeing them as opportunities *  Why the way you show up each day impacts your confidence, consultations, client experience, and income *  How small habits practiced consistently can lead to big results over time If you've been frustrated because your books aren't growing as fast as you'd like, this episode will help you shift from reacting to your business to leading it.   👉If you're ready to stop guessing and get clear on what to focus on next, I've made the replay of my Fully Booked Chair Workshop available for you. Inside the workshop, you'll learn: • What's really keeping many hairstylists stuck • How to identify what stage of business growth you're in • What to focus on next to build a more consistent clientele • How to create a roadmap toward a fully booked chair Plus, you'll receive the Fully Booked Chair Self-Assessment and 30 Day Chair Building Action Plan. Watch the workshop here :Empty to Fully Booked Workshop [https://www.onpointhairbysherri.com/fully-workshop]   Connect With Me If you enjoyed this episode, I'd love for you to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with another hairstylist who could use a little encouragement today. Instagram: @onpointhairbysherri Website: www.onpointhairbysherri.com

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