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Ep. 91 - My Cat Doesn't Want to Be Touched ❤️🐾

7 min · 18. juni 2026
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Lilly was a feral kitten who didn't trust humans and wanted nothing to do with being touched. Every attempt to pet, brush, or care for her was met with hissing and swatting. In this podcast episode of Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/], I share Lilly's journey from a frightened feral kitten to a cat who finally felt safe, and the lesson she taught me about trust, patience, and not taking a cat's fear personally. What You'll Learn in this Cat Podcast * Why some cats don't like being touched * How fear can look like rejection * The challenges of socializing a feral cat * Why trust doesn't always look like cuddles * How patience helped Lilly become part of a multi-cat family Timestamps & Chapters 00:00 - My Cat Doesn't Want to Be Touched 00:31 - Lilly's Life in the Cat Community 01:49 - The Tree Rescue 02:50 - Bringing Lilly Inside 03:35 - Why Touch Felt Unsafe 04:47 - Learning to Socialize a Fearful Cat 05:42 - The Vet Visit That Changed Everything 06:18 - What Trust Really Looks Like 07:08 - Episode End This is where I’ve gathered everything that supports me and my cats: https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/ [https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/] About the Diary of a Cat Mom Podcast Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] is a quiet, personal cat podcast created by Dagmar Gatell [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about-the-host/], sharing real moments, emotions, and experiences from life with cats [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about/]. This space is meant for connection, comfort, and companionship. Everything shared comes from lived experience as a cat mom and is not intended as professional veterinary advice. Every cat is unique, and for health concerns, it’s always best to consult your trusted veterinarian. Most of all, please remember:  You’re not alone on this journey. We’re learning, loving, and growing together — one paw print at a time.

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